Have you ever dated a girl that you didn't like....?

Well, I am kinda of dating this girl for the last 4 months and in the first couple of months i kinda of liked her but now i find more and more that i don't like her. However, i have been slowly showing her signs that i am no longer interested in her cause i hardly ever call her back, i am always reluctant for her to come over, etc. Nevertheless, she is so persistent. I feel guilty cause when i met her she was a 24 yr old virgin when i met her no shes not. So i think i feel guiltily to just cut her off since i did take her virginity.

She is the one who first said she didn't want to get serious but has since shown signs that she wants to so i was tricked. And since i have never "officially" said we are going out she has since has suggested that we are in fact "boy friend and girl friend."

And when i try to ignor her i'll get 12 missed calls through out the day.

And me trying to be the "dead beat boy friend" has not effectively worn down her will to the point she just moves on. It seems like it makes her try harder. :/

Have any of you been in this situation and if so what have you done?

whenever i didn't want to go out with a girl anymore i kinda just told her

nope, but you should break up with her.

You are just leading her on, and there is no point continuing the relationship

Sounds like you should officially just cut her loose. Just say it's not working, better than leading her on like this.

i did once just cause i did not want to hurt her feelings.

Do you realize that kind of attitude is the one women love? The worse you treat her, the closer she'll stay to you.dont-read-this

Yes. Simply because she asked me out and it seems like most women today are against that for some foolish reason. So I went out for her out of respect for what she did. I've actually done this more than once. :P

Why of course I have.

I have dated a girl I didn't like, but in a different way.

She was my first girlfriend. She had an awesome personality, she was smart, funny, we could spend hours just talking about all kinds of stuff and the talk would never get boring, all in all I just loved being around her. But I didn't really like her physically; she was kind of chubby and even though she wasn't ugly she wasn't anything special, either, but after giving it a lot of thought I decided to start dating her anyway, and it just might have been the best decision I've ever made. 4 years later we're still going strong, I love her more than ever; she has even lost some weight since we started dating without me saying anything, and it turns out she looks really pretty with long hair (her hair was shorter than mine when I met her). :)

No I have never dated a girl that i have not liked. Nor have I dated a girl I liked...nor have a dated period...:(...:cry:...

Yes. I quickly found out that she didn't have much of a personality.

I almost did, but her discovery of a thread I made about it took care of it for me :PDivergeUnify

Never, I only date girls I see a future with..michael_1234576

Not even for the money :shock:

Well its better you realize that you dont like her after 4 months of dating then 4 years after marriage.

[QUOTE="michael_1234576"]Never, I only date girls I see a future with..realistic44

Not even for the money :shock:

[QUOTE="DivergeUnify"]I almost did, but her discovery of a thread I made about it took care of it for me :Pneedled24-7

I have dated a girl I didn't like, but in a different way.

She was my first girlfriend. She had an awesome personality, she was smart, funny, we could spend hours just talking about all kinds of stuff and the talk would never get boring, all in all I just loved being around her. But I didn't really like her physically; she was kind of chubby and even though she wasn't ugly she wasn't anything special, either, but after giving it a lot of thought I decided to start dating her anyway, and it just might have been the best decision I've ever made. 4 years later we're still going strong, I love her more than ever; she has even lost some weight since we started dating without me saying anything, and it turns out she looks really pretty with long hair (her hair was shorter than mine when I met her). :)

black_cat19

there's a good story

Well, I am kinda of dating this girl for the last 4 months and in the first couple of months i kinda of liked her but now i find more and more that i don't like her. However, i have been slowly showing her signs that i am no longer interested in her cause i hardly ever call her back, i am always reluctant for her to come over, etc. Nevertheless, she is so persistent. I feel guilty cause when i met her she was a 24 yr old virgin when i met her no shes not. So i think i feel guiltily to just cut her off since i did take her virginity.

She is the one who first said she didn't want to get serious but has since shown signs that she wants to so i was tricked. And since i have never "officially" said we are going out she has since has suggested that we are in fact "boy friend and girl friend."

And when i try to ignor her i'll get 12 missed calls through out the day.

And me trying to be the "dead beat boy friend" has not effectively worn down her will to the point she just moves on. It seems like it makes her try harder. :/

Have any of you been in this situation and if so what have you done?

Trinitarian

OMG! dude by ignoring her your making yourself a CHALLENGE to her, that attracts her more! Didn't you ever see that girl that keeps flirting with you more, and you show NO signs of interest, what does that do? she steps up her game to try to convince you, yet it works to no avail. Just end the relationship in a kind way. By being a challenge to her you only make things worse

[QUOTE="needled24-7"]

[QUOTE="DivergeUnify"]I almost did, but her discovery of a thread I made about it took care of it for me :PDivergeUnify

Yes I was in a similar situation, and I broke up with her. There's really no point in continuing a relationship you're not invested in, someone's going to get hurt somewhere down the line. I'm personally of the opinion that in most instances the first person you sleep with isn't going to be the one anyways, and I don't think supporting her illusion that the two of you are going to be together forever is going to do any good.

[QUOTE="dont-read-this"]Do you realize that kind of attitude is the one women love? The worse you treat her, the closer she'll stay to you.Trinitarian

yeah, i told her and she was pretty pissed. But I didn't take her virginity away haha

Ah the old "It's not me it's you" situation. No Ican't say I have been there.:P

Break with her if you don't like her and stop hoping that she will break up with you if you are bad enough to her as you are just going to hurt her in the process.

The only time i dated a girl i did not really like it was a blind date. I made it obvious by buying an extra pack of cigarettes and chain smoking during the movie.

It was at a drive in - I left the window open and just lit one after the other.

Yea i have,it was my last GF