Have you ever fallen in love but the situation was awkward?

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#1 jarhead1990
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My step sister Shannon is one of the mose beautiful girls i have ever seen and i used to love her. I met her when she was 17 and I was 14 so yeah it would never work due ot age difference and the fact that her father is married to my mom. Me and her have no blood relation so i guess it's not that weird but yeah the whole age thing. Anyway i used to let her know i loved her and we spent alot of time together but as friends. But one day she was sleeping over and i spent the night on the sofa. So she walks out fo the room sees me lying downand decides to comw over a jump on me. She stayed on my for about 5 minutes and we taled about god knows what and she kissed me then got off me. Yes it was very awkward but awsome :P.

Eventually my mom and step dad decided to buy a house together and my step sister came along. She was 19 years old at this time. She lived together for two and witnessed her go down hill. She used to be my favorite person in the world but she prettty much became a real b1tch and fake i guess you can say. She used to be real, some you can talk to, but she changed and started sleeping with random men and went threw scum boyfriends like nothing. ANyways she evenutally moved out and by that time we were hardly talking sinc ei lost most of my respect and love for her. She visits every so often. And today she visited for thanksgiving (canada) and she decided to sit beside me. We talked for a little bit and everyone around the table. They're are alot of people at my house for the occasion so yeah we were sittingclose enough for our knees to touch.She used to do these little things, which is what i loved most about her. One of the things was shaking her legs when having a conversation withsomeone. So there I am, sitting at the table listening to her have a conversation with someone and her knee is shaking on my knee and i start getting all mushy. I went down stairs and started tearing, not crying! justa few tears and sniffles:P. So yeah it mademe realiseeven though shes not the person i loved and cared for she is still SHannon and i stillhave thesome love for herdeep down and probably always will.

I just thought i'd share my feelings with you guys. I'm in a pretty sad mood right now and she is still upstairs :(.

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I'm scared...
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#3 Godly_Cure
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Well, that's what blogs are for. Personally, I don't know what the big deal is if you saw her for what she is and don't like her.

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#4 THE_DRUGGIE
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Wait...Your stepsister?

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#5 YeahYes
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Your story wants me to do something destructive to my body. Like smoke.

But nice sig dude

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Now lets all sing Kum Ba Yah...>_>
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#7 thirstychainsaw
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Yep, I fell in love with a muffin once...than I ate it.
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#8 lonewolf604
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so....umm..............you didn't bang her?
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#9 jarhead1990
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almost but not quite
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#10 YeahYes
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almost but not quite jarhead1990

you should of tried harder

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#11 Bloodaxe726
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Yep, I fell in love with a muffin once...than I ate it.thirstychainsaw

That muffin promised I would get to eat it *Runs from the room crying*

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#12 kbubba92
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i would love to have an older sister omg i hate having younger sisters they are soo annoying
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#13 Blazin_Ice
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Ive fallen in love with my gps device in my car, but we agreed that our relationship should be strictly professional
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#14 cametall
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Dude, you are almost like Woody Allen.
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#15 Blood-Scribe
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That's just weird.
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:|
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#17 tomxizor
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Like Greg and Marcia from the Brady Bunch. :P You should've hit that when you had the chance though. :P
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#18 freshgman
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you shoulda of been gettin busy with her b4 her dad married your mom
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Five stars.
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Ive fallen in love with my gps device in my car, but we agreed that our relationship should be strictly professional Blazin_Ice
*Turn around (background) every now and then I get a little bit lonely and you're never coming round.*
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#21 tevwalker13
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So what, you still like her? even after she changed
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#22 Putzwapputzen
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dude, im sry for you
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#23 Zaeryn
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Well my first love was my best friends sister, imagine how weird that was when I was in the same room as both of them at their house.... yeah :|
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#24 Drizzt13
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Whoah...Hey things might work out now, hit it before its too late.
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#25 sandroDX
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well, it didnt happen to me... but my 11 years old step sister kept saying she loved me and even asked me if i wanted to be her boyfriend... i was 16 at the time...
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#26 tomxizor
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well, it didnt happen to me... but my 11 years old step sister kept saying she loved me and even asked me if i wanted to be her boyfriend... i was 16 at the time...sandroDX

That can't be legal. :P

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#27 1005
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Do a barrel roll and get over it mate lol
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#28 sandroDX
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[QUOTE="sandroDX"]well, it didnt happen to me... but my 11 years old step sister kept saying she loved me and even asked me if i wanted to be her boyfriend... i was 16 at the time...tomxizor

That can't be legal. :P

well, now she seems to be interested in my best friend... who is a little too old for her... but hey, whatever i'm safe:P
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[QUOTE="tomxizor"]

[QUOTE="sandroDX"]well, it didnt happen to me... but my 11 years old step sister kept saying she loved me and even asked me if i wanted to be her boyfriend... i was 16 at the time...sandroDX

That can't be legal. :P

well, now she seems to be interested in my best friend... who is a little too old for her... but hey, whatever i'm safe:P

Show her a deformed penis and say it's your best friend's. ;)

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your a fellow doors fan so ill try to give you some advice

this situations needs to be handles very carefully,and im sure you allready know that.so,your feeling like you dont know shannon anymore,she used to be one person and now she isnt,and you dont like the change.you know,and love the shannon that you used to know,though,and you wish you could have the same love again.what i would do,is get in touch with the new shanon,even though you dont like her as much.make friends,be buddies,and just have an allnight conversation if you could.dont be afraid to tell her "i havent had talked with you forever,whats up?" and just rap for hours intill you get to know her present state,or if possible,let it span over a couple days,but it sounds like shes not around often.once you get to know her present state really well,talk to her about how she is now,and why she changed,dont try to change her though,it will only send her away.ask her what her needs are.infact,heres a good link about how to use nonviolent comunication.

so now you know her present state,and you will probably have a better understanding about why she is the way she is now.makes shure she understands how you feel,but dont act like your trying to change her,or judge her.listen,im not going to lie,its near damn impossible to change a person,the only way to do it,is to get her to want to be like you want her to be.which means your going to deal with how she is know,and get her to basicly fall in love,wether its friendly or intimate.

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#31 Quadrifoglio
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Wait...Your stepsister?

THE_DRUGGIE

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My step sister Shannon is one of the mose beautiful girls i have ever seen and i used to love her. I met her when she was 17 and I was 14 so yeah it would never work due ot age difference and the fact that her father is married to my mom. Me and her have no blood relation so i guess it's not that weird but yeah the whole age thing. Anyway i used to let her know i loved her and we spent alot of time together but as friends. But one day she was sleeping over and i spent the night on the sofa. So she walks out fo the room sees me lying downand decides to comw over a jump on me. She stayed on my for about 5 minutes and we taled about god knows what and she kissed me then got off me. Yes it was very awkward but awsome :P.

Eventually my mom and step dad decided to buy a house together and my step sister came along. She was 19 years old at this time. She lived together for two and witnessed her go down hill. She used to be my favorite person in the world but she prettty much became a real b1tch and fake i guess you can say. She used to be real, some you can talk to, but she changed and started sleeping with random men and went threw scum boyfriends like nothing. ANyways she evenutally moved out and by that time we were hardly talking sinc ei lost most of my respect and love for her. She visits every so often. And today she visited for thanksgiving (canada) and she decided to sit beside me. We talked for a little bit and everyone around the table. They're are alot of people at my house for the occasion so yeah we were sittingclose enough for our knees to touch.She used to do these little things, which is what i loved most about her. One of the things was shaking her legs when having a conversation withsomeone. So there I am, sitting at the table listening to her have a conversation with someone and her knee is shaking on my knee and i start getting all mushy. I went down stairs and started tearing, not crying! justa few tears and sniffles:P. So yeah it mademe realiseeven though shes not the person i loved and cared for she is still SHannon and i stillhave thesome love for herdeep down and probably always will.

I just thought i'd share my feelings with you guys. I'm in a pretty sad mood right now and she is still upstairs :(.

jarhead1990
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My step sister Shannon is one of the mose beautiful girls i have ever seen and i used to love her. I met her when she was 17 and I was 14 so yeah it would never work due ot age difference and the fact that her father is married to my mom. Me and her have no blood relation so i guess it's not that weird but yeah the whole age thing. Anyway i used to let her know i loved her and we spent alot of time together but as friends. But one day she was sleeping over and i spent the night on the sofa. So she walks out fo the room sees me lying downand decides to comw over a jump on me. She stayed on my for about 5 minutes and we taled about god knows what and she kissed me then got off me. Yes it was very awkward but awsome :P.

Eventually my mom and step dad decided to buy a house together and my step sister came along. She was 19 years old at this time. She lived together for two and witnessed her go down hill. She used to be my favorite person in the world but she prettty much became a real b1tch and fake i guess you can say. She used to be real, some you can talk to, but she changed and started sleeping with random men and went threw scum boyfriends like nothing. ANyways she evenutally moved out and by that time we were hardly talking sinc ei lost most of my respect and love for her. She visits every so often. And today she visited for thanksgiving (canada) and she decided to sit beside me. We talked for a little bit and everyone around the table. They're are alot of people at my house for the occasion so yeah we were sittingclose enough for our knees to touch.She used to do these little things, which is what i loved most about her. One of the things was shaking her legs when having a conversation withsomeone. So there I am, sitting at the table listening to her have a conversation with someone and her knee is shaking on my knee and i start getting all mushy. I went down stairs and started tearing, not crying! justa few tears and sniffles:P. So yeah it mademe realiseeven though shes not the person i loved and cared for she is still SHannon and i stillhave thesome love for herdeep down and probably always will.

I just thought i'd share my feelings with you guys. I'm in a pretty sad mood right now and she is still upstairs :(.

jarhead1990
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I wouldn't say I fell in love, but I was digging this chick then my roomate started dating her. It was weird for a bit, but I'm use to effed up situations so it was actually sort of normal. Anyway the girl turned out to be cute, but slightly emotional, boring, and a tad bit too much on the upidy side.
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#36 jarhead1990
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your a fellow doors fan so ill try to give you some advice

this situations needs to be handles very carefully,and im sure you allready know that.so,your feeling like you dont know shannon anymore,she used to be one person and now she isnt,and you dont like the change.you know,and love the shannon that you used to know,though,and you wish you could have the same love again.what i would do,is get in touch with the new shanon,even though you dont like her as much.make friends,be buddies,and just have an allnight conversation if you could.dont be afraid to tell her "i havent had talked with you forever,whats up?" and just rap for hours intill you get to know her present state,or if possible,let it span over a couple days,but it sounds like shes not around often.once you get to know her present state really well,talk to her about how she is now,and why she changed,dont try to change her though,it will only send her away.ask her what her needs are.infact,heres a good link about how to use nonviolent comunication.

so now you know her present state,and you will probably have a better understanding about why she is the way she is now.makes shure she understands how you feel,but dont act like your trying to change her,or judge her.listen,im not going to lie,its near damn impossible to change a person,the only way to do it,is to get her to want to be like you want her to be.which means your going to deal with how she is know,and get her to basicly fall in love,wether its friendly or intimate.

guitboxdude25

Haha good advice bro, Doors rule :). But i think i'm just going to leave it alone. I'm pretty much over her its just these weird feeling I get once in a while. And wow i don't know what i was thinking when making that thread look how long it is!