Have you ever felt that you just cant fit in?

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#1 blackhorsemen
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I mean ,like in school . I just cant find people with my same interests / hobbies.

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#2 Mrs_Sesshomaru
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Yes I have felt that way :P
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#3 3DayFinisher
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hell yes, mainly because i dont have many
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#4 hokey-pokey18
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Every day. :)
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#5 Elraptor
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I have found that I fit in very well with myself. Problem solved.
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#6 PickGlove243
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I know what it's like. There's no one in my school who I can see myself as being friends with. I talk to a few kids, but It's not the same as having friends. I miss middle school.
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#7 darkblinkz
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always :cry:
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#8 blackhorsemen
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I have found that I fit in very well with myself. Problem solved. Elraptor

hehe , nice thought.

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#9 bellsmye1
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Ive been in this situation, yes. Its horrible.
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#10 Greedo_What
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What, you mean, if there's like 3 girls and I don't know where to start? Yeah, I think I did pretty good, thank you. Pretty good.
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#11 LegendKiller04
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Yes, ive met no one in real life that likes anime other than Naruto.:cry:
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#12 -Rail_Man-
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of course.
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#13 foxhound_fox
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I found in my experiences in school that "fitting in" is not important. Being yourself is. Make friends who like you for who you are, not who you "should" be. Be different, be unique, social diversity is what makes this world such a great place to live in.
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#14 lord_mordain
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Yeah man.... It just gets worse and worse....

I used to be a 29 in the waist... Now I'm a 32....

I just fit in fewer and fewer clothes....

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#15 Raider47
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well i got plenty of friends but i find it hard to make new friends by myself. but if im with my friends and talk with other plp im fine
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#16 LegendKiller04
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I found in my experiences in school that "fitting in" is not important. Being yourself is. Make friends who like you for who you are, not who you "should" be. Be different, be unique, social diversity is what makes this world such a great place to live in.foxhound_fox

Now we know!

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#17 blackhorsemen
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Yes, ive met no one in real life that likes anime other than Naruto.:cry:LegendKiller04

lol

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#18 fax555241
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Yes I have.
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#19 MagnumPI
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I mean ,like in school . I just cant find people with my same interests / hobbies.

blackhorsemen

Maybe you should stop being so picky. Stop trying to be friends with the people you want to be friends with and find people that do share your intrests.

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#20 LegendKiller04
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[QUOTE="blackhorsemen"]

I mean ,like in school . I just cant find people with my same interests / hobbies.

MagnumPI

Maybe you should stop being so picky. Stop trying to be friends with the people you want to be friends with and find people that do share your intrests.

Maybe I just read this wrong, but lolwut?

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#21 Raider47
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my problem isnt really fitting in its just finding a girl to go out with that is hot
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#22 blackhorsemen
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[QUOTE="blackhorsemen"]

I mean ,like in school . I just cant find people with my same interests / hobbies.

MagnumPI

Maybe you should stop being so picky. Stop trying to be friends with the people you want to be friends with and find people that do share your intrests.

I´ve tried both things .

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I have found that I fit in very well with myself. Problem solved. Elraptor

that kinda sounds like a pathetic answer, not to be mean or anything, but you really didn't help him out very much and obviously thats what this person needs really some sort of way to console him almost, to relate ya know? I think you might want to try again and as for me? I've never fit in, in fact a lot of people don't like because of some of things that I like. But i've gotten through and have found friends who do like the same things as me and i've cherised those friends and the moments that we've had together always. It's a bump in the road, a very large one to be exact but you'll find a way to get over it... people always do and im sure that you are not an exception. Look harder for those friends who share the same thoughts and ideas as you, I'm sure you'll find them in the end:)

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#24 blackhorsemen
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[QUOTE="Elraptor"]I have found that I fit in very well with myself. Problem solved. ALTER_duo

that kinda sounds like a pathetic answer, not to be mean or anything, but you really didn't help him out very much and obviously thats what this person needs really some sort of way to console him almost, to relate ya know? I think you might want to try again and as for me? I've never fit in, in fact a lot of people don't like because of some of things that I like. But i've gotten through and have found friends who do like the same things as me and i've cherised those friends and the moments that we've had together always. It's a bump in the road, a very large one to be exact but you'll find a way to get over it... people always do and im sure that you are not an exception. Look harder for those friends who share the same thoughts and ideas as you, I'm sure you'll find them in the end:)

That´s a nice advise bro

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#25 xXBuffJeffXx
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In some social settings, many actually,I do feel that I just can't fit in but I have a solid group of friends that I wouldn't trade for the world.
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#26 ALTER_duo
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[QUOTE="ALTER_duo"]

[QUOTE="Elraptor"]I have found that I fit in very well with myself. Problem solved. blackhorsemen

that kinda sounds like a pathetic answer, not to be mean or anything, but you really didn't help him out very much and obviously thats what this person needs really some sort of way to console him almost, to relate ya know? I think you might want to try again and as for me? I've never fit in, in fact a lot of people don't like because of some of things that I like. But i've gotten through and have found friends who do like the same things as me and i've cherised those friends and the moments that we've had together always. It's a bump in the road, a very large one to be exact but you'll find a way to get over it... people always do and im sure that you are not an exception. Look harder for those friends who share the same thoughts and ideas as you, I'm sure you'll find them in the end:)

That´s a nice advise bro

thanx man just tryin to help out a fellow stranger is all

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#27 iloverikku11
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right here.
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#28 Raider47
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In some social settings, many actually,I do feel that I just can't fit in but I have a solid group of friends that I wouldn't trade for the world.xXBuffJeffXx

i wouldnt be to sure about that. the world is a big place full of hot chicks many other plp to b friends with and not to mention all the money. i think ur friends would understand if u traded them for the world

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[QUOTE="xXBuffJeffXx"]In some social settings, many actually,I do feel that I just can't fit in but I have a solid group of friends that I wouldn't trade for the world.Raider47

i wouldnt be to sure about that. the world is a big place full of hot chicks many other plp to b friends with and not to mention all the money. i think ur friends would understand if u traded them for the world

They might beat me up, though. :(

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#30 blackhorsemen
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[QUOTE="Raider47"]

[QUOTE="xXBuffJeffXx"]In some social settings, many actually,I do feel that I just can't fit in but I have a solid group of friends that I wouldn't trade for the world.xXBuffJeffXx

i wouldnt be to sure about that. the world is a big place full of hot chicks many other plp to b friends with and not to mention all the money. i think ur friends would understand if u traded them for the world

They might beat me up, though. :(

lol

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#31 JohnBasedow
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just hang with some fairy metro guidoguys at the club. They seem to attract todays ladies.....

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#32 Greedo_What
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just hang with some fairy metro guidoguys at the club. They seem to attract todays ladies.....

JohnBasedow
I think they tend to attract each other more...
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I mean ,like in school . I just cant find people with my same interests / hobbies.

blackhorsemen

Well, you could work your way into people's lives. Ask someone in class for help. Someone that you have observed to be a decent person as far as in class details. Just asking a small question could be a way to initiate conversation and hopefully friendship.

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#34 SpootyHead
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When I first started high school, but now I fit in. I have my friends, I know a lot of people that don't hate me, lol.
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#35 camreeno360
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Yes, a lot of times when we're asked to form and work in groups in school. I always seem to be the one in the group the rest of the members just forget about. Such as today we got in groups of 3 to work our classwork. The guy and the girl who were the other 2 partners just chatted away like they already knew each other while when I tried giving a hand they just didn't really care. It's frusterating and irritating knowing you have to be forced into that sometimes.
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#36 ss_713
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I know what it's like. There's no one in my school who I can see myself as being friends with. I talk to a few kids, but It's not the same as having friends. I miss middle school.PickGlove243

I can relate to that completely.

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#37 Udsen
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I think that way every single day. I'm too smart for my age.
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#38 dante_123456
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yeah, it's kinda hard finding other hardcore gamer/Otaku metal heads :lol:
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#39 Oleg_Huzwog
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I think that way every single day. I'm too smart for my age.Udsen

...but not smart enough to figure out a way to fit in?

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#40 Udsen
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[QUOTE="Udsen"]I think that way every single day. I'm too smart for my age.Oleg_Huzwog

...but not smart enough to figure out a way to fit in?

Smart enough to realize "fitting in" isn't a requirement in life.

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Everyday waiting outside of our geography class :)
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#42 -Sniper99-
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Yeah man.... It just gets worse and worse....

I used to be a 29 in the waist... Now I'm a 32....

I just fit in fewer and fewer clothes....

lord_mordain
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#43 MichaeltheCM
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Oh Yeah! i hate it :(
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#44 cool_baller
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Not really
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#45 GodLovesDead
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I mean ,like in school . I just cant find people with my same interests / hobbies.

blackhorsemen

You got to change, You'll be better off. I hang out with many different cliques.

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#46 greenpyro33
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nope. It's not hard to fit in if you're a sports guy. Looking good can't hurt either ;)
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#47 Sajo7
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I think everyone does sometimes.
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#48 TAMKFan
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Yes, a lot.
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#49 Matts07
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I just started highschool and its freakin awsome i got a girl friend like a week in and shes really cool and everyone knows me, im saying that im like friends with everyone cause im not everyone knows me so i have ppl to talk with and stuff.