Have you ever got too friendly with someones wife?

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#1 Evil_Saluki
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We should certainly hope not, but has it ever happened to you or anyone you know? Maybe someone elses wife got too friendly with you! I have a story to tell, I'm not saying this is recent, it could date back a while.

I met a girl during my studies, I was instantly taken by her. It's a good thing i'm not the direct flirty type, as it didn't take long to figure out after talking to her regarding the subject that she was married. The thing is, we had so much in common it was freaky. Her humor was on the same level as mine, her tastes in music and fashion were identicle. We sat next to each other all the time, we spent our breaks together. I'll drive her someplace for lunch, or we'll just stay around the college and chat about random stuff. We became very good friends, from an outside perspective some may of mistaken us for a couple.

I didn't have any intention of causing friction in her relationship, hell no! But I must admit, their were thoughts in my mind of "in another life" and sometimes "we better not get drunk together". I have my reasons for believing that the feeling was mutural.

In time, I also got to know her husband. A huge guy, over 6ft, about 70% of his body tattooed. He's a good man, it made me glad to be friends with them. I'm glad nothing too serious ever happened because I would of deeply regretted it.

I seem to be missing some important details in this story.

1) I once brought her a present which she was a little 'overjoyed' with.

2) To use the term lightly, we touched.

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#2 Lance_C
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Ehh.. I don't think so.. I don't really like married women, because they're mostly much older than I am.. but that's just my two cents.
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We should certainly hope not, but has it ever happened to you or anyone you know? Maybe someone elses wife got too friendly with you! I have a story to tell, I'm not saying this is recent, it could date back a while.

I met a girl during my studies, I was instantly taken by her. It's a good thing i'm not the direct flirty type, as it didn't take long to figure out after talking to her regarding the subject that she was married. The thing is, we had so much in common it was freaky. Her humor was on the same level as mine, her tastes in music and fashion were identicle. We sat next to each other all the time, we spent our breaks together. I'll drive her someplace for lunch, or we'll just stay around the college and chat about random stuff. We became very good friends, from an outside perspective some may of mistaken us for a couple.

I didn't have any intention of causing friction in her relationship, hell no! But I must admit, their were thoughts in my mind of "in another life" and sometimes "we better not get drunk together". I have my reasons for believing that the feeling was mutural.

In time, I also got to know her husband. A huge guy, over 6ft, about 70% of his body tattooed. He's a good man, it made me glad to be friends with them. I'm glad nothing too serious ever happened because I would of deeply regretted it.

I seem to be missing some important details in this story.

1) I once brought her a present which she was a little 'overjoyed' with.

2) To use the term lightly, we touched.

Evil_Saluki

how long have you held this in. the over 6" tall husband would have been very pleased to know that you two "touched" i have no stories like this. i would not be happy if my wife had a real close friendship w/ another man.

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#4 needled24-7
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Define "touched" in the context you used it.
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#5 JabbaDaHutt30
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Define "touched" in the context you used it.needled24-7
Shoulder.
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#6 SpidersRMe
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I don't get "friendly"...

I get even.

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#7 sukraj
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No
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#8 Ninja-Hippo
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I once went out with a girl for about a month. She really liked me, and to keep the story short, we ended up breaking up over a complete misunderstanding. We were still friends afterwards. She got another boyfriend, who she was with for about eight months. We were talking one day about how we used to go out, and that's when the 'misunderstanding' came about and we both realised that we had the wrong end of the stick and shouldn't have broke up. She pretty much said right there that she would dump her current boyfriend and go out with me, but i managed to kill the conversation before she said it in as many words. To this day i kinda feel sorry for her boyfriend, as he still goes out with her, completely unaware of the time she was about to drop him like a brick. :P
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no, but some people think that i'm a girl from the boxxy avatar that i have. i get a lot of PMs i think they are mods for some reason.
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#10 deactivated-5e836a855beb2
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I've barely even met anyone's wife. My friends have just started seriously doing the "let's all get married and live happily ever after" thing.
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Not that I know of.
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#12 DarkPrinceXC
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No sorry, I don't find pleasure in ruining other people's relationships.
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#13 Jaguar_Shade
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Never to a married person and never to a person already in a relationship. Jaggy's no homewrecker.
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#14 MrLions
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I think so? This lady always wants me to baby sit her kid for some reason even though she'd still be at home when I go over to watch him. :|
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#15 entropyecho
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Now that you mention it, I have never met my friends' wives.
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#16 Curlyfrii87
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I try to keep my distance from the married ladies!
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#18 Cube_of_MooN
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No... I can't say that's ever happened to me.
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#19 _BlueDuck_
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Wives? No. Girlfriends? Yes.
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#20 entropyecho
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I try to keep my distance from the married ladies!Curlyfrii87

Yoda said, "There is no try." :(

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#21 barcx17
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The only wife I know who's close to my age is my brother's wife. We're cool with each other, but not that cool :?
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#22 GTA_dude
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Hmmm, not that I can remember. Although, girls who are in serious relationships, maybe, girls who are in just relationships, of course
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#23 cpo335
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I think I'd go after someone else's GF, but never a wife (unless I wanted my ass kicked).
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#24 Serraph105
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this has never happened to me but I get where you are coming from. I was kinda in love with my friend's girlfriend for a while (hey its similar) and it sucks because you think about her a lot and you cant really control love.

you can control your actions but that doesnt mean it sucks less more so in fact

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#25 DJ_Lae
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Yeah. They're divorced now; I feel a bit guilty about it.
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#26 elblanquito_81
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Yeah. I had hired this girl when she came in to fill an application at the store I worked at a couple years ago. She was Dominican, and spoke with a pretty heavy accent (which was so ****ing hot) and had a nice, thick booty (kinda the reason why I hired her). Anyway, we hit it off pretty well once she started, and it didn't take long before we started flirting with each other. She had a kid already, so I knew there was another guy in her life but she told me she had left him back in D.R because he didn't "treat her right".

We ended up making out one day in the manager's office after closing and when things started getting good, she stopped me and said she had something to tell me. She had lied when she told me she left her baby daddy back home. She was actually married to the guy and had moved here with her family because they wanted a better life than the one the had back home and he had stayed behind because he owned a business over there and he wanted to leave it in good hands before coming to join her, or some **** like that. Anyway, he had arrived a week or so before our little rendezvous and he wanted her to leave her job because he didn't like the idea of her working. She started to feel like she had made a mistake, not just marrying him, but getting married so young (she was only 19) and felt like she was missing out, not being able to really enjoy her life the way she wanted to. To make a long story short, after she got all that out we talked for a bit and she said she really liked me and wished things had been different but leaving him wasn't exactly an option. Still, she felt like things were going well between us, and since she was leaving there was no reason why something couldn't happen. "I don't want to have any regrets", she told me. And it's not like he would ever find out anyway. So, yeah, we ended up going all the way right there. What's funny is that when we finally left, and I brung the gates down and everything, he was there waiting for her. In my mind I was like, "Oh ****. This m*********** knows something", but it was cool. She introduced me, I shook his hand, said hello and chatted for a couple minutes before we all went our seperate ways. I did miss her for a bit, wished somehow we could see each other again, but it wasn't going to happen, no way we'd be able to keep it a secret. Never really saw her again except when she came to pick up her check but that was it. Did hear from some friends she's had a couple more babies since then though and is still with him. Okay, I'm reminiscing too much now so I'm gonna end it here by saying I don't feel guilty about it, and if given the chance, would happily do it again.

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#27 Omega_Zero69
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no, but some people think that i'm a girl from the boxxy avatar that i have. i get a lot of PMs i think they are mods for some reason. iam2green
are you? :P