I used to, but then I realized that if I tried too hard I wouldnt really be myself. I guess I will always be a weird loser forever:P
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Not really. I guess it was the other way around. People that found me interesting often get ignored.:P
I thought I had the problem so I put too much pressure on myself.
Now, if I don't fit into something, that's others' problem, not my own.
Well I used to like it that I wasnt able to fit in to my environment mostly because anyway most people around me didnt draw my attention and make me want to fit in so that I could approach them and be friends with them. And then I am kind of a lonely person.
But then when this goes on for years you finally change priorities because you are kinda forced.
I moved with my family to New Zealand when I was about 10, and we lived in the bottom of the South Island. Racial stereotypes run rampant there. One of them even told me they hated me because I had a different accent :| Thank God I escaped that hell hole. No offense to anyone from that area. >_>DrSpongeOuch...
And to think that I actually wish I moved to NZ.
Should I avoid it....?
I don't have trouble fitting in people have trouble fitting in with me.Wilfred_Oweni know right, i tried swallowing a person whole once but allmost chocked :x
seriously though i kinda have some trouble, but not as much as i did before. when i comes to being with my freinds, im as talkative and outgoing as a normal person, but with people i dont know. not the same
Ouch...[QUOTE="DrSponge"]I moved with my family to New Zealand when I was about 10, and we lived in the bottom of the South Island. Racial stereotypes run rampant there. One of them even told me they hated me because I had a different accent :| Thank God I escaped that hell hole. No offense to anyone from that area. >_>Teenaged
And to think that I actually wish I moved to NZ.
Should I avoid it....?
Hmm I'm not sure, I hate giving recommendations. I was too young to really experience what it was like but school down South was horrible. We stayed in Auckland for a bit, which is one of the big cities. It seemed nice enough. Why not visit first? I was actually born in Auckland, but I don't really consider myself from New Zealand because I didn't even live there past my first birthday >_> I prefer to label myself as British which is what my parents are.Just be yourself, and youll eventually find people that like who you are. no need to try and change yourself
This. There really isn't a point to be something your not just to fit inI'm always that quiet person who makes no effort to fit in with the crowd.
Guppy507
I don't have too much trouble, people more often then not like me for who I am.michael_1234576
Same here, i do however feel uncomfortable around others some times. The people that don't like me tend to slap a generic label onto me but I could care less. Not everyone is going to like me that I meet.
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