Have you ever lost friends ? Even your best ones ?

I've noticed during my ages from 15 to now (18 ) everything gets very deep in life with the mixes of responsibility and decisions which leads to drama and mixed emotions. . . most likely because this is the part of life. but damn, I noticed that after high school things fall apart (which a lot of people taught me things will) but friends I grew up with and chilled with everysingle day I am so distant from. . It's like when you try to pull the social links of those from your past into the present/future they seem to not budge. . I lost a lot of close friends. Life is crazy when you can't hold onto the people you really care about the most. . Have you ever felt this way ?

I've lost friends. But close ones, no. The truly close ones are the ones that stick with you.

my best friend (who I knew for overa decade) cheated with my girlfriend and ran off with her

I've fallen out of touch with my best friends.

My fault really. I prefer being alone and generally won't contact someone unless they do so first.

I've fallen out of touch with my best friends.

My fault really. I prefer being alone and generally won't contact someone unless they do so first.

howlrunner13

Shortly after I dropped out of school I lost them, but part of that was my own choosing. We were going in two very different directions in life and I found that I couldn't relate to them as much as I once did. I still have dreams about some of them, but to be honest, I don't miss them that much because I associate them with school, and I hated school.

yes, i'd say lots of em'. Mostly just out of touch and drift apart.

I still have friends i was best friends with when i was a litte kid, but we are practically different people today.

Nothing wrong with it, just life.

I've got alot of friends back in primary school.

Then high school came.

1) My best friend went to a different school. Connection... Lost

2) My friends who went to the same school as me ditched me for others, got themselve busted by police for graffiti. Condition... Drifted Away.

3) My other friend who went to the same school went with another group of people, We still talked, very rarely though. Condition... Fell Apart.

Only one friend are still with me, still close. And of Course I made new friends.

I have lost some friends that I once had, but I can tell they weren't really friends to me. Mostly they were using me by wanting to copy off my homework and want me to download them music by burning a cd for them. I still have some close friends on Facebook, but it's not really worth it anymore. I'm thinking of deleting my account and just call them or text them.

I've got alot of friends back in primary school.

Then high school came.

1) My best friend went to a different school. Connection... Lost

2) My friends who went to the same school as me ditched me for others, got themselve busted by police for graffiti. Condition... Drifted Away.

3) My other friend who went to the same school went with another group of people, We still talked, very rarely though. Condition... Fell Apart.

Only one friend are still with me, still close. And of Course I made new friends.

stevoqwerty

I've got alot of friends back in primary school.

Then high school came.

1) My best friend went to a different school. Connection... Lost

2) My friends who went to the same school as me ditched me for others, got themselve busted by police for graffiti. Condition... Drifted Away.

3) My other friend who went to the same school went with another group of people, We still talked, very rarely though. Condition... Fell Apart.

Only one friend are still with me, still close. And of Course I made new friends.

stevoqwerty

I don't have anyone to lose.Lonelynight

[QUOTE="Lonelynight"]I don't have anyone to lose.Fightingfan

I don't have anyone to lose.Lonelynight

I once had a friend and him and we became very close. but he was sad because he was fresh off the boat from the UK and had no friends. Spent months hookin the guy up and helping him meet people and that.

How did he repay me? By spreading rumors about me and exploiting my weak points and turning people I barely knew against me. Within a week the rumors exploded and I lost many friends and acquaintances; but the best ones stuck with me. My core group of about 8 people were still my friends.

The fallout of this also resulted in my best friend of 13 years taking his side and abandoning me because she agreed with most of the things he said and "realized that she hated me." Later found out from his parents that he was a very persuasive sociopath. Figures.

[QUOTE="Lonelynight"]I don't have anyone to lose.supa_badman

Shortly after I dropped out of school I lost them, but part of that was my own choosing. We were going in two very different directions in life and I found that I couldn't relate to them as much as I once did. I still have dreams about some of them, but to be honest, I don't miss them that much because I associate them with school, and I hated school.

dracula_16

That's a sad story. don't associate them with what you hate about school though.

[QUOTE="supa_badman"][QUOTE="Lonelynight"]I don't have anyone to lose.kbpyrokb

[QUOTE="kbpyrokb"][QUOTE="supa_badman"] You're always a bundle of joy.supa_badman

I had an internet friend who I was friends with for almost four years. We chatted often, played games online, exchanged videos of each other, and we even knew exactly where each other lived. We had so much in common, and he even told me I was like a brother to him. Then suddenly, in January of this year, he blocks me from Facebook and Youtube and doesn't even tell me about it. I send him an email and his response declared the end of our friendship. I tell you, he sure had me fooled.

Point being, know who your true friends are, and even then they may not be trusted.

They were killed by the legendary banhammer. Oh the horror. :(

[QUOTE="ExoticAnimal"]Yep. My best friend moved when I was 12 or so. We kept in touch for a bit then just stopped talking to one another completely. Don't even know where he lives or what he's doing now. :( Mkavanaugh77

I'm 16 and have no real friends, not even out of high school yet. Lost my best friend of 12 years simply because she found another one, someone she wouldn't know if it weren't for me. My boyfriend is my best friend and I'm scared to lose him.

I'm 16 and have no real friend. Lost my best friend of 12 years simply because she found another one. My boyfriend is my best friend and I'm scared to lose him.

MrsSolidSnake

I don't have anyone to lose.Lonelynight

I've lost a few. A couple of them got really into marijuana and I got tired of them asking for money and generally being a bum.

People come, people go. That's life.

I'm 22, and haven't lost a friend yet , and hopefully won't have to for a long while. I still talk to most of my friends from high school over facebook, and still get to hang out with them when I'm at home.

Yes. I have no problem with cutting people out of my life, if necessary. They weren't true friends in the first place if I ended up losing them in the end, right? I've had to cut a number of people out of my life before, and I'm sure I'll have to in the future.

Well... recently two of my friends got into an argument about petty things. One who is extremely stubborn and always thinks he is right can't let things go. A week later he completely changed hes attitude towards me.

long story short, he is being completly childish and mad that I hang out with him, trying to make me choose sides... I mean wtf seriously? don't drag me into other peoples problems. I stoped talking to him because of that.

One of my best friends who I've known for 11 years decided to basically shun me and blow me off for another group of friends. It hurt like hell. Haven't seen him in almost 2 years even though we live kinda close to each other. But the good thing is, I have 2 TRUE bros that have sticked with me for my entire life. It feels good to know that you have genuine friends that look after you.

Most definitely. I lost contact with all my elementary school friends since 60% of them moved away prior to entry into this terrible school in my neighbourhood.

I've never ended a friendship over hard feelings, but I've grown distant from some people over the years. I lost touch with most of them after high school, but the best ones are still around and don't seem to be going anywhere.

[QUOTE="stevoqwerty"]

I've got alot of friends back in primary school.

Then high school came.

1) My best friend went to a different school. Connection... Lost

2) My friends who went to the same school as me ditched me for others, got themselve busted by police for graffiti. Condition... Drifted Away.

3) My other friend who went to the same school went with another group of people, We still talked, very rarely though. Condition... Fell Apart.

Only one friend are still with me, still close. And of Course I made new friends.

ShadowofTulkas

Well, I didn't thought of that, but now you got me thinking, in a way, yes, my imaginary friend. :P