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#1 butteman12
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hey guys i really need your help on trying to lose weight. Currently i am 14 years old and 5'8" and i weigh 175 lbs. so im a bit overweight. My goal is to reach to 150 lbs. Btw, my body is mostly fat but i have some pretty muscular arms but my body ismostly just fat. i need to know how to lose 3 lbs a week for about 2 months. so could anyone tell me how many calories i should take in per day and how many calories i should burn a day as well? any help is very much appreciated! Help a guy out :)

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#2 ethanpaige
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My advice would be to quit drinking soda, if you do, and replace it with water. Run a mile or so a day, keep away from junk food, and you should lose weight pretty easily.

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Go to the gym. Eat veggies and tofu.
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if your a guy 2000 calories is the most,

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#5 XD4NTESINF3RNOX
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Go to the gym. Eat veggies and tofu.bronxxbombers
does it work like in Fable :shock:
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#6 ariz3260
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Cut down on your snacks and walk more, take up a sports wouldn't hurt either

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Eat healthy foods and exercise.
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#8 butteman12
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thanks for all the help guys :). i've cut off all the junk food and soda but can anyone tell me how many calories to take in a day and how many to burn a day to lose 3 lbs a week?

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#9 boshlonavish
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I think the absolute minimum you can get is 1200 calories, not sure though, and the idea is to lose more calories than your are consuming. It will help to record what you eat each day and how many calories it has.
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#10 ufcfan17
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Mainly run,take walks,eat healthy food and cut on junkies like md,bk and any form of fast food avaible

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#11 Furi-Kun
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if your a guy 2000 calories is the most,

megapikachu101

Actually for his age it's supposed to be 1500.

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run fast
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Don't do an overnight makeover but slowly phase in health changes over the course of weeks and keeping adding on to them. A common problem I see is people overwork themselves with exercise and give up all their favorite foods and it works for 1 week and then it's back to the old ways because they stressed themselves out to much physically and mentally. To start, try to just jog/walk for about an hour, jog as much as you can, but don't over work yourself, do that 3 times a week, try to rest a day in-between (try to keep track of how long you spend jogging and walking, I use a stop watch). In terms of your eating, try to watch your portions, I would absolutely give up the soda and replace it with water. Get some more fruits and veggies in your diet, like instead of reaching for a bag of chips, grab an apple or some carrots. Get fiber in your diet, it keeps you full for a while, I recommend fiber one cereal. I find hunger urges can be diminished by chewing on some gum. Makes sure you get water in your body though, the brain can be tricked into thinking it's hungry when it really is thirsty. Also chew your food (it's hard to do but take 30 seconds/chews each time, the brain needs time to catch up to the stomach, that's how we over eat, cause we thinking were hungry when we're really not.). Then every week or two phase in another healthy change, like jogging for a longer period of time than before or exercising longer distances or giving up one of your favorite foods or snacks. For now, especially if you're trying to lose weight, focus on your cardio opposed to gaining muscles (ie. pushups, situps, etc, you can phase these in once you get a consistent cardio routine). Honestly, I feel it's all about building mental strength, you don't gain that in a day. You gain it by pushing your body little by little each day. Losing/maintaining weight is a life style change not a 2 month diet.

Good Luck, just remember you can do it. There will be times where you want to quit and if you do, just pick yourself up again and try harder the next day.

P.S. Sorry for the long wall of text, you don't have to read it, but I was in a similar situation as you a year ago, I felt pretty hopeless at times, but a year later, I went from being really chubby to being slightly cut (I'm now finally focusing on my muscles, so my goal of being totally cut is still months away, but I still make sure to get in my cardio 5 times a week).

Edit: As far as your calories go, don't worry about it for now, there is no need for you to count calories gained and lost. You need to first phase in a healthier meal plan and just get some exercise for a consistent period of time before you worry about the exact caloric value of things. Trust me, if you count calories now, you'll most likely lead yourself to quitting or eating binges (because you don't want to cold turkey your body just like that, you have to slowly change).

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Eat 1500-2000 calories and do 250-500 calories of exercise a day. Avoid simple carbohydrates (white bread), refined sugar (chocolate bars), excess fats (fat is 9 cal/gram, while carbs and protein is 4 cal/gram, so eat less fat) and excess sodium (chips, canned soups, ramen). Eat lots of fruit, vegetables, whole wheat products and lean meats. And drink tons of water.

As for exercise, you can walk, climb stairs or play Dance Dance Revolution. I find the latter very effective at burning calories.

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#15 megapikachu101
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[QUOTE="megapikachu101"]

if your a guy 2000 calories is the most,

Furi-Kun

Actually for his age it's supposed to be 1500.

i know i just meant most calories anyone should have is 2k

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stop eating... seriously, it works

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#17 Oey666
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Dude, your 14, so I would not recommend going on a strict diet or anything, but you can -Stop eating fast food. -Stop eating premade food. -Start physical exercise for at least a half an hour pr day. -Drink lots of water, pure, clean water.
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#18 ChenWei23
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WII FIT!!!! But seriously though, try staying away from junk food. ie: chips, pop, donuts, and etc

Start jogging every morning, morning is the best time to exercise...

Edit: And get better sleep, not quantity, but quality... :)

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Umm...excercising might help?

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#20 SerbWarrior
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hey guys i really need your help on trying to lose weight. Currently i am 14 years old and 5'8" and i weigh 175 lbs. so im a bit overweight. My goal is to reach to 150 lbs. Btw, my body is mostly fat but i have some pretty muscular arms but my body ismostly just fat. i need to know how to lose 3 lbs a week for about 2 months. so could anyone tell me how many calories i should take in per day and how many calories i should burn a day as well? any help is very much appreciated! Help a guy out :)

butteman12

Um,how much is that in kilograms?

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#21 ChenWei23
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[QUOTE="butteman12"]

hey guys i really need your help on trying to lose weight. Currently i am 14 years old and 5'8" and i weigh 175 lbs. so im a bit overweight. My goal is to reach to 150 lbs. Btw, my body is mostly fat but i have some pretty muscular arms but my body ismostly just fat. i need to know how to lose 3 lbs a week for about 2 months. so could anyone tell me how many calories i should take in per day and how many calories i should burn a day as well? any help is very much appreciated! Help a guy out :)

SerbWarrior

Um,how much is that in kilograms?

68.03885549996222kg from: http://www.convertunits.com/from/kg/to/lb
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Play a steady regiment of Wii Sports and Wii Fit. I'm serious... >.>
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Don't do an overnight makeover but slowly phase in health changes over the course of weeks and keeping adding on to them. A common problem I see is people overwork themselves with exercise and give up all their favorite foods and it works for 1 week and then it's back to the old ways because they stressed themselves out to much physically and mentally. To start, try to just jog/walk for about an hour, jog as much as you can, but don't over work yourself, do that 3 times a week, try to rest a day in-between (try to keep track of how long you spend jogging and walking, I use a stop watch). In terms of your eating, try to watch your portions, I would absolutely give up the soda and replace it with water. Get some more fruits and veggies in your diet, like instead of reaching for a bag of chips, grab an apple or some carrots. Get fiber in your diet, it keeps you full for a while, I recommend fiber one cereal. I find hunger urges can be diminished by chewing on some gum. Makes sure you get water in your body though, the brain can be tricked into thinking it's hungry when it really is thirsty. Also chew your food (it's hard to do but take 30 seconds/chews each time, the brain needs time to catch up to the stomach, that's how we over eat, cause we thinking were hungry when we're really not.). Then every week or two phase in another healthy change, like jogging for a longer period of time than before or exercising longer distances or giving up one of your favorite foods or snacks. For now, especially if you're trying to lose weight, focus on your cardio opposed to gaining muscles (ie. pushups, situps, etc, you can phase these in once you get a consistent cardio routine). Honestly, I feel it's all about building mental strength, you don't gain that in a day. You gain it by pushing your body little by little each day. Losing/maintaining weight is a life style change not a 2 month diet.

Good Luck, just remember you can do it. There will be times where you want to quit and if you do, just pick yourself up again and try harder the next day.

P.S. Sorry for the long wall of text, you don't have to read it, but I was in a similar situation as you a year ago, I felt pretty hopeless at times, but a year later, I went from being really chubby to being slightly cut (I'm now finally focusing on my muscles, so my goal of being totally cut is still months away, but I still make sure to get in my cardio 5 times a week).

Edit: As far as your calories go, don't worry about it for now, there is no need for you to count calories gained and lost. You need to first phase in a healthier meal plan and just get some exercise for a consistent period of time before you worry about the exact caloric value of things. Trust me, if you count calories now, you'll most likely lead yourself to quitting or eating binges (because you don't want to cold turkey your body just like that, you have to slowly change).

hockey73

^^This advice, about 6yrs ago now I lost 35pounds in 3 weeks from breaking my ribs. Overall after that I lost about another 15lb. But with all that said, the above advice is the wisest one said in here. To add a little though, try to break up your meals into smaller ones. And cut yourself off from eating about 2-3hrs before bed time. Its really hard to do some nights. But usually when you sleep is when your body can burn a lot of calories if your on a empty stomach. This is how I lost my last 15lb.

But, back to the small meals. Try to keep it simple, 100-300 Cals at about 5-6(2-3hrs apart) times a day. It will feel like your eating a lot as you'll always be eating, but it helps your metabolism keep up with ya. Then for working out, try to always workout on a empty stomach(preferable in the morning when you wake up or 2-3hrs after a meal to assure your on a empty stomach). You can eat about 30min to 1hr after your workout of course. But this method gets your body in calorie burning mode and gets used to burning your food when you eat it. Rather than eating then working out, your body can get used to storing food expecting you to burn it off soon afterwards.( I use this method still today in order to maintain my weight).

Now also know that everyones body is different. Even all I said or above said may not be the best method. So find what works for you, the BEST way to lose and maintain weight is to get into a routine. A routine that works, isn't hard to follow, and makes you happy.

The biggest Key to losing weight is SIMPLICITY. So no matter what method works for you, just do your best to keep it simple.

I was actually fatter at your age, which just happens to be the age I was when I lost my weight. I was 200lb at age 14 and was around 5'8-9". Today I'm about 5'10" and 150-154LB. I still watch what I eat and have to work hard to keep the weight off. But its well worth it, the energy I have and overall happiness is just, well Awesome.

Another quick tip(if possible, hard with other family members) keep less food in the house or at least around you. Anyways, sorry for making this all long, wish ya the best of luck. Just believe you can do it. And with time, you certainly will!!

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Also, for the long term you should start doing daily pushups before you go to bed (or whenever you have a spare minute). Start with 20 or 30 (or whatever your max is) and add 5 every week. Pretty soon you'll be a beefcake.

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Scrap all the junk food/sweets/soda and fix up some decent eating routines so you don't have to take extra snacks between the meals. Remember to eat your veggies and exercise.

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stop eating... seriously, it works

Sword-Demon
You gain it back in a day. The idea is to replace fatty foods with veggies.
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#27 Toriko42
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When I was 14 I was 5'6 and I weighed 170 pounds. When I turned 15 I was 5'8 and 150 pounds. A few months later I was 5'10 and 130 pounds. I lost it in a dangerous way though, I went through a period of depression attributed to bullying because of my weight, I didn't eat, I lost massive amounts of weight but luckily I've gotten past it. I don't know how to lost weight in a way that will help you but I can suggest to cut out junk food, eat a healthy diet, eat smaller but more frequent meals, the usual. Drink a ton of water as well.
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#28 Toriko42
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When I was 14 I was 5'6 and I weighed 170 pounds. When I turned 15 I was 5'8 and 150 pounds. A few months later I was 5'10 and 130 pounds. I lost it in a dangerous way though, I went through a period of depression attributed to bullying because of my weight, I didn't eat, I lost massive amounts of weight but luckily I've gotten past it. I don't know how to lost weight in a way that will help you but I can suggest to cut out junk food, eat a healthy diet, eat smaller but more frequent meals, the usual. Drink a ton of water as well.
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3500 calories are in 1 pound of fat. You consume 1500-2000 calories per day to function properly. Just make sure you burn more than you take in and replace that junk that you eat with healthier foods. Joining a gym is the best place to work out because you have that competition factor of everyone else trying to loose weight around you.
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I would say...drink a lot of water or gatorade. Stop drinking stuff that has lots of sugar like soda / kool-aid etc. Try eating chicken salads. :P

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I would say...drink a lot of water or gatorade. Stop drinking stuff that has lots of sugar like soda / kool-aid etc. Try eating chicken salads. :P

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Gatorade is just Kool-aid with added sodium.

No joke.
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ride your bike or jog, and stay away from soda.
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#33 ateace3
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focus on low calorie food. instead of a cheeseburger have a hamburger, instead of eating fries get a baked potato. this small stuff makes a big difference. lifting weights also helps you lose weight as gaining muscle will cause you to burn more calories. try to jog a couple miles each day. take up a new sport or go biking everyday. really you need to stay active.
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Just don't eat any processed food.

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#35 shoot-first
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[QUOTE="shoot-first"]

I would say...drink a lot of water or gatorade. Stop drinking stuff that has lots of sugar like soda / kool-aid etc. Try eating chicken salads. :P

jaydough

Gatorade is just Kool-aid with added sodium.

No joke.

Does it really have that much sugar?

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1.Eat little or no refined sugar (like candy, soda, and ice cream)

2.Exercise at least 5 days a week, for at least an hour. Jogging, biking, swimming, and mild strength training burn fat.

3.Stay away from excess carbs, fat, and sodium.

4.Eat less meat. If you want protein then eat more things like beans instead of meat.

5.Eat fruit for breakfast, not juice; it has way too much sugar. Eat a good serving of veggies at lunch and dinner.

6.Drink lots of water. Drink 2 cups of water before and after each meal.

7.Eat 5-6 small meals a day.

8.Limit yourself to 1000 to 1500 calories. 1500 if you exercise a lot, and 1000 if you don't.

Hope I helped! I am also pretty chubby, and this is what I am doing.

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Also, I commend you on your effort to be healthy. Some people I know your age are careless about their weight and health.

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Just avoid processed foods. Give Mr Capitalist the big FU. Almost all processed foods include hydrogenated fats or trans-fats, with a massive amount of sodium (salt)- salt retains water (makes you seem fat) and sat/trans fats causes obesity and cancer.

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[QUOTE="jaydough"][QUOTE="shoot-first"]I would say...drink a lot of water or gatorade. Stop drinking stuff that has lots of sugar like soda / kool-aid etc. Try eating chicken salads. :Pshoot-first
Gatorade is just Kool-aid with added sodium.

No joke.

Does it really have that much sugar?

There is no difference. Put salt in Kool-Aid, and you have Gatorade.