Help with a girl..

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#1 StarFire571
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So me and this girl have been friends for a while, and one day we were IM'ing and she said that she loved me and wanted to go on a date with me. She jokes around like that a lot (she knows I have a crush on her) and I was pretty sure she was joking. I played along though, and set a date for us and everything. She finally told me that she was joking, BUT that we could hang out sometime if I wanted. She has what you could call stereotypical asian parents, who wont allow her to date or anything, so she has to tell her parents she is hanging out with one of her friends. However, my problem is i'm not sure where to go/what to do with her. Any advice on how to deal with this?

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#2 Chogyam
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ditch her.

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#3 Necrifer
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OOOOOOOH!

Yeah, it's a date.

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#4 XilePrincess
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Go for lunch or something, or do something fun like attending an event going on in your city. Both are things that friends would do together, but if it's just the two of you it's a date.
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#5 Agent-Zero
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Just hang out with her and see where it goes.
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#6 Chogyam
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here, this will help. Ladder theory. You my friend, are on the wrong one.

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#7 EmpCom
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"BUT that we could hang out sometime if she wanted" This i dont get , normally people would say we could hang out sometimes if you wanted . And really you cant think of a single place to take her out too seriously
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#8 Ringx55
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If it's only you two it's a date... Go see a movie or something, it's not difficult.
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#9 StarFire571
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"BUT that we could hang out sometime if she wanted" This i dont get , normally people would say we could hang out sometimes if you wanted . And really you cant think of a single place to take her out too seriouslyEmpCom

Lol yea sorry she said "BUT we could hang out sometime if you want"

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#10 EmpCom
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[QUOTE="EmpCom"]"BUT that we could hang out sometime if she wanted" This i dont get , normally people would say we could hang out sometimes if you wanted . And really you cant think of a single place to take her out too seriouslyStarFire571

Lol yea sorry she said "BUT we could hang out sometime if you want"

Thanks it makes sense now, Heres my advice tell her that with all the joking aside you do like her alot and would like to get to know her better
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#11 Alter_Echo
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Tell her you want to hang out and then don't show up. When she asks where you were, just say "i was joking" and then see how she feels. Afterwards, go out on a date with someone who is worth your time.

She seems like a tease at best and a childish tool at worst. Assuming you aren't both 13 anyway...

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#12 ThePerro
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She's a **** tease. Ditch her.

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#13 imaps3fanboy
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Take her to the library
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#14 spamsauce
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here, this will help. Ladder theory. You my friend, are on the wrong one.

Chogyam
lol. I read thorugh some of this till i got to this " For example, a guy who is a complete ******* to a woman seems to somehow look better to them." AND FOR SOME REASON ITS COMPLETLY TRUE!!! I bend over backwards to be nice, but most girls would rathetr talk to the guy that swears, calls them a ***** and slaps there *** while they walk the hallway... Even if they do it as a joke it still isnt nice... ??? :(
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Are these threads daily? Just hang out for now.
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#16 Bloodseeker23
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Typical asian parents eh? I'll give you the best advice, stay out of her life man. They are VICIOUS... That is all.
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#17 MissLibrarian
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She led you on like that? Ditch her.

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#18 XilePrincess
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Are these threads daily? Just hang out for now.metalguitar13

Every day, multiple times a day. Like me and your mom.

(I had to do it, it was just too easy)

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#19 weezyfb
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So me and this girl have been friends for a while, and one day we were IM'ing and she said that she loved me and wanted to go on a date with me. She jokes around like that a lot (she knows I have a crush on her)

StarFire571
she is playing with you, so side step it
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#20 deactivated-5c37d3adcd094
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I played along though, and set a date for us and everything.StarFire571
"Played along" Whatever you say, OP ;)
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#21 chAzN93
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Take her to the libraryimaps3fanboy
winner.
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#22 Darthkaiser
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here, this will help. Ladder theory. You my friend, are on the wrong one.

Chogyam
Indeed, here is a further example not on the ladder theory but on your case if you decide to keep this further
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#23 laser-pointer
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Just go to the movies or just hang out at your house and watch a movie there if she's comfortable with that.

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#24 Ronstera
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She's just playing with you man, don't get too serious cause she might leave you hanging.. And she probably will..
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#25 ToastRider11
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Just don't let her parents know. Go out with her and everything will alright. Don't forget to touch her shoulder! ;) And her boob!

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#26 hiphops_savior
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Meet with her parents and get on their good side.
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#27 kussese
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here, this will help. Ladder theory. You my friend, are on the wrong one.

Chogyam
I read the whole thing. Brilliant.