How can I stop liking this particular girl?

Well TBH I'm kind of embarrased to be asking around here for "girl help" because most of my posts have nothing to do with this sort of thing.

But anyway, there's this particular girl from my school that I really like, but I dont think I will ever be able to actually be with her because I myself am hilariously unattractive, socially awkward, and I think that she thinks I'm a little bit crazy.

But, of course, my infatuation with her is causing me to be a little bit depressed knowing that I can't get with her.

So how can I stop liking her?

So how can I stop liking her?danwallacefan

Ask her out. She denies you, you know she doesn't like you. You may still be attracted to her after that but maybe you want like her as much. Or start dating someone else and it may take your mind away from her.

Focus on all of her negative features. Minishdriveby

this helps

i had a crush on a girl, thought she was really cool. But then I realized she was an alcoholic and has daddy issues. She also has what I call "pornstar syndrome"

Avoid her. Just don't be a jerk to her, so many people do that.

'His pulling your hair! It's because he likes you!'

It's what five year olds do.

Why turn to gamers for dating advice?

But, if you want to stop, stop. Find another person to like.

Or you could stop being such a coward and ask her out. If she even rejects you, then you can start getting over her. You don't know what she thinks.solid_mario

[QUOTE="solid_mario"]Or you could stop being such a coward and ask her out. If she even rejects you, then you can start getting over her. You don't know what she thinks.danwallacefan

[QUOTE="solid_mario"]Or you could stop being such a coward and ask her out. If she even rejects you, then you can start getting over her. You don't know what she thinks.danwallacefan

Then you are not going to stop liking her and will continue to be creepy.

Write her an absolutely smashing essay pertaining to a priori argumentation stating that it is not possible to traverse an infinite (proven through set theory, of course), and that you bear maximum appreciation for her. That'll hook her in for sure.-Chimera-

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[QUOTE="solid_mario"]Or you could stop being such a coward and ask her out. If she even rejects you, then you can start getting over her. You don't know what she thinks.Sajedene

[QUOTE="-Chimera-"]Write her an absolutely smashing essay pertaining to a priori argumentation stating that it is not possible to traverse an infinite (proven through set theory, of course), and that you bear maximum appreciation for her. That'll hook her in for sure.danwallacefan

:V

Meet me behind the gym in four hours. You'll never like her again.

Well you can settle for stalking her but I dont suggest you doing that.

[QUOTE="danwallacefan"]

[QUOTE="-Chimera-"]Write her an absolutely smashing essay pertaining to a priori argumentation stating that it is not possible to traverse an infinite (proven through set theory, of course), and that you bear maximum appreciation for her. That'll hook her in for sure.-Chimera-

:V

[QUOTE="-Chimera-"]

[QUOTE="danwallacefan"] :lol: have we met before?

danwallacefan

:V

Imagine her taking a dump.RedruM_I

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="danwallacefan"] I dunno, the last time I asked and got rejected hurt like a son-of-a-*****, I dunno if I want to go through that AGAIN.

danwallacefan

Get a bad picture of her and listen to You give Love a bad Name by either bon jovi or Atreyu.

I think the bigger problem here is your lack of confidence and self-esteem, TC. If you want to stop your social awkwardness, you're going to have to change the way you feel about yourself.

Well TBH I'm kind of embarrased to be asking around here for "girl help" because most of my posts have nothing to do with this sort of thing.

But anyway, there's this particular girl from my school that I really like, but I dont think I will ever be able to actually be with her because I myself am hilariously unattractive, socially awkward, and I think that she thinks I'm a little bit crazy.

But, of course, my infatuation with her is causing me to be a little bit depressed knowing that I can't get with her.

So how can I stop liking her?

danwallacefan

[QUOTE="danwallacefan"]

[QUOTE="Sajedene"] You're going to have to... because after all the painful rejections - the risk and the reward of getting a yes is so worth it. And you know... you're too harsh on yourself. If you can't see yourself as great and amazing... how can others?Sajedene

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i didnt get much attention from the ladies (not that I get much as it is, but its definately better lol) until I established some self-confidence and direction. Idunno, I think the opposite sex can see if a guy knows what he wants and how he feels about himself, and they like that.

Just dont be arrogent

[QUOTE="danwallacefan"]

Well TBH I'm kind of embarrased to be asking around here for "girl help" because most of my posts have nothing to do with this sort of thing.

But anyway, there's this particular girl from my school that I really like, but I dont think I will ever be able to actually be with her because I myself am hilariously unattractive, socially awkward, and I think that she thinks I'm a little bit crazy.

But, of course, my infatuation with her is causing me to be a little bit depressed knowing that I can't get with her.

So how can I stop liking her?

Lopur94

Your crush is...Wing?

Focus on all of her negative features. Minishdriveby

Like a 2D girl instead:twisted:

[QUOTE="Minishdriveby"]Focus on all of her negative features. th3warr1or

uh ask her out if she is single and if she says no then you can remake this thread for advice on how to stop liking her, but be a man and at least try.

Either find someone else, ask her on a date, or avoid her for a long time.

Write her an absolutely smashing essay pertaining to a priori argumentation stating that it is not possible to traverse an infinite (proven through set theory, of course), and that you bear maximum appreciation for her. That'll hook her in for sure.-Chimera-

Focus on all of her negative features. Minishdriveby

[QUOTE="Sajedene"][QUOTE="danwallacefan"] how could I possibly believe that when I myself have never been in a relationship with a woman?

mrbojangles25

quoted for truthiness

i didnt get much attention from the ladies (not that I get much as it is, but its definately better lol) until I established some self-confidence and direction. Idunno, I think the opposite sex can see if a guy knows what he wants and how he feels about himself, and they like that.

Just dont be arrogent

It's not easy, but there are a few things you can do that I find helpful. It can be useful to not focus on just one girl, but think about several, that way no full on infatuations develop. If you are already in the midst of an infatuation, trying paying attention to what she is actually like as a person, rather than your idealized conception of her, this usually kills off any lustful thoughts for me. Sometimes waiting for it to die down is the only option though.

Or you could stop being such a coward and ask her out. If she even rejects you, then you can start getting over her. You don't know what she thinks.solid_mario

Write her an absolutely smashing essay pertaining to a priori argumentation stating that it is not possible to traverse an infinite (proven through set theory, of course), and that you bear maximum appreciation for her. That'll hook her in for sure.-Chimera-

[QUOTE="solid_mario"]Or you could stop being such a coward and ask her out. If she even rejects you, then you can start getting over her. You don't know what she thinks.Saturos3091

Or you could stop being such a coward and ask her out. If she even rejects you, then you can start getting over her. You don't know what she thinks.solid_mario

This, I have no idea why guys act like they will die if they get rejected:P

I forgot to mention, castration also works in a pinch.