How can you tell if a girl is playing you?

Ok this is a serious question. There is this girl I've been messing around with and I got the idea that she was playing me so I cut her loose. Now I just want to know what you guys think are the signs of a girl playing you just to see if I made the right decision. I dont want to tell you what she did, as to not influence your answers.

Just for clarification purposes by "playing" you, I dont mean she is cheating on you. What I mean is she is stringing you along for the ride.

Ok...GO!

P.S. - I know right? Pimp master Seraphim making a girl help thread....what's the world come to?

Without knowing what she did I can not give a serious answer. So I'm going to have to say yes.

Throw this at her. Gauge her reaction. You'll know then.Wilfred_Owen

if you think she is then she is

Without knowing what she did I can not give a serious answer. So I'm going to have to say yes.

kidsmelly

Most people aren't bright enough for me not to see right through them. It's the smart and manipulative ones who know how to push peoples' buttons and who are used to everyone kissing their behind all the time no matter what they do because they know how to spin it the right way that I have to watch out for.

It might be somewhat paradoxical, but if you find a girl that nobody ever has ANYTHING bad to say about, you should probably avoid her at all costs. Don't ever get involved with someone who everyone thinks is little miss perfect. :P

I dont want to tell u my circumstancesII_Seraphim_II

But that's the thing it all depends on the circumstances. There's really no definitive sign that a girl is stringing you along. Unless you find something glaringly obvious like, she tells a friend she is....

What do you mean by you were messing around? If she let you sample the goods, then there's not much she could be playing you for, as you're already getting everything.F1_2004

Instincts. As for logic...I guess if you treat herlike dirt and she stays around she must not be playing you. Or you could just respond straight up gangsta by putting a nine to herhead and asking if she's playin you. "You playin me ****"

If she withholds anything, particularly if her reasoning seems suspect (or she simply gives no reason), she's playing you.DJ_Lae

Instincts. As for logic...I guess if you treat herlike dirt and she stays around she must not be playing you. Or you could just respond straight up gangsta by putting a nine to herhead and asking if she's playin you. "You playin me ****"

MagnumPI

[QUOTE="F1_2004"]What do you mean by you were messing around? If she let you sample the goods, then there's not much she could be playing you for, as you're already getting everything.II_Seraphim_II

sounds like she wanted to do her thing whilst YOU and only you were being "loyal". das boot was the way to go

Friends with benefits never works out.

well if she gets up on stage looking like a dude and acting like you of course.

[QUOTE="F1_2004"]What do you mean by you were messing around? If she let you sample the goods, then there's not much she could be playing you for, as you're already getting everything.II_Seraphim_II

What I mean is she is stringing you along for the ride.

II_Seraphim_II

Ride

Do want. ;)

Clingy and overly affectionate in public.

That depends on what kind of woman she is, it's easy to tell if she's a party girl/bad girl etc. But if she's genuinely a nice

innocent girl it's a little different because often times their not aware of the line between flirting and just being plain nice.

When I discover a girl is playing games with me I play harder so I win.

After a bit more thought, I'll also add to my previous statement - if you're to the point where you start asking yourself if a woman is playing you, she's playing you.DJ_Lae

sometimes girls just make me sick

i have never toyed with guys emotions to get what i want

because i don't a guy to do it to me

the best advice i can give you TC is watch out

she could be playing hard to get or she could be another ke$ha skank