how?
This topic is locked from further discussion.
she touches your shoulderscary_snakeI knew someone would say that :P
Only way to know for sure is to ask and then get an answer.
[QUOTE="scary_snake"]she touches your shoulderR-Dot-Yung
will we ever forget this...i doubt it
i tell my friends about this this, so soon the world will know of this
Eye contact, flirting, laughing when stuff isn't funny, touching (playing with) her hair, touching your shoulder, being nicer than usual..O_OdazX_X
especially if she is young (school/college age) or with no much exp.
if older... more about the others. and add: talking about herself, no trivial stuff (if a women want you to know stuff about her, she pry like you) do not let her go to friend zone, but do not be a ***
oh..and overall... they pretend do not like you.
and if she said no 1st time, try a second but no right away (may be playing hard to get) if said no again... forget about it.
EDIT: oh.. an di forgot, walk pass her. if she follows ..she likes what she sees.. ;)
Eye contact, flirting, laughing when stuff isn't funny, touching her hair, touching your shoulder, being nicer than usual..O_OdazX_XI don't think any of those really mean much. Eye contact...well, it might mean something but dont read to much into it. Flirting (which can including laughing when stuff isnt funny) can mean something, but a lot of people are just naturally flirtatious, they flirt with people even when it means nothing. Touching hair, fidgiting, stuff liek that can just as often show disinterest rather then interest...and being nice? well some peopel are just nice... Seriously, there is no golden set of rules. People are different, you have to be good at reading people because there is no sure set of signs. Be direct talk to the person, make a move, don't make it more complicated then it has to be.
Its probably better to send an ambassador for yourself or ask one of her friends instead of doing it directly. The problem with doing it directly is that she may be pressured/ embarrassed and give a different answer. By sending an ambassador / asking her friends you are more likely to get an honest response. Right before I went off to college one of my coworkers told me about another coworker that liked me. Didn't give me any time to act on it though. I have to come up with a course of action for next time I'm home.JocubusSending firends to ask if someone likes you or wants to go out? Unless you're in grade school i'd avoid this method.
[QUOTE="Jocubus"]Its probably better to send an ambassador for yourself or ask one of her friends instead of doing it directly. The problem with doing it directly is that she may be pressured/ embarrassed and give a different answer. By sending an ambassador / asking her friends you are more likely to get an honest response. Right before I went off to college one of my coworkers told me about another coworker that liked me. Didn't give me any time to act on it though. I have to come up with a course of action for next time I'm home.Roland1987Sending firends to ask if someone likes you or wants to go out? Unless you're in grade school i'd avoid this method. Well you probably imagined it as being a formal occassion since I used "ambassador." It is possible to do it with some tact and subtlety without alerting the other person. I wouldn't just go up and ask "So do you like my friend So-and-so?"
[QUOTE="Roland1987"][QUOTE="Jocubus"]Its probably better to send an ambassador for yourself or ask one of her friends instead of doing it directly. The problem with doing it directly is that she may be pressured/ embarrassed and give a different answer. By sending an ambassador / asking her friends you are more likely to get an honest response. Right before I went off to college one of my coworkers told me about another coworker that liked me. Didn't give me any time to act on it though. I have to come up with a course of action for next time I'm home.JocubusSending firends to ask if someone likes you or wants to go out? Unless you're in grade school i'd avoid this method. Well you probably imagined it as being a formal occassion since I used "ambassador." It is possible to do it with some tact and subtlety without alerting the other person. I wouldn't just go up and ask "So do you like my friend So-and-so?"
I just started dating this girl and when we first met I couldn't tell at all that she had feelings for me. When I come to find out she really liked me but was just really nervous around me. I almost gave up on it at one time. Glad I didn't.
So yea...there is no sure fire sign. And like the one guy said...don't be a little boy and have a friend ask her...you'll get no respect from girls that way.
Please Log In to post.
Log in to comment