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#1 kyleali11
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to leave me ALONE!

Let me start off by saying no I have not, nor will I ever be involved in an adultery act with this chick. Our acquaintanceship started by her sitting next to me in a class and I, a natural gentleman, started talking to her even though I don't find her attractive. She then started to sit next to me in all the classes we have together making it impossible for me to talk with another girl which I actually may find attractive. Before this, I was forced to give her my number because she asked to work with me and my buddy on an assignment. Ever since, she has been texting me every day just to start some conversation. Sometimes I don't respond to her texts, so she texts the same buddy to found out where we are. She even started calling me in the morning so I don't sleep in, missing any of the classes I have with her. She has recently started sending me some very weird texts. I want to tell this girl to back off and that she is cramping my style, but my same buddy told me that she has a thing for me. I don't want to hurt her nor do I want to give her a "we should just be friends" talk, but I just need my space. What would you do!?

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#3 Z0MBIES
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Tell her you aren't interested in her. You are making it worse by not telling her. And if she doesn't after you ask nicely, just start being rude.
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#4 rcignoni
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I would sit her down and give her a talk. Either that or get one of your (preferably HER) friends to explain it to her.
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#5 jeremiah06
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Send her a link to this forum post...
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#6 nelson415
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Stop replying to her text messages from now on. She might get the hint.

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#7 TheMightyHoov
Member since 2009 • 2459 Posts

Try being derekjeter?

:lol: jk

In actuality you should just have a talk with her. Draw the line in the sand

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#8 darron504
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dude you gotta be straight up with a girl like this. She prob thinks you're leading her on or something. Just pull her aside on e day and be like "listen, i just see us as being friends"

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#9 --Anna--
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This kind of situation never ends well...just give her the "we should just be friends"! Just do it in private and get it over with.

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#10 jeremiah06
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Stop replying to her text messages from now on. She might get the hint.

nelson415
...That never works... Especially if you see them in person constantly
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#11 ayanami_rei
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Sometimes being blunt about it is the best thing you can do. If she can't get the hint beforehand that you're just wanting to be friends and have no interests in her, then being blunt is the only thing you can do.
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#12 VaguelyTagged
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ask a common friend to tell her you have a GF.

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#13 jeremiah06
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TC trust me... Now that you've got this thread going with people giving you answers post her name then send her the link... After she reads this she'll leave you alone...
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#14 ZumaJones07
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Easy. Get a girlfriend. or whenever she wants to hang out suggest going to the strip club all the time. Go there to eat with her too.
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#15 kyleali11
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The reason why I don't want to have that talk is because the last time I did the little devil reversed it on me and acted like if I was coming on to her. She was all like, "HA don't flatter yourself." She went on and told the whole school.

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#16 cd_rom
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What's her facebook? I'll flatter her so much that she'll completely forget about you.
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#17 jerk-o-tron2000
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to leave me ALONE!

Let me start off by saying no I have not, nor will I ever be involved in an adultery act with this chick. Our acquaintanceship started by her sitting next to me in a class and I, a natural gentleman, started talking to her even though I don't find her attractive. She then started to sit next to me in all the classes we have together making it impossible for me to talk with another girl which I actually may find attractive. Before this, I was forced to give her my number because she asked to work with me and my buddy on an assignment. Ever since, she has been texting me every day just to start some conversation. Sometimes I don't respond to her texts, so she texts the same buddy to found out where we are. She even started calling me in the morning so I don't sleep in, missing any of the classes I have with her. She has recently started sending me some very weird texts. I want to tell this girl to back off and that she is cramping my style, but my same buddy told me that she has a thing for me. I don't want to hurt her nor do I want to give her a "we should just be friends" talk, but I just need my space. What would you do!?

kyleali11

Welcome to my world.......Just tell her that you are not into her. If she's rational (and by "rational" I mean "Sane"), she'll lleave you alone.

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#18 BreakTheseLinks
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Chop her into little pieces with an ax. Works every time. :wink: Plus the remains can be blended into a great smoothie.
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#19 Pvt_r3d
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I'm sure nothing can put a dent on your "style".
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#20 gotdangit
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A very subtle way to show her you're not interested is by telling her that you have a huge crush or something like that on a girl that she knows. It actually doesn't have to be someone she knows, and ask her what you should do.

She will either think you like another girl, or think you're pretending to like another girl, but that's only if she's crazy.

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#21 jerk-o-tron2000
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She IS mentaly sane, right?

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#22 kyleali11
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What's her facebook? I'll flatter her so much that she'll completely forget about you.cd_rom
Unfortunately she doesn't have one, then she'd be able to see that she isn't my type.
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#23 jerk-o-tron2000
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[QUOTE="cd_rom"]

What's her facebook? I'll flatter her so much that she'll completely forget about you.

kyleali11

Unfortunately she doesn't have one, then she'd be able to see that she isn't my type.

Facebook, the place that exeeds in people taking things out of context.

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#24 weezyfb
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"im interested in someone else"
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#25 BreakTheseLinks
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[QUOTE="cd_rom"]What's her facebook? I'll flatter her so much that she'll completely forget about you.kyleali11
Unfortunately she doesn't have one, then she'd be able to see that she isn't my type.

I still think you should take my advice. It's full-proof.
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#26 kyleali11
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A very subtle way to show her you're not interested is by telling her that you have a huge crush or something like that on a girl that she knows. It actually doesn't have to be someone she knows, and ask her what you should do.

She will either think you like another girl, or think you're pretending to like another girl, but that's only if she's crazy.

gotdangit

That may actually work, but I'm not quite sure if she is sane. Whenever I respond to her texts, I try my best to make it obvious that I'm not so excited to talk to her and somehow everything that I say is either sweet, or thoughtful. I told her that she was acting weird the other day and she got insanely defensive on me.

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#27 OreoMilkshake
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Ask for sex.
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#28 bunny569
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Ask for sex.OreoMilkshake
LOOOOOL!!! that actually works too! but sometimes they are so obessed they actually had that intention in mind! and then how do u turn it down after she says YES!!? LOL
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#29 TheMadGamer
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Ask for sex.OreoMilkshake

But what if she says yes! :o

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#30 jerk-o-tron2000
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[QUOTE="OreoMilkshake"]

Ask for sex.

bunny569

LOOOOOL!!! that actually works too! but sometimes they are so obessed they actually had that intention in mind! and then how do u turn it down after she says YES!!? LOL

Don't, just do your worst and dissapoint her.

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#31 bobaban
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Ignore her. You're not obligated to answer her texts. Keep conversations short, she will get the point eventually and give up.
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#32 TheMadGamer
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Well the best solution would be to date someone else.

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#33 SaintBlaze
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Show her your post count. :P

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#34 Whatuptho
Member since 2008 • 392 Posts

tell her u like dudes?

tell her u post here?

no but seriously, have a conversation with her and tell her how much u appreciate her as a friend, and somehow in the conversation mention how u see her as a sister (that way she cant flip the script on you and act like its u who likes her)

dudes hate to get that conversation, im sure it works the other way around too

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#35 BreakTheseLinks
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I got it: just tell her you have a tiny penis
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#36 TheMadGamer
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I got it: just tell her you have a tiny penisBreakTheseLinks

That might work...

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#37 flipin_jackass
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Telling her won't work, as you've already seen. She probably thinks that you'll eventually change your mind. Honestly, just ignore her, and make make sure she knows you're ignoring her. She already knows that you don't like her, so that's a start. She'll eventually give up. Any non-negative action towards her will probably be misconstrued as you liking her. So don't bother replying to her text. You can't be negative either, like being blunt, because she sounds like the revengeful crazy type. Any action towards her will just fuel her insanity and give her something to interpret and will only cause her be fixated on you. If you don't do anything and just ignore, she'll go crazy at first wondering, but that'll go away.
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#38 Hate_Squad
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if she is average and above have sex with her and then give her the "i want to be friends talk" and tell her you were out of your mind or something.That way she will hopefully get out of your way but you will also have a "back up" in case you hit a dry spell.If she doesnt ,just treating her like crap.She is the addictive type so she wont get over you,but she will stop annoying you

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#39 KeizerHalil
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to leave me ALONE!

Let me start off by saying no I have not, nor will I ever be involved in an adultery act with this chick. Our acquaintanceship started by her sitting next to me in a class and I, a natural gentleman, started talking to her even though I don't find her attractive. She then started to sit next to me in all the classes we have together making it impossible for me to talk with another girl which I actually may find attractive. Before this, I was forced to give her my number because she asked to work with me and my buddy on an assignment. Ever since, she has been texting me every day just to start some conversation. Sometimes I don't respond to her texts, so she texts the same buddy to found out where we are. She even started calling me in the morning so I don't sleep in, missing any of the classes I have with her. She has recently started sending me some very weird texts. I want to tell this girl to back off and that she is cramping my style, but my same buddy told me that she has a thing for me. I don't want to hurt her nor do I want to give her a "we should just be friends" talk, but I just need my space. What would you do!?

kyleali11
MEAT HER!
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#40 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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Ignore her texts and calls. Unless she's totally oblivious she should get the hint.

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#41 Murj
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Just tell her outright man. She's overstepping boundaries and is obviously confused as to what you meant when you started speaking with her. Tell her you only want to be friends and stuff. Or ask her if you think another girl fancies you. She'll get the idea that you aren't interested in her.

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#42 Brozekial
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Ignore her texts, stop making eye contact, and look disinterested when she talks. She'll get the hint eventually.
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#43 CptJSparrow
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Tell her you aren't interested in her. You are making it worse by not telling her. And if she doesn't after you ask nicely, just start being rude.Z0MBIES
This. I have a friend who was so concerned about being rude that no matter how creepy the girl was, he couldn't get rid of her. So I ended up making situations so that he had to look like he was avoiding her.
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#44 MRBUCKMASTER
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Tell her your gay Jk! Seriously though, Stop replying to her texts, calls, don't make eye contact when you talk and always give one word answers to her questions. That may work.
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#45 Rutzfuz
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If she doesn't listen to you saying something bluntly; tell her to f*** off and to never see me again. It has worked.