How do I keep up conversation with a girl I already know really well?

Ok I like this girl, and I know her really well.. This should be a good thing, but it's not really because small talk doesn't work..

I'm NOT a stalker(I have to make this disclaimer because usually only stalkers know people this well), but she and I talk a lot and she tells me everything she does, when. I can't ask her what she had for dinner because odds are I already know what it is, I can't ask her how she spent her weekend because I know what she does on her weekend..

Basically any form of small talk doesn't help because I know her to the point where I don't have to ask her if she had a rough day, because I can tell she had one.. By the way, she already knows I like her, so that's a problem down.. The thing is I wanna keep talking to her but I literally have nothing to talk to her about. We have TONS in common, except that we've gone through it over and over.

Ask her out?

It will spice things up.

Fake it, just ask her questions even if you know the answers already.

One thing I learned is if you can't think of anything to talk about together, the relationship is doomed from the start. You shouldn't have to think of stuff to talk about. It should just flow.

One thing I learned is if you can't think of anything to talk about together, the relationship is doomed from the start. You shouldn't have to think of stuff to talk about. It should just flow.

Pirate700

One thing I learned is if you can't think of anything to talk about together, the relationship is doomed from the start. You shouldn't have to think of stuff to talk about. It should just flow.

Pirate700

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One thing I learned is if you can't think of anything to talk about together, the relationship is doomed from the start. You shouldn't have to think of stuff to talk about. It should just flow.

Orehhet

Maybe you can tell her about something you read online or saw on tv that made you feel angry/happy/concerned/whatever. You could talk about deeper issues or get her opinion on stuff way outside of your daily routines. If you're not sure she'll take the bait maybe sound a bit more concerned than you are or like you aren't sure what to think and need her help with something. She might be more willing to go into a new topic if you seem super interested in what she thinks. Just my thoughts.

[QUOTE="Orehhet"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]

One thing I learned is if you can't think of anything to talk about together, the relationship is doomed from the start. You shouldn't have to think of stuff to talk about. It should just flow.

Pirate700

Maybe you can tell her about something you read online or saw on tv that made you feel angry/happy/concerned/whatever. You could talk about deeper issues or get her opinion on stuff way outside of your daily routines. If you're not sure she'll take the bait maybe sound a bit more concerned than you are or like you aren't sure what to think and need her help with something. She might be more willing to go into a new topic if you seem super interested in what she thinks. Just my thoughts.

binpink

Thank you. :D

Enough talk, time for action!

If you have to think about conversations beforehand you aren't doing it right.

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Maybe you can tell her about something you read online or saw on tv that made you feel angry/happy/concerned/whatever. You could talk about deeper issues or get her opinion on stuff way outside of your daily routines. If you're not sure she'll take the bait maybe sound a bit more concerned than you are or like you aren't sure what to think and need her help with something. She might be more willing to go into a new topic if you seem super interested in what she thinks. Just my thoughts.

Orehhet

Thank you. :D

Sure thing. It's a tricky situation and that's all I can think of. That or cutting back on how often you talk a little bit. :?

Talk, hang out more, do dumb stuff and make memories that'll give you something to talk about

Go commit a crime and talk about that.

If you have to think about conversations beforehand you aren't doing it right.

Dylan_11

Sounds backwards, but maybe try talking about yourself more.While you feel like you already know everything about her, the reverse is not necessarily true.

One thing I learned is if you can't think of anything to talk about together, the relationship is doomed from the start. You shouldn't have to think of stuff to talk about. It should just flow.

Pirate700

When in doubt, whip it out.

Ask her out?

It will spice things up.

muffincakes87

One thing I learned is if you can't think of anything to talk about together, the relationship is doomed from the start. You shouldn't have to think of stuff to talk about. It should just flow.

Pirate700

I can't believe I'm saying this, but I completely agree with Pirate700.

One thing I learned is if you can't think of anything to talk about together, the relationship is doomed from the start. You shouldn't have to think of stuff to talk about. It should just flow.

Pirate700

That's almost exactly what I was thinking.

Make a new conversation or keep the same one going?

It's not hard to be good at that.

[QUOTE="Orehhet"][QUOTE="binpink"]Maybe you can tell her about something you read online or saw on tv that made you feel angry/happy/concerned/whatever. You could talk about deeper issues or get her opinion on stuff way outside of your daily routines. If you're not sure she'll take the bait maybe sound a bit more concerned than you are or like you aren't sure what to think and need her help with something. She might be more willing to go into a new topic if you seem super interested in what she thinks. Just my thoughts.binpink

I know what you mean. I used to be best friends (and still am to a certain degree) with this girl. We used to see each other 3-4 times a week and we knew everythingabout each other. We used to make conversation by talking about what we did on the days we didn't see each other, and then the conversation would flow from there.

Words, they mean nothing.

Why don't you ask her yourself?Send her this thread link.

wow so simple things in life and you have to make a topic for it, i guess some people are desperete, but realy not a big deal

Buy her a flying courier

Sounds backwards, but maybe try talking about yourself more.While you feel like you already know everything about her, the reverse is not necessarily true.

Martel100

Ok I like this girl, and I know her really well.. This should be a good thing, but it's not really because small talk doesn't work..

I'm NOT a stalker(I have to make this disclaimer because usually only stalkers know people this well), but she and I talk a lot and she tells me everything she does, when. I can't ask her what she had for dinner because odds are I already know what it is, I can't ask her how she spent her weekend because I know what she does on her weekend..

Basically any form of small talk doesn't help because I know her to the point where I don't have to ask her if she had a rough day, because I can tell she had one.. By the way, she already knows I like her, so that's a problem down.. The thing is I wanna keep talking to her but I literally have nothing to talk to her about. We have TONS in common, except that we've gone through it over and over.

Orehhet

The thing is I wanna keep talking to her but I literally have nothing to talk to her about. We have TONS in common, except that we've gone through it over and over.

Orehhet

If you know her as well as you say, then you should be able to:
1. find meaningful things to talk about
2. be comfortable being silent around one another....there does not always have to be noise

well if yo uknow her well then you know of some things that interest her. Talk about those, or discover new things she likes to talk about.

or just...touch her shoulder........;)

well if yo uknow her well then you know of some things that interest her. Talk about those, or discover new things she likes to talk about.

or just...touch her shoulder........;)

tocklestein2005