how do you act differently in social situations ?

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#1 dkdk999
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Like would say you act differently when your in school ? (to the people that are in high school). And how so? I feel like you kind of have to conform to the group alot of the time.

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#2 Charazani
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As oppsed to ?
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#3 dkdk999
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As oppsed to ?Charazani
how you act when your alone.
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#4 Fightingfan
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Yes, I watch my language around children and women.
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#5 Charazani
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Act differently depending on the social situation
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#6 cd_rom
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I tend to wear more clothes.
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#7 Charazani
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[QUOTE="Charazani"]As oppsed to ?dkdk999
how you act when your alone.

When alone , am kind of just there. Do stuff that may not be considered proper manners and such.
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#8 Charazani
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I tend to wear more clothes.cd_rom
This is true. Also tend to scratch various parts of my body.
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#9 Fightingfan
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[QUOTE="dkdk999"][QUOTE="Charazani"]As oppsed to ?Charazani
how you act when your alone.

When alone , am kind of just there. Do stuff that may not be considered proper manners and such.

Same, one day I was home alone, and I was eating with great table manors, then I said to myself "F it, no one is here" and I picked up my mignon with my hand :P
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#10 dkdk999
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I tend to wear more clothes.cd_rom
being naked IS pretty awsome.
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#11 surrealnumber5
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yes, i dont act like my jovial self till i know it is acceptable, every situation calls for a different personality
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#12 silentnightmere
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No sir. I act the same whether theres children , women , gay men who ever is around. I cuss alot I say things that would offend people. If they don't like it not my problem. Yeah im THAT guy. I love it. My best friend constantly reminds me when theres a lil kid around to stop cussing cause I just don't change the way I act for anybody. Never have , Never Will.
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#13 cd_rom
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[QUOTE="cd_rom"]I tend to wear more clothes.dkdk999
being naked IS pretty awsome.

ESPECIALLY in social situations.
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#15 dkdk999
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[QUOTE="dkdk999"][QUOTE="cd_rom"]I tend to wear more clothes.cd_rom
being naked IS pretty awsome.

ESPECIALLY in social situations.

Except people keep saying that don't want to see my junk for some reason . :lol:

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#16 dkdk999
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No sir. I act the same whether theres children , women , gay men who ever is around. I cuss alot I say things that would offend people. If they don't like it not my problem. Yeah im THAT guy. I love it. My best friend constantly reminds me when theres a lil kid around to stop cussing cause I just don't change the way I act for anybody. Never have , Never Will. silentnightmere
That's pretty cool. Though I imagine you wouldn't do that in a job interview for instance.
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#17 edm-king
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I think my behavior fluctuates between the groups I'm in. But it's all for respect. I'm not going to act immature on the job, or in class.
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#18 Frame_Dragger
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Naturally... it's called adaptation.

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#19 Jazz_Fan
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Of course, you will always respond differently given the situation. If I acted the same out in public as I do when I'm alone I'd be in a institution.... again.
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#20 Dark_Knight6
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Um

Most people tend to act differently depending on the situation they are in. It's sort of neccesary.

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#21 NiKva
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I talk differently to my teachers, my parents, and my friends. Oh and the internet. I'm four people in one :D
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#22 Shottayouth13-
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Yes, I believe it's required.
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#23 XilePrincess
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At work I have to be super nice to everyone, and very personable and helpful. I'm generally nice and respectful outside of work, but I express the fact that I believe people are ****ing stupid, moronic braindead worthless sacks of crap quite often. I am far less cheery outside of the workplace.
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#24 dissonantblack
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yes. i don't like to be around people because i have social anxiety problems. the more small talk, the more annoyed i get.

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#25 Mafiree
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[QUOTE="Charazani"]As oppsed to ?dkdk999
how you act when your alone.

Ya, I talk a lot more.......
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#26 soulless4now
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I try not to be too haughty in public.

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#27 sonofsmeagle
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yeah i'm not that good in big groups of people when there is one person or more in the group i dont like,

I get very very agitatated

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#28 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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Not really, or at least not any more than necessary. I mean you can tell those I'm more comfortble around, but I'm still the same person.

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#29 Ilovegames1992
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Of course.

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#30 TheNewEraIcon
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Yeah, I keep my language much more censored around adults than I would when it's just me and the fellas hanging around. Also in class I'm alot more focused and less talkative than usual

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#31 themajormayor
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To be honest it's kinda arrogant if you don't. If you can't adjust yourself to a different situation you're kind of a douche.

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#33 parkurtommo
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Of course I do, but not too differently, just a bit more insane

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#34 Charazani
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Not really, or at least not any more than necessary. I mean you can tell those I'm more comfortble around, but I'm still the same person.

Suzy_Q_Kazoo

Agree. Do not change my personality for people to try to fit in or such. More comfortable around certain people , which would show. Obviously would modify my behavior to match the tone of the situation(informal/forma for example).

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#35 Evil_Saluki
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I find the real me leaks out of every pour, but that doesn't mean the real me doesn't know when to shut up, as that would be more of a major malfuntion.

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#36 LustForSoul
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No friend or known person? Ignored. Friend>? Talk.
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#38 deactivated-59913425220eb
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Well I view this question as do you change who you re when your around different people. Me I try not to, because I don't see myself as a two-faced personality, I have one personality and i show it around whoever I'm around. That doesn't make me a douche because I try to be kind and accepting all the time, sometimes I am not but I try. To say you conform to different social groups like at school, just tells me you are not comfortable with yourself and have self-esteem issues. Just be yourself, be who you are don't try to change who you are just to gain acceptance from other people, they should like you for who you are not for how you want them to view you as.
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#39 TehFuneral
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A lot different! Im socially awkward when it comes to social interactions.

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#40 almasdeathchild
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im always the same(except in school.....talking was done with our fists and group beat ups) :/

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#41 StRaItJaCkEt36
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I act according to the situation and that may change. I suspect most people do this. Acting the same all the time wouldn't do one well.
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#43 194197844077667059316682358889
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[QUOTE="Charazani"]As oppsed to ?dkdk999
how you act when your alone.

Well I don't talk to or interact with other people when I'm alone, and there are certainly things that I do when I'm alone that I *generally* don't do when other people are around, with notable exceptions.
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#44 the_plan_man
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I'm the same person around pretty much everyone.
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#45 xMistress
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Umm well I was more quiet in class then I was with my friends?

I don't fully understand the question.

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#46 lightleggy
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Yes, I watch my language around children and women.Fightingfan
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#47 AtlanticRock
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I'm more social outside with strangers(in a bar, club, random pedestrian on the street) than with friends and family.

My friends annoy me because they talk about the same things(so I stay quiet in order not to make myself sound like a jerk) and my family are the judgemental type, so I rarely speak my mind around them(only with select cousins/uncles/aunts do I get to be myself).