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#1 Solid_Tango
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Today i went to buy a milk at the gas station ( because the butique was closed) and there was this gorgeous girl at the front cashier.

She smiled and looked at me all the time :oops: I kinda felt something going on there, but maybe it was my imagination?:x

I dont know, anyways i want to ask you OT a question: How do you react in these occations? if you like the girl how do you try to make a conversation?

what is the best way to aproche em? any stories you ll like to share?

Thank you

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#2 xTheExploited
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I just be friendly.
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#3 DrSponge
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I hate when girls look at me in that way :( Like they want to leap at me, rip my shirt off and...actually I like it when they look at me like that 8)
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#4 Wilfred_Owen
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I growl. Thats the male equilvent to a mating call. I don't think they understand this yet.
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#5 horgen  Moderator
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Go right over and give them a bear hugh :P
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#6 tzar3
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I get in "heat", like a filthy dog. Mating season is everyday for me when I see a female. Yup yup.

I act normal.

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#7 FFCYAN
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If you get a feeling she's interested, there is no harm conversating with said lady. She already breaks down any barriers you may have.

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#8 Solid_Tango
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I m serious!!! How should i react? if i know she likes me ( or that she is interested) how should i show my interest in a public situation? no shoulder touching, no barrel roll :|
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#9 bluezy
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In that situation I'd smile and perhaps make a little conversation, usually based on some small talk:P
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#10 Solid_Tango
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[QUOTE="FFCYAN"]

If you get a feeling she's interested, there is no harm conversating with said lady. She already breaks down any barriers you may have.

What kind of conversation? like hey: how long have you been working there? how much you get paid? or what?
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#11 DrSponge
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[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"]I m serious!!! How should i react? if i know she likes me ( or that she is interested) how should i show my interest in a public situation? no shoulder touching, no barrel roll :|

Look at her in "that way".
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#12 DrSponge
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[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"][QUOTE="FFCYAN"]

If you get a feeling she's interested, there is no harm conversating with said lady. She already breaks down any barriers you may have.

What kind of conversation? like hey: how long have you been working there? how much you get paid? or what?

No, that's just creepy.
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#13 octagonman
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You could always use some classic pick up lines. "You have a mirror in your pants?" "wha-" "CAUSE I WANT SEX!" Works every time, trust me ;)
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#14 FFCYAN
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Good God man! Just look at her, find something about her to comment on, then comment her on it. "Your hair is so shiny! What shampoo do you use?"

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#15 JPOBS
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make a joke or do something that seems really innocent. like, seem genuine about not knowing how to do something. girls love it when guys are show a vulnerable side. they eat that ish up
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#16 MuddVader
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I wouldnt know, I dont tend to take anything like that as flirting though, it would be a mistake to do so. Its called making eye contact and showing a smile lol, its something that employees who work with people are encouraged to do, she just happened to be attractive, dont take any hints from it or anything because to be honest, I doubt she was doing anything besides her job. I'm sorry.

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#17 GazaAli
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i ignore them most of the time.in rare occasions i may give them attention,smile,stare.but very rare tho
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#18 mayforcebeyou
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act normal
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#19 yokofox33
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If I'm alone I'm pretty nervous, but I'm still able to muster enough to keep her entertained. I think. I'm pretty terrible with women, so I can sometimes be very awkward. I'm as gentlemanly as possible though.

I'm much more active in a group.

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#20 Gallion-Beast
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[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"]I m serious!!! How should i react? if i know she likes me ( or that she is interested) how should i show my interest in a public situation? no shoulder touching, no barrel roll :|

Well I guess the only thing left to do is give her half your big mack.
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#21 FFCYAN
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Try giving her a smile too when she looks at you. Don't smile all the time at her though because she'll think you are a creeper. Try the direct approach if you can't come up with something. "Your pretty, what's your name?" Just talk to her like you would talk to an old friend of yours. She probably likes you by what you said so what you do to talk to herdoesn't matter much.

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#22 chAzN93
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depends with what girl...
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#23 RoCkStaR_EnGaGe
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I m serious!!! How should i react? if i know she likes me ( or that she is interested) how should i show my interest in a public situation? no shoulder touching, no barrel roll :|Solid_Tango

How do you know she likes you? She could just be being nice to you since you are a customer :?

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#24 clyde46
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Always in control 8)

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#25 manhunter92
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Make her laugh, ask her out, have sex, move on. Well maybe that's just me...

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#26 EMOEVOLUTION
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I ignore them.

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#27 iHeartGucci
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I'd be lucky if I were her... ;) Just smile & make a silly joke :P Probably compliment her.
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#28 talonkarrde07
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Girl? Interested in me? :cry:

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#29 chAzN93
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I ignore them.

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#30 Scarebaby
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I always blush like mad when cute girls come on to me or sometimes just talk to me. Especially when they get all girly and sniff my hair or my perfume or whatever. If they get to close I feel like nipping them. O.O

I had a huge crush on a girl a few years ago and whenever we met on parties or in pubs we used to hide somewhere and make out. Awesome.

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#31 cousin_eddy
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in occasions like that I always try and keep cool..girls can sense fear and shyness at times..it is just best to gather your thoguths nad play it cool, never fails lol.
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#32 twilightpanda
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[QUOTE="Scarebaby"]

I always blush like mad when cute girls come on to me or sometimes just talk to me. Especially when they get all girly and sniff my hair or my perfume or whatever. If they get to close I feel like nipping them. O.O

I had a huge crush on a girl a few years ago and whenever we met on parties or in pubs we used to hide somewhere and make out. Awesome.

wait are'nt you a girl? and if you are i have no problem with homosexuals :)
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#33 Solid_Tango
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in occasions like that I always try and keep cool..girls can sense fear and shyness at times..it is just best to gather your thoguths nad play it cool, never fails lol.cousin_eddy
i always hear people saying this * keep it cool* but what is exactly :**cool**? how can i be cool? or what does cool means?
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#34 twilightpanda
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[QUOTE="cousin_eddy"]in occasions like that I always try and keep cool..girls can sense fear and shyness at times..it is just best to gather your thoguths nad play it cool, never fails lol.Solid_Tango
i always hear people saying this * keep it cool* but what is exactly :**cool**? how can i be cool? or what does cool means?

it means u have to stay calm >_>
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#35 Solid_Tango
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[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"][QUOTE="cousin_eddy"]in occasions like that I always try and keep cool..girls can sense fear and shyness at times..it is just best to gather your thoguths nad play it cool, never fails lol.twilightpanda
i always hear people saying this * keep it cool* but what is exactly :**cool**? how can i be cool? or what does cool means?

it means u have to stay calm >_>

stay calm? but what if i like the girl?BTW u never answered my PM :cry:

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#36 Hot-Tamale
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Just smile a lot and use inviting body language. Also, don't look down. There's a whole science to this.

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#37 Solid_Tango
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Just smile a lot and use inviting body language. Also, don't look down. There's a whole science to this.

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Explaing please!! inviiting body language? how ?
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I growl. Thats the male equilvent to a mating call. I don't think they understand this yet.Wilfred_Owen
Because you're missing the most important step. You rip off you shirt while growling wildly beating your chest. They should take kindly to that. Disclaimer notice
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[QUOTE="twilightpanda"][QUOTE="Solid_Tango"] i always hear people saying this * keep it cool* but what is exactly :**cool**? how can i be cool? or what does cool means?Solid_Tango

it means u have to stay calm >_>

stay calm? but what if i like the girl?BTW u never answered my PM :cry:

umm.... well i did'nt feel like talking at the time sooo >_>
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#40 MuddVader
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[QUOTE="Scarebaby"]

I always blush like mad when cute girls come on to me or sometimes just talk to me. Especially when they get all girly and sniff my hair or my perfume or whatever. If they get to close I feel like nipping them. O.O

I had a huge crush on a girl a few years ago and whenever we met on parties or in pubs we used to hide somewhere and make out. Awesome.

Why would you have to hide in a pub? Parties I understand, I mean there are probably going to be some people there you know, but a Pub is just a fancy word for Bar, no? I guess for privacy's sake if nothing else lol.
wait are'nt you a girl? and if you are i have no problem with homosexuals :) twilightpanda
Twilights hitting on you Scarebaby *nudge nudge* i'm joking lol
i always hear people saying this * keep it cool* but what is exactly :**cool**? how can i be cool? or what does cool means?Solid_Tango
Act normal, dont freak out, dont get nervous, dont studder, dont get tongue tied, dont faint, dont let your voice break or get frantic, just remain calm/cool.
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#41 Wolls
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I dont get all this, girls arnt aliens or anything, just act normal :P

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#42 MuddVader
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[QUOTE="twilightpanda"][QUOTE="Solid_Tango"] i always hear people saying this * keep it cool* but what is exactly :**cool**? how can i be cool? or what does cool means?Solid_Tango

it means u have to stay calm >_>

stay calm? but what if i like the girl?BTW u never answered my PM :cry:

Practice, find the prettiest girl you can find, and walk up to her and try to make small talk, do this in a store or something that you NEVER go to though, this way, when you freak out and can hardly talk and start choking on your words, you can walk away and never worry about seeing this lady again =D
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[QUOTE="twilightpanda"] wait are'nt you a girl? and if you are i have no problem with homosexuals :) MuddVader
Twilights hitting on you Scarebaby *nudge nudge* i'm joking lol

wait till i come over to your house to teach you a lesson *shakes my fist* :evil:
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#44 painguy1
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By keep it cool we mean dont act nervous. Stay calm and dont piss yourself. If she looks at you, look back in a kind manner as if your saying hello, and then look away. She might come and talk to you after that. girls like guys with confidence. Being a little shy is ok too. They think it is cute. Just dont be to shy. Also dont act cool (never act too cool at all) one minute, and rly different the next. They will get confused,and will begin to break apart. Moodiness is a turn off. When talking to a girl be happy, and nice. Also try to talk about them. dont ask anything personal though. Girls tend to go for the tough guys , BUT in reality they hate them. Be extremely nice, but not to nice. Do not act like those stereotypical tough guys. They may be attracted, but thats only because they feel thats the only option they have. Most guys are A$$holes and girls think thats all there is to choose from. If you show them otherwise then you will be set. I can tell from reading alot of posts here who are the A$$holes and who are not. lol. Also NEVER EVER DRESS like one of those gangbangers. That automaticallyy puts you in the A$$hole spot. dress casully. Tada. This has been Painguys Ultimate Guide into creating a relationship.

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#45 tomo90
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I just smile.

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#46 OfficialBed
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I act like myself. Also, maybe the reason she was looking at you was because you were a customer and she was just making eye contact? Sometimes guys on here act like a girl wants to marry them if they make eye contact....

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#47 Wolls
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By keep it cool we mean dont act nervous. Stay calm and dont piss yourself. If she looks at you, look back in a kind manner as if your saying hello, and then look away. She might come and talk to you after that. girls like guys with confidence. Being a little shy is ok too. They think it is cute. Just dont be to shy. Also dont act cool (never act too cool at all) one minute, and rly different the next. They will get confused,and will begin to break apart. Moodiness is a turn off. When talking to a girl be happy, and nice. Also try to talk about them. dont ask anything personal though. Girls tend to go for the tough guys , BUT in reality they hate them. Be extremely nice, but not to nice. Do not act like those stereotypical tough guys. They may be attracted, but thats only because they feel thats the only option they have. Most guys are A$$holes and girls think thats all there is to choose from. If you show them otherwise then you will be set. I can tell from reading alot of posts here who are the A$$holes and who are not. lol. Also NEVER EVER DRESS like one of those gangbangers. That automaticallyy puts you in the A$$hole spot. dress casully. Tada. This has been Painguys Ultimate Guide into creating a relationship.

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Why would you have to hide in a pub? Parties I understand, I mean there are probably going to be some people there you know, but a Pub is just a fancy word for Bar, no? I guess for privacy's sake if nothing else lol.MuddVader

Yeah, we'd hide to get some privacy. Quite a lot of guys O.O and make rude remarks when they see two girls going at each other. -.-

wait are'nt you a girl? and if you are i have no problem with homosexuals :) twilightpanda

I'm a girl, yes.

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#49 shadowkiller11
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I just be friendly.xTheExploited
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#50 Wolls
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[QUOTE="MuddVader"] Why would you have to hide in a pub? Parties I understand, I mean there are probably going to be some people there you know, but a Pub is just a fancy word for Bar, no? I guess for privacy's sake if nothing else lol.Scarebaby

Yeah, we'd hide to get some privacy. Quite a lot of guys O.O and make rude remarks when they see two girls going at each other. -.-

then why even go to pubs :P