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We all know that you think nothing happens after death or you go to heaven or hell or what have you, but that's not the question!

How do you deal with this, OT? I mean, no matter what, non-existence is scary. And hell, living forever in paradise (or hell) seems like it would be both boring and grueling.

And don't just say you've accepted it! You know there are nights where you lay in bed and start wondering. So tell me, OT, how do you get over this? What keeps you from going insane and looking for the key to everlasting life?

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[size=11]I just sleep it off, I guess. :? [/size]
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#4 3eyedrazorback
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*Puts up flame shield* Faith and trust that there is an eternal life.

Before I get bashed, I have my beliefs, you have your beliefs. Let's keep it at that. I'm not going to try and change anyone's opinion on religion.

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I just don't think about it. When I was a kid, I used to cry about that fear though :P

Oh, and bacardi and chips ahoy.

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#6 Xx_Hopeless_xX
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I don't know..i think about it alot..i don't really care anymore...i know when the time comes i'll probably be like "This sucks..make me live longer :cry:.." but meh..

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#7 Flame_Blade88
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Just not think about it I guess *shrugs* It never crosses my mind.
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#8 PernicioEnigma
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Simple, I don't think about it. When I was a lot younger the thought of death scared me, but now I have much more important things to worry about to be honest. Anyway, when the time comes and death isn't too far off, I'd probably have a very different perspective on life and death.
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#9 TheCSPeaceMaker
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I'm not going to die!
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booze and cookies.xhellcatx
More specifically, vodka and Oreos.
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Cookies and booze.

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#12 TwilightTown15
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I don't think about it much, and when I do, I get confused and frustrated.

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#13 PernicioEnigma
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*Puts up flame shield* Faith and trust that there is an eternal life.

Before I get bashed, I have my beliefs, you have your beliefs. Let's keep it at that. I'm not going to try and change anyone's opinion on religion.

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You must be rather looking forward to death then, am I right?
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Cookies and booze.

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#15 3eyedrazorback
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[QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"]

*Puts up flame shield* Faith and trust that there is an eternal life.

Before I get bashed, I have my beliefs, you have your beliefs. Let's keep it at that. I'm not going to try and change anyone's opinion on religion.

PernicioEnigma
You must be rather looking forward to death then, am I right?

Absolutely not. I love life. I can believe there is eternal life, but still want to live. Death frightens me.
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[QUOTE="xhellcatx"][QUOTE="dreDREb13"]

We all know that you think nothing happens after death or you go to heaven or hell or what have you, but that's not the question!

How do you deal with this, OT? I mean, no matter what, non-existence is scary. And hell, living forever in paradise (or hell) seems like it would be both boring and grueling.

And don't just say you've accepted it! You know there are nights where you lay in bed and start wondering. So tell me, OT, how do you get over this? What keeps you from going insane and looking for the key to everlasting life?

booze and cookies.

I promise to God, Hellcat, if I could give you a massive hug, I would.
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#18 xhellcatx
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[QUOTE="GHlegend77"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"][QUOTE="dreDREb13"]

We all know that you think nothing happens after death or you go to heaven or hell or what have you, but that's not the question!

How do you deal with this, OT? I mean, no matter what, non-existence is scary. And hell, living forever in paradise (or hell) seems like it would be both boring and grueling.

And don't just say you've accepted it! You know there are nights where you lay in bed and start wondering. So tell me, OT, how do you get over this? What keeps you from going insane and looking for the key to everlasting life?

booze and cookies.

I promise to God, Hellcat, if I could give you a massive hug, I would.

^_^ aweh!!
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[QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"]

*Puts up flame shield* Faith and trust that there is an eternal life.

Before I get bashed, I have my beliefs, you have your beliefs. Let's keep it at that. I'm not going to try and change anyone's opinion on religion.

dreDREb13
But dude, even when I believed in that, I hated the idea. I don't want to live forever! And I certainly don't want to die at the age most people die at! I just want to live a long damn time! But, ****, wouldn't that just be monotonous?

I understand that completely. I've thought the same. Nobody can fathom what that would be like, nor do I even WANT to try. It's just what I choose to believe, and it gives me hope...if only that.
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Beer and vanilla wafers.

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#21 GreySeal9
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The idea of everlasting life worries me more than simply dying and there being nothing.

If heaven and hell exists, I will be infinitely worried about where I will go, even though I think I've been a fairly good person.

If I just die and there's nothing afterward, there's nothing to worry about. I'll just seize to exist.

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#22 PernicioEnigma
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[QUOTE="PernicioEnigma"][QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"]

*Puts up flame shield* Faith and trust that there is an eternal life.

Before I get bashed, I have my beliefs, you have your beliefs. Let's keep it at that. I'm not going to try and change anyone's opinion on religion.

3eyedrazorback
You must be rather looking forward to death then, am I right?

Absolutely not. I love life. I can believe there is eternal life, but still want to live. Death frightens me.

Read what you just read, it doesn't really make much sense. If there is eternal life "after death", then you never really died, at least not permanently.
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#23 GHlegend77
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[QUOTE="GHlegend77"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"] booze and cookies.xhellcatx
I promise to God, Hellcat, if I could give you a massive hug, I would.

^_^ aweh!!

Do you haz MSN? =]
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#24 3eyedrazorback
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[QUOTE="PernicioEnigma"][QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"][QUOTE="PernicioEnigma"] You must be rather looking forward to death then, am I right?

Absolutely not. I love life. I can believe there is eternal life, but still want to live. Death frightens me.

Read what you just read, it doesn't really make much sense. If there is eternal life "after death", then you never really died, at least not permanently.

I'm referring to living on earth as opposed to eternal life. I love life. Understand that? Life itself and all it's complexities and little intricacies are wonderful. Death frightens me. Leaving loved ones behind and having them mourn my death frightens me. The fact that I believe in eternal life doesn't change my outlook on life here. Following?
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[QUOTE="Dylan_11"]

Cookies and booze.

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[QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"][QUOTE="PernicioEnigma"][QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"]*Puts up flame shield* Faith and trust that there is an eternal life. Before I get bashed, I have my beliefs, you have your beliefs. Let's keep it at that. I'm not going to try and change anyone's opinion on religion.

You must be rather looking forward to death then, am I right?

Absolutely not. I love life. I can believe there is eternal life, but still want to live. Death frightens me.

The concept of eternal life frightens me more than that of death, tbh.
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#27 markop2003
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Non-existence isn't scary in the slightest, i don't see how you can be afraid of absolutely nothing.
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#29 KidCudi37
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[QUOTE="dreDREb13"]

We all know that you think nothing happens after death or you go to heaven or hell or what have you, but that's not the question!

How do you deal with this, OT? I mean, no matter what, non-existence is scary. And hell, living forever in paradise (or hell) seems like it would be both boring and grueling.

And don't just say you've accepted it! You know there are nights where you lay in bed and start wondering. So tell me, OT, how do you get over this? What keeps you from going insane and looking for the key to everlasting life?

xhellcatx
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This also brownies.
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[QUOTE="scorch-62"][QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"][QUOTE="PernicioEnigma"] You must be rather looking forward to death then, am I right?

Absolutely not. I love life. I can believe there is eternal life, but still want to live. Death frightens me.

The concept of eternal life frightens me more than that of death, tbh.

I feel the same. If what I believe isn't real, and we cease to exist, what have I lost in believing what I believe? If it is true, and what I believe comes to fruition, then I've gained what I've strived for my entire life.
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[QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"][QUOTE="scorch-62"][QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"] Absolutely not. I love life. I can believe there is eternal life, but still want to live. Death frightens me.

The concept of eternal life frightens me more than that of death, tbh.

I feel the same. If what I believe isn't real, and we cease to exist, what have I lost in believing what I believe? If it is true, and what I believe comes to fruition, then I've gained what I've strived for my entire life.

Or you could be like me and strive for damn-near absolutely nothing! \o/
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#32 super_mario_128
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Uh, if death is truly the end then I'm fine with it. I don't have 'nights where I lie in bed and start wondering'; I got over the feeling of existential crisis-induced terror a while ago.
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#33 3eyedrazorback
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[QUOTE="scorch-62"] Or you could be like me and strive for damn-near absolutely nothing! \o/

Ha. Sounds like a solid plan. But, like I stated before, I'll stick with my beliefs and stay away from yours. It's just what I have put my faith in. If it's wasted, oh well...what have I lost?
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#34 laser-pointer
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I don't really care anymore, I just want to have a good life and live happily ever after till the day I die.

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#35 scorch-62
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[QUOTE="scorch-62"]Or you could be like me and strive for damn-near absolutely nothing! \o/3eyedrazorback
Ha. Sounds like a solid plan. But, like I stated before, I'll stick with my beliefs and stay away from yours. It's just what I have put my faith in. If it's wasted, oh well...what have I lost?

As long as you're content with that, it's fine by me.
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[QUOTE="xhellcatx"][QUOTE="GHlegend77"] I promise to God, Hellcat, if I could give you a massive hug, I would.GHlegend77
^_^ aweh!!

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I'm just indifferent to it really, I rarely think deeply into it.

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[QUOTE="GHlegend77"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"] ^_^ aweh!!xhellcatx
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[QUOTE="GHlegend77"][QUOTE="xhellcatx"] ^_^ aweh!!xhellcatx
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I've pondered this many times, probably more than most of you, being that I spent most of my early years fearing death from starvation or stabbing or a drive-by. When I actually do die, I'd like to have a face-to-face conversation with God about the dystopian world I lived in and how it has built me for the afterlife, and how I can reconcile some of the awful things I did to stay alive.
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[QUOTE="scorch-62"][QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"][QUOTE="PernicioEnigma"] You must be rather looking forward to death then, am I right?

Absolutely not. I love life. I can believe there is eternal life, but still want to live. Death frightens me.

The concept of eternal life frightens me more than that of death, tbh.

Especially if you've read Dante's Inferno..*shivers*..
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I think after I die I'll be reincarnated into someone rich and famous. Lookin forward to it!

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[QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"][QUOTE="scorch-62"][QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"] Absolutely not. I love life. I can believe there is eternal life, but still want to live. Death frightens me.

The concept of eternal life frightens me more than that of death, tbh.

Especially if you've read Dante's Inferno..*shivers*..

Which I have yet to do. =[
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I understand and accept now that some things (like death and God) are beyond my understanding and I wont know until I die. Either God is waiting with loving care, or the dirt is waiting, in which case no harm no foul.

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#45 Melpoe
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When I was younger I believed in Heaven so once I found out it was all a myth I was in shock, I just could not imagine dying and then nothing... never seeing you're loved ones again, pets, doing things that make you happy but the most important thing ill miss are my memorise. If when im dead I cant have thoughts or feelings and cant look back on my life then that to me is sad because I enjoy looking back on my life, for both the good and the bad stuff.

Im just dealing with it, there is nothing I can do about it and im sure on my death bed (if I have one) ill believe in heaven before I go but what makes me sad the most is knowing my loved ones are going to die and thats it. They will never know once they die that they will never meet me again, hold me again, and laugh with me again and that makes me depressed.

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[QUOTE="xhellcatx"][QUOTE="GHlegend77"] Do you haz MSN? =]scorch-62
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[QUOTE="scorch-62"][QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"][QUOTE="scorch-62"] The concept of eternal life frightens me more than that of death, tbh.

Especially if you've read Dante's Inferno..*shivers*..

Which I have yet to do. =[

Well if you believe in Hell..and Purgatory..it's pretty frightening :(..
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[QUOTE="scorch-62"][QUOTE="3eyedrazorback"] Absolutely not. I love life. I can believe there is eternal life, but still want to live. Death frightens me. Xx_Hopeless_xX
The concept of eternal life frightens me more than that of death, tbh.

Especially if you've read Dante's Inferno..*shivers*..

Not exactly, but the whole setup was a bit scary.

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#49 D_Battery
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I'm more concerned with what's going on in this life than with whatever might happen afterwards. I'd hate to waste my life worrying about what happens when I die.
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#50 Iconic_D
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It's strange because, I know I have to die one day and so does everybody else. But I just hope it is peaceful and that I dont die too early. Other than that, I dont really worry about it.