How do you deal with awkward moments/ places you socially feel uncomfortable.

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#1 Mercenary848
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You know like a class, church, job, group, etc you do not feel comfortable in, but at the same time you still have to go. My second class is like that, the whole vibe of the room just feels tense. The teacher is bi-polar and keeps everyone on edge(I have friends in the class, but we are nervous to speak), this attention whore who comments on everything someone does, and almost everyone seems to have some issue with anyone else. It is the same way with groups where you do not feel like you belong, or at boring meetings you just can't wait for it to end.

How do you all deal with being forced to sit through awkward/boring crap.

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#2 Strider_91
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Ipod?
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#3 AtlanticRock
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If i'm able to... I put on my iPod.

If I can't listen to music or anything electronic - I start reading my comics in my mind. Since I read my favorite's so many times I have some memorized and I start changing the story or putting myself in them to get my mind off whatever is boring me to death. If comics don't work, I do the same thing, but with movies.

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#4 Mercenary848
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Ipod?Strider_91

That works fine in a relaxed environment, but not at school/work.

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#5 Elraptor
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If you can't leave or distract yourself, you gotta grin and bear it.
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#6 enterawesome
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I just go to sleep. Problem solved.
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#7 Pirate700
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I fart loudly to break the ice.

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#8 awesomeface
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Alcohol helps.
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#9 X360PS3AMD05
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Diddle on paper.
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#10 needled24-7
Member since 2007 • 15902 Posts

cry, making it even more awkward.

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#11 ZippySlappy
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 Runnnnnn!
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#12 Nintendevil
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I'm not in enough.

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#13 FunkyStrut
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Beer.

Beer definitely helps. If not that pretending to have a really weird disease.

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#14 fend_oblivion
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If you can't leave or distract yourself, you gotta grin and bear it. Elraptor

Same as above.

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#15 JudgementEden
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Extremely uncomfortable. I am generally very nervous around groups, those who I am not used to. I am what you would call an Introvert. I would not be open to strangers as much as I am online, that's for sure.
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#16 BiancaDK
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It's gotta' be really, really awkward in order for me to find the situation awkward, like; waking up naked 5 in morning on a park bench awkward. So if i feel awkward -- i have every reason in the world to feel it, not much i can do about that. I don't get bored, whenever i'm close to feeling bored, i daydream.
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#17 LJS9502_basic
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I can't recall that happening so I guess I don't have anything to deal with.:D
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#18 MagikarpSplash
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I just keep my head down.
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#19 CommanderShiro
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I bear with it. Don't want to stick out and make it noticeable that I'm uncomfortable. Usually I try to somehow find a way to get socially comfortable. Mostly by finding someone to converse with.

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#20 racing1750
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If i feel uncomfortable i just need to deal with it in some way.
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#21 Truf89
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I just try to remember its not going to last forever and deal with it till it ends.
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#22 Lonelynight
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I usually make other people uncomfortable.
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#23 x8VXU6
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i just look around the room or just look stupid

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#24 Maniacc1
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I distract my mind with other thoughts. Either that, or pretend to text. :P
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#25 XD4NTESINF3RNOX
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pretend to text :P
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#26 Brainkiller05
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I fart loudly to break the ice.

Pirate700
i heard we evolved to fart so we can break the ice
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#27 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

I fart loudly to break the ice.

Brainkiller05

i heard we evolved to fart so we can break the ice

I heard that too. It also brings in the chicks. 8)

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#28 turbotoby95
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start texting and if I have no one to text at the moment, i play Tetris and pretend that I'm texting 8)
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#29 Teenaged
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Either my mp3 player, or put on my social auto-pilot.

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#30 narutoisapirate
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Either my pm3 player, or put on my social auto-pilot.

Teenaged

pm3?:shock:

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#31 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

Either my pm3 player, or put on my social auto-pilot.

narutoisapirate

pm3?:shock:

Oh my... XD

Wait, I'll edit that.

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#32 narutoisapirate
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[QUOTE="narutoisapirate"]

[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

Either my pm3 player, or put on my social auto-pilot.

Teenaged

pm3?:shock:

Oh my... XD

Wait, I'll edit that.

oh..here i thought you held they key to the future..:roll:

:P

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#33 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="Teenaged"]

[QUOTE="narutoisapirate"]

pm3?:shock:

narutoisapirate

Oh my... XD

Wait, I'll edit that.

oh..here i thought you held they key to the future..:roll:

:P

Ah, i know, dammit. I could make a nice story out of that typo but I am not good at improvisation.

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#34 deactivated-6016e81e8e30f
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Here is my guide to dealing with awkward situations. Step 1: Nervously try to cover up awkwardness, only make things more awkward. Step 2: Failing that, try to find any way possible out of the situation. Now depending on the specifics, this path diverges. Step 3a: Stab and/or harm oneself in general with something so you have an excuse to leave. Step 3b: Mental breakdown, followed by "I CAN'T TAKE IT", and running out the door. If the door is blocked, fetal position on the floor. And they both converge into the final step. Step 4: Shame.
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#35 lordreaven
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I hav actually meet someone were we couldn't find ANYTHING in common. Nothing!

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#36 Gaming-Planet
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Different age groups in a class. It's so awkward at times because they are all in different phases of life.

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#37 supa_badman
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Daydream, Ipod, or just leaving always helps.

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#38 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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I just kind of tough it out. I feel awkward in most situations, to be honest.
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#39 Pirate700
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I just kind of tough it out. I feel awkward in most situations, to be honest.t3hrubikscube
What about this situation?

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#40 narutoisapirate
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i put my head down and hide in my hair.

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#41 DigitalExile
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Depends on the situation. Sometimes I just have to inject myself into it and take control.

*pelvic thrusts*

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#42 jazznate
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Marijuana can either help or make it worse.