How do you deal with it when your lonely and feel like you have no friends?

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#1 slipknot0129
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How do you deal with it when your lonely and feel like you have no friends?

Lately its felt like I have no friends when everybody else seems like they have a lot. I figure I will just not worry about it and be patient in life. Its such a temporary thing in my life im going through right now.

Thinking about how everything is just temporary has helped me feel better. Im going to college and if I stick with that then great things will happen. I'll probably make some new friends at college when I go back in a few weeks.

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#2 MrPraline
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glen moray 12 years
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Listen to good music.

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Think of ways to better myself.

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Call my sister and have a good laugh.
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#6 deactivated-5a9b3f32ef4e9
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It's all because you got an Alienware.

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#7 lo_Pine
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Tough the **** up pvssy. Thats the best advice I can give. Second to that, is Prozac. ;)

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#9 Inotian
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I play games 24/7 . Best Friends Forever.:(

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#10 kingkong0124
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make friends

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#11 Wilfred_Owen
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I typically do the right thing. Shut myself away. Hide from the world. I also habor a grudge or two. Live in the past. All that jazz.
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#12 Ilovegames1992
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I'll break it down:

15% of my time is spent pining for that life.

15% of my time i spent despising those who do have that life

70% of my time is spent wanking.

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#13 SteverXIII
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I don't mind much. I often prefer just talking to people online, at least there are people who share similar interests to me. Round' here there are so many people I just want nothing to do with.
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#14 deactivated-5a9b3f32ef4e9
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I'll break it down:

15% of my time is spent pining for that life.

15% of my time i spent despising those who do have that life

70% of my time is spent wanking.

Ilovegames1992

:lol:

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#15 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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I take it you listen to slipknot?

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#16 Wilfred_Owen
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I take it you listen to slipknot?

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Surely you know that band is the only one that understands emotional pain. You could learn a thing or two from them.
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#17 onebeelo
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come to gamespot. but seriously, maybe you should be questioning why you feel so lost when your by yourself.
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#18 SteverXIII
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[QUOTE="Wilfred_Owen"] Surely you know that band is the only one that understands emotional pain. You could learn a thing or two from them.

Can't forget Linkin park http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gd9OhYroLN0
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#19 Wilfred_Owen
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[QUOTE="SteverXIII"][QUOTE="Wilfred_Owen"] Surely you know that band is the only one that understands emotional pain. You could learn a thing or two from them.

Can't forget Linkin park http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gd9OhYroLN0

True. They knew that no matter how hard you try in the end it doesn't even matter.
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#20 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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[QUOTE="Wilfred_Owen"][QUOTE="SteverXIII"][QUOTE="Wilfred_Owen"] Surely you know that band is the only one that understands emotional pain. You could learn a thing or two from them.

Can't forget Linkin park http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gd9OhYroLN0

True. They knew that no matter how hard you try in the end it doesn't even matter.

Agreed. Hey, sometimes solutions arent so simple. Sometimes goodbye is the only way.
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#21 slipknot0129
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I take it you listen to slipknot?

sonicare

Cory Taylor said high school is so temporary that you shouldnt let bullying get to you. Same thing could be said for being lonely.

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#22 Ilovegames1992
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[QUOTE="sonicare"]

I take it you listen to slipknot?

slipknot0129

Cory Taylor said high school is so temporary that you shouldnt let bullying get to you. Same thing could be said for being lonely.

I'd disagree there.

Lonliness isn't intrinsically temporary.

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[QUOTE="slipknot0129"]

[QUOTE="sonicare"]

I take it you listen to slipknot?

Ilovegames1992

Cory Taylor said high school is so temporary that you shouldnt let bullying get to you. Same thing could be said for being lonely.

I'd disagree there.

Lonliness isn't intrinsically temporary.

Agreed...

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#24 AdamPA1006
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Dude trust me in College everything will change you will love it. Personally I have been by myself pretty much all summer, I went through a tough break up and just want to work on myself you know.
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make friends

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#26 slipknot0129
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Dude trust me in College everything will change you will love it. Personally I have been by myself pretty much all summer, I went through a tough break up and just want to work on myself you know. AdamPA1006
Yeah I cant wait for college to start. This summer has been boring.

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Well my boys right up the street so i just txt them and go up there or they'll come down here
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#28 slipknot0129
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[QUOTE="slipknot0129"]

[QUOTE="sonicare"]

I take it you listen to slipknot?

Ilovegames1992

Cory Taylor said high school is so temporary that you shouldnt let bullying get to you. Same thing could be said for being lonely.

I'd disagree there.

Lonliness isn't intrinsically temporary.

In my case it probably is.

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#29 Ilovegames1992
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To tell you the truth TC i think there is a benefit to being lonely in early life.

It prepares you for later in life when you haven't got time to hang with friends and you're naturally just lonely anyway.

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#30 unrealtron
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There is always a friend.
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#31 Ilovegames1992
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[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

[QUOTE="slipknot0129"]Cory Taylor said high school is so temporary that you shouldnt let bullying get to you. Same thing could be said for being lonely.

slipknot0129

I'd disagree there.

Lonliness isn't intrinsically temporary.

In my case it probably is.

Well consider yourself lucky.

This thread seems kind of moot now doesn't it?

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#32 TehFuneral
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I'll break it down:

15% of my time is spent pining for that life.

15% of my time i spent despising those who do have that life

70% of my time is spent wanking.

Ilovegames1992

Ah yes.. wanking.

Better than being depressed I guess.

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#33 l4dak47
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Drugs.
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make friends

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#35 slipknot0129
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[QUOTE="slipknot0129"]

[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

I'd disagree there.

Lonliness isn't intrinsically temporary.

Ilovegames1992

In my case it probably is.

Well consider yourself lucky.

This thread seems kind of moot now doesn't it?

Not really.

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TC, if you like working out, then you could get a gym membership, there you can meet people who are exercising, playing basketball, and other things. Also, the park has a bunch of activities with clubs and stuff since it is the summer. What are your hobbies?
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I just try to unwind in the seashore. It's very relaxing.

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#38 CHOASXIII
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I cut myself with a rubber knife.

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#39 MgamerBD
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I perk up, and keep moving. Everyone feels lonely, everyone has the feel. I take comfort in that I am not alone. I look forward to the future.
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#40 DeathnoteSz
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How do you deal with it when your lonely and feel like you have no friends?

Lately its felt like I have no friends when everybody else seems like they have a lot. I figure I will just not worry about it and be patient in life. Its such a temporary thing in my life im going through right now.

Thinking about how everything is just temporary has helped me feel better. Im going to college and if I stick with that then great things will happen. I'll probably make some new friends at college when I go back in a few weeks.

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music, video games, find a hobby, read, tv shows, and most of all try to make friends
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#41 DeathnoteSz
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To tell you the truth TC i think there is a benefit to being lonely in early life.

It prepares you for later in life when you haven't got time to hang with friends and you're naturally just lonely anyway.

Ilovegames1992
LOL that sounds so depressing dude
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I dance with the devil.
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#43 ShadowMoses900
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You will make new friends in college, I think everyone feels like you do at one point or another. I remember when I first started a job once, the job had a very large circle of people that went to parties, hung out ect....all the time after work.

I was the new guy so I felt a little left out, no one really talked to me much or wanted to know me. It takes some time I suppose. But I got through it by remembering that I am there to make money and be the best worker I can be. That's it.

Try thinking on a different perspective, or get out a little more. You can meet new people, try going to places where they share similar hobbies with you. There are clubs and groups out there all the time. But to make friends try being friendly first.

Keep you head up! You'll be fine!

But to be honest, if your just out of high school then I'm sorry for being the one to tell you this, but your not going to see your high school friends ever again. Or if you do it will be for a very short time and not very often. I almost never run into someone out of high school, but you meet new people.

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#44 iloverikku11
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glen moray 12 yearsMrPraline

first post gets it right.

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#45 realistic44
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I dance with the devil.Bloodseeker23

Immortal technique also dances with the devil :o

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#46 kingdre
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I read or watch something funny.

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I deal with it as best as I can by silencing my mind as much as possible and then thinking about how lucky I am.
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#48 J-man45
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I usually don't feel lonely. Usually when I am alone it is by choice.

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#49 Dogswithguns
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I feel better without friends now.. come to think of it much better. lonely but better in a way.
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#50 lo_Pine
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Seriously, bro, you are a pxssy for posting this sh!t. Live on your own or you won't ever live. Ever heard of survival of the fittest? Yeah, this is what it's about. Toughen the **** up.