how do you know what to do the first time you have sex? (serious question)

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#1 Sonick54
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I mean, do you guess and go with the flow?
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#2 Omni-Slash
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you don't.....man couldI tell you horror stories about ears..... whipped cream...... cats and a microscope.......
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#3 AndyWilliams24
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Dude, dont worry about it. When the time comes, just go along with the flow. You can't exactly do it 'wrong'.
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#4 Sonick54
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you don't.....man couldI tell you horror stories about ears..... whipped cream...... cats and a microscope.......Omni-Slash

a stud in bed huh omni?! :oops:

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#5 sciortino
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You have to do a tribal dance to alert the gods that you are about to initiate in a sexual activity. Tom Cruise will then come from the heaven above and grant you your wish by supplying you with a six pack of condoms.

He will then leave and you have sex. And thats about it

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#6 Sonick54
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Dude, dont worry about it. When the time comes, just go along with the flow. You can't exactly do it 'wrong'.AndyWilliams24

well, i'm afraid i do something that might turn her off

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#7 04JETTA
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follow your instinct if your really nervous ask her for help (yes it would prolly beawkward but its a good way to know)

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#8 YeahYes
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Sexual Performance is mainly psychological so in other words don't think limp.
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#9 British_Azimio
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You have to make sure you find the right hole first.
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#10 Omni-Slash
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well, i'm afraid i do something that might turn her off

Sonick54
if it's her first time she is going to be just as nervous as you....if not.....have her lead.....
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#11 Sonick54
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You have to do atribal dance to alert the gods that you are about to initiate in a sexual activity. Tom Cruise will then come from the heaven above and grant you your wish by supplying you with a six pack of condoms.

He will then leave and you have sex. And thats about it

sciortino

yay! free condoms :D

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#12 Sonick54
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[QUOTE="Sonick54"]

well, i'm afraid i do something that might turn her off

Omni-Slash

if it's her first time she is going to be just as nervous as you....if not.....have her lead.....

but aren't men supposed to be the dominant one in sex?! :shock:

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#13 Witchsight
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Short answer, you dont. But youll figure it out!
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#14 Omni-Slash
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ibut aren't men supposed to be the dominant one in sex?! :shock:Sonick54
not always.....depends what you are both into....
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#15 taker42
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With some much erm source material on the internet, how could you go wrong :?
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[QUOTE="Omni-Slash"][QUOTE="Sonick54"]

well, i'm afraid i do something that might turn her off

Sonick54

if it's her first time she is going to be just as nervous as you....if not.....have her lead.....

but aren't men supposed to be the dominant one in sex?! :shock:

Not at all. It's 50/50 dude.

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#17 plague32390
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Communication. Thats all you have to remember to do, she knows what she wants.

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#18 Oleg_Huzwog
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You put your left foot in
You pull your left foot out
You put your left foot in
And you shake it all about.
You do the Hokey Pokey and you turn yourself around
That's what it's all about...

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#19 Bobby_Oz
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Honestly, if you need to ask in an OT forum, you have bigger problems
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#20 Jocubus
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Well how about small things like this: How long should you wait after the act to "clean up?" I think it would turne her off if you go and do it right after the "climax."
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#21 Honenheim
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Everything's spontaneous but whats important is that you and your partner are relaxed and comfortable with each other.
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#22 RamboSymbiot
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ask me, im an expert
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#23 muppet1010
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well ive sen pr0n before so I have a general idea...

Does make me wonder how people in "olden times" knew what to do though :P

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#24 muppet1010
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Dude, dont worry about it. When the time comes, just go along with the flow. You can't exactly do it 'wrong'.AndyWilliams24

*thinks of all the ways you could do it wrong* :P

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#25 Kcube
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Having sex is pretty easy,The hardest part is remembering to wear protection,you get into it and think you wont need one and end up with a few kids or worse AIDS or CANCER.
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#26 Samwel_X
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Just go with the flow and everything should be fine... but don't expect the first time to be spectacular.
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#27 SpazH3d
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Swiftly stick it in her pooper. She'll orgasm within 12 seconds. Nothing can go wrong!
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#28 mGard
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Having sex is pretty easy,The hardest part is remembering to wear protection,you get into it and think you wont need one and end up with a few kids or worse AIDS or CANCER.Kcube

Cancer by sex?.. Is that a plane? Is that superman? NO! GO ROFLCOPTER!

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[QUOTE="Kcube"]Having sex is pretty easy,The hardest part is remembering to wear protection,you get into it and think you wont need one and end up with a few kids or worse AIDS or CANCER.mGard

Cancer by sex?.. Is that a plane? Is that superman? NO! GO ROFLCOPTER!

:lol: :lol:

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#30 charly_frucker
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Donkey punch her dooggie style ..lol
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#31 edd678
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I mean, do you guess and go with the flow?Sonick54

Just got watch some porn, it will teach you everything you need to know ;)

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#32 charly_frucker
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thats what I did Max Hardcore ones ...lol
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You have to make sure you find the right hole first.British_Azimio

There's a wrong hole?

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#34 Wren28
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Coming from the female perspective: Just make sure you're not the one getting all the pleasure...and I'll leave it at that.
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With some much erm source material on the internet, how could you go wrong :? taker42

lol so true :?

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#36 Oleg_Huzwog
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Coming from the female perspective: Just make sure you're not the one getting all the pleasure...and I'll leave it at that.Wren28

Not the only one? Huh? Who else is there?

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#37 charly_frucker
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pfft .....wattcha talking about , girls get pleasure , hmm , youre having a laff .......lol

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#38 MarineJcksn
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You need to spend the right amount of time making it comfortable for her if its the 1st time for both of you. Regardless of how you perform, it's gonna be a little nerve racking. Just spend enough time "warming her up" so to speak, definitely do oral even if you don't like to and take your time. Trust me, the last thing u wanna do is just try getting on top and going right at it.

Good luck

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#39 rudyroundhead
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you don't.....man couldI tell you horror stories about ears..... whipped cream...... cats and a microscope.......Omni-Slash

Microscope...:lol: Couldn't find it huh...:| *runs out of thread* :P

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#40 patrickmanx
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its just instict
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#41 solidgamer
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aslong as you have a understanding partner it will be fine
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#42 H3llstrike
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Listen up, start with the ABC's with your tounge on the kitty, and roll your hips when you know! That's all I'm going to say.
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#43 H3llstrike
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Having sex is pretty easy,The hardest part is remembering to wear protection,you get into it and think you wont need one and end up with a few kids or worse AIDS or CANCER.Kcube
Cancer :lol: man I love your avatar could you tell me what's that from?
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#44 Mr47fitter
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Don't go in dry.
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#45 Omni-Slash
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Cancer :lol: man I love your avatar could you tell me what's that from?H3llstrike
I find if you get the aids and teh cancer together they kill themselves off....I'm not doctor but this is whatI believe.....
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[QUOTE="H3llstrike"]Cancer :lol: man I love your avatar could you tell me what's that from?Omni-Slash
I find if you get the aids and teh cancer together they kill themselves off....I'm not doctor but this is whatI believe.....

Just spray some antiseptic on it afterwards and you will be aight:lol:
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#47 Dr-Zem
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Well let her do the work!!
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#48 ciaxhieu
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easy u watch lots of porn or watch your friend going at it :roll:
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#49 Omni-Slash
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Just spray some antiseptic on it afterwards and you will be aight:lol:H3llstrike
Think a roach spray bleach mixtureis a safe alternative?..
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#50 Dr-Zem
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You need to spend the right amount of time making it comfortable for her if its the 1st time for both of you. Regardless of how you perform, it's gonna be a little nerve racking. Just spend enough time "warming her up" so to speak, definitely do oral even if you don't like to and take your time. Trust me, the last thing u wanna do is just try getting on top and going right at it.

Good luck

MarineJcksn

The Girl Will Screen if u go pounding in straight away start of reli slow and build it up xD and change moves a bit othten