Pretty much what the title says, how long did it take for you guys to get over your ex and move on, im having that problem of not being able to move on. Did you guys do anything that helped you get over your ex?
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Pretty much what the title says, how long did it take for you guys to get over your ex and move on, im having that problem of not being able to move on. Did you guys do anything that helped you get over your ex?
Im still not over my ex and it's been about a year. We were together for four years and had planned on getting married. But im getting better I just need to find someone else that's the hard part.
1st ex: About a week. He got another girlfriend so it was easier to move on knowing I never had another chance.
2nd ex: I'm still not over him. We broke up last month. Every now and then I just start crying because I remember something we did or shared.
Well my last ex was not too long ago, but long enough to move on from by now. It went in stages throughout the months:
Depressing
Sadness
Indifference
Anger
Hate
Sympathy
Subtle Hate
and now it's indifference. I've since cut ties with her and I know the kind of person she is, and it's the kind I have no respect for and will not put up with.
I was with my gf for a little under 2 years when we broke up because she was moving away touniversity. After a year I was still not over her but luckily for me we ended up getting back together and are now in a long distance relationship. Would probably take me a few years and a lot of rebound girls to get over her.
No you don't believe me son it's not worth it As for me usually bout a month, first two weeks are a little bit about thinkin and next two are partying and enjoying the wildness of a free man Yes sir!this is one problem,i wish i had:(
Vader993
my last ex, no time at all, since i was the one that broke it off with her. i don't remember having hard times with my others either. strangely enough, i've had a harder time getting over girls that i liked but couldn't get with, rather than girls that i was with that broke up with me.
Never did. I died within, I got a breakdown, so did she, we both went to see each other, and so we did. Together again. Never had another. Only her. My one and only.
To fully get over my last ex, it took about two week. The first few days I was a wreck, I showed up at school and when I saw my friends I ended up crying so much when I tried to tell them what happened. Afterwards I just kept my head held high and became focused on making even more friends, I wouldn't let a break up ruin my life. Soon that painful feeling that came when I thought about him became a dull stab tot he hear, and soon it became nothing at all. I got over him. And hey, TC, just keep yourself busy for a while, it really helps.
I dated my 1st bf for around 1.5 years and it took a month to get over him.
my 2nd ex and I dated for a week or so and I got over him in a couple of days. :P
After my ex declared a break-up, I didn't even feel a bit of loneliness. Here's what, she's the one who started sticking around me and hugging me like a teddy bear. I think to myself, if I tell her I didn't love her, she will be utterly hurt. So I bit the cookie and courted her.
As nice as it would be to have some sort of instant cure, I think waiting it out can sometimes be your best bet. I remember after my last boyfriend broke up with me I was very sad for a long time. And then one morning I woke up and wasn't quite as sad. And over the weeks/months it gradually hurt less and less.
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