So, I was friends with this girl for a while, and it seemed like the relationship she was in was rather rocky. He was just never there, didn't know how to treat her and all that stuff. Long story short, we started growing close and hopes of being together. All of a sudden, the boyfriend realized he was going to lose her, started fighting for her and then she cut off the closeness we had cuz she woke up and realized she was fooling around. She still wants to be friends and somehow still "wants me in her life", but how can I do that when my heart is shattered? :( I've tried everything I could to convince myself that I could get over this, to not let it get in the way, to not let it bother me. Everytime I think I'm ok, it just comes back around. So... I'm not OK. Is there anyone out there who stayed friends with someone who broke their heart, and if you did... how the hell did you do it? :?
I've been good friends with a girl for about three years at this point, and every time I try to bring the friendship out of the realm of "just friends", my efforts are completely and totally blocked. It's not necessarily "heartbreaking", but it is extremely depressing at times. Though we don't really see each other any more due to the fact that we attend different universities, my feelings for her remain...
i think it is almost impossible to remain friends with a girl that you were intimate with and really liked.. especially when you are trying to get over them.. u need a break from seeing them altogether to fully get over them if your hurt about the break up... thats why any school relationship is always rubbish because u never get a break from seeing her.. if ur in school i would advise to keep everything extremely casual
ohh yeh and a lot of girls just say that and then ignore you completely, its just an automatic thing for them to say when they break up.. its f****** annoying!
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