How MORALLY wrong is this situation?

scumbags friends

Do a 4-way.

Do a 4-way.

GOGOGOGURT

If she feels the need to hide it from her boyfriend and girlfriend without any justifiable reason then it's wrong. If they will be hurt by this if they find out then it's wrong. I see nothing wrong with 3-way or even 4-way relationships if everyone is comfortable with it. But if you're doing something that could hurt someone then it's wrong. She needs to decide which way she wants to go. 

I'd say and STD is very likely.

She is cheating on them, so there is a chance the same will occur with you. Also important is the fact you say you are good friends with someone, but cheating with her girlfriend is not something you refrain from doing. 

I prefer to be in monogamous relationships and cheating would effectively end any I am in. I will not be a part of a cheating situation where I am who is being cheated with because it is not my style.

If she feels the need to hide it from her boyfriend and girlfriend without any justifiable reason then it's wrong. If they will be hurt by this if they find out then it's wrong. I see nothing wrong with 3-way or even 4-way relationships if everyone is comfortable with it. But if you're doing something that could hurt someone then it's wrong. She needs to decide which way she wants to go. 

Tropictrain

This situation is more confusing than it is immoral.

This situation is more confusing than it is immoral.

GD-1369211121

that's pretty ****ed up. She's perfectly fine with cheating on people who she has no intention of breaking up with, and you have no problem stabbing your friend in the back, ****ing her gf. And you actually have to ask how wrong that is? yall are both pieces of ****. the good news is, yall deserve eachother.Sword-Demon

I agree with what said above. 

IF... and I say that word with some reservations in mind. IF this is true, it's just as bad as you find any other kind of cheating.

I don't make moral judgements on other people. It totally depends on the three of them and you and how all of you guys think of the situation. I will speculate that it isn't going to end well for anyone. I've been in somewhat similiar situations a few times and it never goes well. Even if you weren't involved, the 3-way will go bad. It always does.

that's pretty ****ed up. She's perfectly fine with cheating on people who she has no intention of breaking up with, and you have no problem stabbing your friend in the back, ****ing her gf. And you actually have to ask how wrong that is? yall are both pieces of ****. the good news is, yall deserve eachother.Sword-Demon

This^ if the whole strange story isn't all just made up like I think it is

You are obviously an evil person TC

Make her come clean to the others or do it yourself 

So this guy is banging the 2 chicks? Lucky him.

3-way relationship? :lol:MonsieurX

Make her come clean to the others or do it yourself 

da_illest101

Make it a 4-way. It's the only logical thing to do.Shottayouth13-

3-way relationship? :lol:MonsieurX

IF you want proof of the moral degregation of society, and the collapse of the family unit, here it is.

IF you want proof of the moral degregation of society, and the collapse of the family unit, here it is.

AdamPA1006

I wanna say she's the master of puppets here but puppets aren't as dumb as this.

And if she is only "in love" with you, then you are the one being cheated upon with the casual three-way.foxhound_fox

Morality is subjective. This situation is ridiculous. 

Your 14. No one gives a shit.

you'd laugh hard at your situation too if you weren't in love.

morally wrong?

tbh, it sounds like your friends are just plain stupid.

reminds me of little kids 'play dating'.. 3 way relationship? what is this? lol

Ok, my ex-gf, who has a Boyfriend and Girlfriend (its a 3-way relationship), well its no secret between me and her that we are still in love (but her gf and bf don't know that at all), but she doesn't know if she wants to end her current 3-way to get back with me, but she is still in love with me (its confusing, I know)............ anyway, we have started saying that we love each other every night before bed and we even have these physically intimate moments like every other night............but she still has not broken up her 3-way. So, she is cheating on her bf and gf, basically, and I am totally aware of that (but i'm not entirely sure that she is). Plus, I am actually FRIENDS with her Girlfriend. Good friends. And she has no idea that her girlfriend is cheating on her with me. So, as a whole, how morally wrong is this whole situation?Kevlar101

[QUOTE="Kevlar101"]Ok, my ex-gf, who has a Boyfriend and Girlfriend (its a 3-way relationship), well its no secret between me and her that we are still in love (but her gf and bf don't know that at all), but she doesn't know if she wants to end her current 3-way to get back with me, but she is still in love with me (its confusing, I know)............ anyway, we have started saying that we love each other every night before bed and we even have these physically intimate moments like every other night............but she still has not broken up her 3-way. So, she is cheating on her bf and gf, basically, and I am totally aware of that (but i'm not entirely sure that she is). Plus, I am actually FRIENDS with her Girlfriend. Good friends. And she has no idea that her girlfriend is cheating on her with me. So, as a whole, how morally wrong is this whole situation?TheWalkingGhost

This is a pretty messed up situation you got yourself into lol. But it' s still cheating. You can either sort things out by demanding her to make a choice or you can carry on and have fun knowing that in the end someone' s going to get hurt. Just do whatever your instict says. :)

[QUOTE="TheWalkingGhost"][QUOTE="Kevlar101"]Ok, my ex-gf, who has a Boyfriend and Girlfriend (its a 3-way relationship), well its no secret between me and her that we are still in love (but her gf and bf don't know that at all), but she doesn't know if she wants to end her current 3-way to get back with me, but she is still in love with me (its confusing, I know)............ anyway, we have started saying that we love each other every night before bed and we even have these physically intimate moments like every other night............but she still has not broken up her 3-way. So, she is cheating on her bf and gf, basically, and I am totally aware of that (but i'm not entirely sure that she is). Plus, I am actually FRIENDS with her Girlfriend. Good friends. And she has no idea that her girlfriend is cheating on her with me. So, as a whole, how morally wrong is this whole situation?Kevlar101

As long as it doesn't hurt you, you should not give a shit about morality, because you can make your own definition of morality. She is an adventurous girl. But your first priority must be your feelings.MauiLastLight

have an orgy.

Does this chick's Boyfriend and Girlfriend know about each other?

Because if they do you probably can't hurt them with your shenanigans. They already know this chick is a grade-A slut.

It is not morally worng if you are ok with it.

However, obviouslly you feel some kind of guilt.

I know may people who are in "relationships" with many people but do not feel a shred of guilt.