How to Ask this Girl Out?

There's this girl that I like a lot. In fact, I think about her probably every hour or so. I feel depressed whenever I'm not around her, yada, yada, yada.

The thing is I've never been in a relationship before. I've been pretty sheltered my whole life, only hanging out with a a few friends every once in a while ect. I'm not awkward or anything, especially lately I've been getting into a lot of conversations with people and feeling confident.

We see each other usually three times a day. Before school, during the one class we have together, and then after school for the bus. She likes me, I know that much, as a friend though. I'm having a really hard time reading girls however, and I honestly feel quite lost in the aspect of dating or a relationship in a school environment. I know she's never had a boyfriend before, but I don't know if she's been asked out before.

So I was wondering if Gamespot Off Topic has some tips about dating. I need to see if she would date me without actually asking her. Thanks for reading.

There's this girl that I like a lot. In fact, I think about her probably every hour or so. I feel depressed whenever I'm not around her, yada, yada, yada.

The thing is I've never been in a relationship before. I've been pretty sheltered my whole life, only hanging out with a a few friends every once in a while ect. I'm not awkward or anything, especially lately I've been getting into a lot of conversations with people and feeling confident.

We see each other usually three times a day. Before school, during the one class we have together, and then after school for the bus. She likes me, I know that much, as a friend though. I'm having a really hard time reading girls however, and I honestly feel quite lost in the aspect of dating or a relationship in a school environment. I know she's never had a boyfriend before, but I don't know if she's been asked out before.

So I was wondering if Gamespot Off Topic has some tips about dating. I need to see if she would date me without actually asking her. Thanks for reading.

bertainpp7

well that sounds as an infatuation to me...but why not to try? if you say that she has always been single then she is a jewel...just talk to her, and when you feel most confident just go for it...like "hey there is this cool movie at theaters...do you want to go watch it?" and just do that.

Women like confidence and compliments but not an overload. I could think of some more, but I'm not really in the mood.

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]

There's this girl that I like a lot. In fact, I think about her probably every hour or so. I feel depressed whenever I'm not around her, yada, yada, yada.

The thing is I've never been in a relationship before. I've been pretty sheltered my whole life, only hanging out with a a few friends every once in a while ect. I'm not awkward or anything, especially lately I've been getting into a lot of conversations with people and feeling confident.

We see each other usually three times a day. Before school, during the one class we have together, and then after school for the bus. She likes me, I know that much, as a friend though. I'm having a really hard time reading girls however, and I honestly feel quite lost in the aspect of dating or a relationship in a school environment. I know she's never had a boyfriend before, but I don't know if she's been asked out before.

So I was wondering if Gamespot Off Topic has some tips about dating. I need to see if she would date me without actually asking her. Thanks for reading.

lightleggy

well that sounds as an infatuation to me...but why not to try? if you say that she has always been single then she is a jewel...just talk to her, and when you feel most confident just go for it...like "hey there is this cool movie at theaters...do you want to go watch it?" and just do that.

We are 17.bertainpp7

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]We are 17.Setsa

Step 1) Walk up to her.

Step 2) Say, "Hey do you want to go out?"

Now this is the tricky part. If she says Yes, she definitely wants to go out with you. If she says No, then you better forget about her because she obviously wants nothing to do with you.frostybanana

This. Just ask her straight up. Just remember to be confident!

Make your move on the bus. That way she doesnt have any way to escape

[QUOTE="lightleggy"]

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]

There's this girl that I like a lot. In fact, I think about her probably every hour or so. I feel depressed whenever I'm not around her, yada, yada, yada.

The thing is I've never been in a relationship before. I've been pretty sheltered my whole life, only hanging out with a a few friends every once in a while ect. I'm not awkward or anything, especially lately I've been getting into a lot of conversations with people and feeling confident.

We see each other usually three times a day. Before school, during the one class we have together, and then after school for the bus. She likes me, I know that much, as a friend though. I'm having a really hard time reading girls however, and I honestly feel quite lost in the aspect of dating or a relationship in a school environment. I know she's never had a boyfriend before, but I don't know if she's been asked out before.

So I was wondering if Gamespot Off Topic has some tips about dating. I need to see if she would date me without actually asking her. Thanks for reading.

bertainpp7

well that sounds as an infatuation to me...but why not to try? if you say that she has always been single then she is a jewel...just talk to her, and when you feel most confident just go for it...like "hey there is this cool movie at theaters...do you want to go watch it?" and just do that.

well...theres always a way of telling a girl that you want to be more than friends...TOUCH HER SHOULDER! watch out though, do it for too long and something will grow...and im not talking about love here.

on a more serious note, ask it with a somewhat nervous tone like "hey...uhm...listen theres this good movie and...I was wondering if you wanna go watch it" its pretty much an indirect of "damm im asking her out I hope this works out"

Make your move on the bus. That way she doesnt have any way to escape

Colin1192

[QUOTE="frostybanana"]Step 1) Walk up to her.

Step 2) Say, "Hey do you want to go out?"

Now this is the tricky part. If she says Yes, she definitely wants to go out with you. If she says No, then you better forget about her because she obviously wants nothing to do with you.octoman115

This. Just ask her straight up. Just remember to be confident!

"wanna ****?"

[QUOTE="Colin1192"]Haha, that would be awkward if she says no. [QUOTE="octoman115"]

[QUOTE="frostybanana"]Step 1) Walk up to her.

Step 2) Say, "Hey do you want to go out?"

Now this is the tricky part. If she says Yes, she definitely wants to go out with you. If she says No, then you better forget about her because she obviously wants nothing to do with you.bertainpp7

This. Just ask her straight up. Just remember to be confident!

dude, if you want to listen to someone, then listen to me...Im experienced at this trust me man, im 22 years old and I have touched 4 bra straps in my life!

Step 1: whack with club

Step 2: drag to cave

Step 3: ?????????

Step 4: PROFIT!

This might not help much but i'd go with pulling your trouser pockets inside out and doing the Elephant impression.

On second thoughts just askingit out for coffee or similar may be best

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"][QUOTE="Colin1192"]

This. Just ask her straight up. Just remember to be confident!

Colin1192

but one has to remember...never to be overconfident... I got a friend who thinks that he is the world's sovereign pimp or something, he believes that there he is the hottest man on earth so when he wants to a date a girl he just comes like "hey...look at my pretty face, yeah, lucky girl, this pretty face, wants to go out with you, and this triceps also wants to come *shows arms*" and I swear, if I were a girl and a guy like that comes asking me out with something like that, i'll just kick him down in the goodies and say "no thank you douchebag"

[QUOTE="Colin1192"][QUOTE="bertainpp7"]Yeah, I have no problem acting confident around her as of late. I can definitely ask her out and act confident about it... at least that's what I think. lightleggy

but one has to remember...never to be overconfident... I got a friend who thinks that he is the world's sovereign pimp or something, he believes that there he is the hottest man on earth so when he wants to a date a girl he just comes like "hey...look at my pretty face, yeah, lucky girl, this pretty face, wants to go out with you, and this triceps also wants to come *shows arms*" and I swear, if I were a girl and a guy like that comes asking me out with something like that, i'll just kick him down in the goodies and say "no thank you douchebag"

[QUOTE="lightleggy"]

[QUOTE="Colin1192"] Exactly, so she will feel obligated to say yesbertainpp7

but one has to remember...never to be overconfident... I got a friend who thinks that he is the world's sovereign pimp or something, he believes that there he is the hottest man on earth so when he wants to a date a girl he just comes like "hey...look at my pretty face, yeah, lucky girl, this pretty face, wants to go out with you, and this triceps also wants to come *shows arms*" and I swear, if I were a girl and a guy like that comes asking me out with something like that, i'll just kick him down in the goodies and say "no thank you douchebag"

so you got a hard on ?

[QUOTE="lightleggy"]

[QUOTE="Colin1192"] Exactly, so she will feel obligated to say yesbertainpp7

but one has to remember...never to be overconfident... I got a friend who thinks that he is the world's sovereign pimp or something, he believes that there he is the hottest man on earth so when he wants to a date a girl he just comes like "hey...look at my pretty face, yeah, lucky girl, this pretty face, wants to go out with you, and this triceps also wants to come *shows arms*" and I swear, if I were a girl and a guy like that comes asking me out with something like that, i'll just kick him down in the goodies and say "no thank you douchebag"

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"][QUOTE="lightleggy"]

but one has to remember...never to be overconfident... I got a friend who thinks that he is the world's sovereign pimp or something, he believes that there he is the hottest man on earth so when he wants to a date a girl he just comes like "hey...look at my pretty face, yeah, lucky girl, this pretty face, wants to go out with you, and this triceps also wants to come *shows arms*" and I swear, if I were a girl and a guy like that comes asking me out with something like that, i'll just kick him down in the goodies and say "no thank you douchebag"

Colin1192

so you got a hard on ?

*high five*

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"][QUOTE="lightleggy"]

but one has to remember...never to be overconfident... I got a friend who thinks that he is the world's sovereign pimp or something, he believes that there he is the hottest man on earth so when he wants to a date a girl he just comes like "hey...look at my pretty face, yeah, lucky girl, this pretty face, wants to go out with you, and this triceps also wants to come *shows arms*" and I swear, if I were a girl and a guy like that comes asking me out with something like that, i'll just kick him down in the goodies and say "no thank you douchebag"

Colin1192

so you got a hard on ?

[QUOTE="Colin1192"]

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]I think Colin1192 was actually quoting me when I said it would be awkward to ask her out on a bus if she said no. The funny thing is, I actually came close on a bus to telling her, "hey, I like you a lot" and I've never felt such emotion through my body ever. I never felt so depressed in my life for the weekend after that because I thought I missed out. In retrospective, I'm glad I didn't because we hadn't really been solid friends.Optical_Order

so you got a hard on ?

*high five*

right on. damn thats a big hand

[QUOTE="Optical_Order"]

[QUOTE="Colin1192"]

so you got a hard on ?

Colin1192

*high five*

right on. damn thats a big hand

dammit you took out the words from my mouth...as soon as I saw that hand I thought "THAT THING IS KING KONG'S HAND"

[QUOTE="Optical_Order"]

[QUOTE="Colin1192"]

so you got a hard on ?

Colin1192

*high five*

right on. damn thats a big hand

big hand for a big hard on

whats this "touching shoulders" thing i keep seeing posted

a meme or something?

big hand for a big hard on

Optical_Order

well he never said how big he was

Ususally a movie is not such a great idea for a first date because you don't get to talk much...

There aren't any good movies out for us to see. I think I should just ask her what she's doing on the weekend then ask to chill sometime, which I don't think would be considered a date or anything, right? I just want to see her more.bertainpp7

Who says you'll be watching the movie? ;)

[QUOTE="Optical_Order"]

big hand for a big hard on

Colin1192

well he never said how big he was

You're right.

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Simply ask her in person.

Ask her if she wants to go out for coffee/smoothies. I'm not kidding when I say that it's one of the best icebreaker "dates" you can have. It promotes interaction and conversation, where going to movie promotes ignoring eachother to...watch the movie. Some coffee shops even have board games you can play. Seriously, give it a try.