How to do Things with People?

So I have lots of friends at school, and I can tell I am at least well-liked, but for some reason I don't do anything social outside of school. My whole life I've been rather sheltered, and I want to go out more. I only have a few select friends which I do boring things with...

This is kind of embarrassing, but I don't know how to be proactive in this department without risking looking weird.

Saying something to someone like "hey are you free this weekend? Do you want to chill sometime?" to me would make the person seem likeI'm desperate or something. I'm not sure, but just hanging out with one other guy is kind of weird, especially just going to the movies with one other guy... I need to join a group of people but no one invites me to anything :(.

Just follow them home.

So I have lots of friends at school, and I can tell I am at least well-liked, but for some reason I don't do anything social outside of school. My whole life I've been rather sheltered, and I want to go out more. I only have a few select friends which I do boring things with...

This is kind of embarrassing, but I don't know how to be proactive in this department without risking looking weird.

Saying something to someone like "hey are you free this weekend? Do you want to chill sometime?" to me would make the person seem likeI'm desperate or something. I'm not sure, but just hanging out with one other guy is kind of weird, especially just going to the movies with one other guy... I need to join a group of people but no one invites me to anything :(.

bertainpp7

What do you mean by things? And do? Because things could get really weird. Or really sexy.Agent-Zero

find out about any parties over the weekend and ask if you can go with them

Saying something to someone like "hey are you free this weekend? Do you want to chill sometime?" to me would make the person seem likeI'm desperate or something. I'm not sure, but just hanging out with one other guy is kind of weird, especially just going to the movies with one other guy... I need to join a group of people but no one invites me to anything :(.

bertainpp7

Just follow them home.

no_more_fayth

Sometimes you're just gonna not worry about looking weird and just ask. Besides, how weird can you look by just asking normal questions.Travo_basic

just drink before talking,words will pour out by themselves.

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]

So I have lots of friends at school, and I can tell I am at least well-liked, but for some reason I don't do anything social outside of school. My whole life I've been rather sheltered, and I want to go out more. I only have a few select friends which I do boring things with...

This is kind of embarrassing, but I don't know how to be proactive in this department without risking looking weird.

Saying something to someone like "hey are you free this weekend? Do you want to chill sometime?" to me would make the person seem likeI'm desperate or something. I'm not sure, but just hanging out with one other guy is kind of weird, especially just going to the movies with one other guy... I need to join a group of people but no one invites me to anything :(.

l4dak47

if you don't ask, you aren't gaining anything. And if they say no, you aren't losing anything. So bottom line, go for it, ask, you only have one life to live.

[QUOTE="no_more_fayth"]

Just follow them home.

BranKetra

if you don't ask, you aren't gaining anything. And if they say no, you aren't losing anything. So bottom line, go for it, ask, you only have one life to live.

sherman-tank1

[QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="no_more_fayth"]

Just follow them home.

carrot-cake

[QUOTE="carrot-cake"]

[QUOTE="BranKetra"] Inside their house.sherman-tank1

[QUOTE="carrot-cake"]

[QUOTE="BranKetra"] Inside their house.sherman-tank1

Eatin their cookies

Oborozukiyo

Get a song made about you.

BranKetra

[QUOTE="sherman-tank1"]

[QUOTE="carrot-cake"]
Into their room.

Oborozukiyo

You will be looked as weird if you feel awkward about it.

[QUOTE="Oborozukiyo"]

[QUOTE="sherman-tank1"]Into their bed.

-Big_Red-

just drink before talking,words will pour out by themselves.

VaguelyTagged

You jest, but alcohol was partially responsible for solving my social problems. Sadly.

[QUOTE="Oborozukiyo"]Eatin their cookies

[QUOTE="Oborozukiyo"][QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] Cookies in bed?

-Big_Red-

I'm in a kind of sort of similar boat. I do have friends that I occasionaly hang out with, but asking people who I've never been out anywhere with to hang out ispretty muchimpossible for me even if we're friends, and even the people that I do hang out with they usually ask me.

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"][QUOTE="Oborozukiyo"]There'l be sooo many crumbs!Oborozukiyo

I'll show you a pic of me, then I'll let you answer that.

[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"]

just drink before talking,words will pour out by themselves.

iAtrocious

You jest, but alcohol was partially responsible for solving my social problems. Sadly.

[QUOTE="iAtrocious"]

[QUOTE="VaguelyTagged"]

just drink before talking,words will pour out by themselves.

VaguelyTagged

You jest, but alcohol was partially responsible for solving my social problems. Sadly.

[QUOTE="Oborozukiyo"]

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"] Not if they're the chewy kind.-Big_Red-

I'll show you a pic of me, then I'll let you answer that.

Just go out with them to the mall or something. See a movie or eat lunch, or drive somewhere like to sight see.

[QUOTE="-Big_Red-"]

[QUOTE="Oborozukiyo"]Are you talking about cookies or people?

I'll show you a pic of me, then I'll let you answer that.

How old are you?

I love these threads caus I get alot of laughs at peoples comments :lol: back to the topic, don't be SHY

[QUOTE="bertainpp7"]

So I have lots of friends at school, and I can tell I am at least well-liked, but for some reason I don't do anything social outside of school. My whole life I've been rather sheltered, and I want to go out more. I only have a few select friends which I do boring things with...

This is kind of embarrassing, but I don't know how to be proactive in this department without risking looking weird.

Saying something to someone like "hey are you free this weekend? Do you want to chill sometime?" to me would make the person seem likeI'm desperate or something. I'm not sure, but just hanging out with one other guy is kind of weird, especially just going to the movies with one other guy... I need to join a group of people but no one invites me to anything :(.

l4dak47

So am I:(

How old are you?

UGAfootballfan

[QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="no_more_fayth"]

Just follow them home.

carrot-cake

On their bed. :P

But anyway, ju.st ask any friend to hang out with you. Your probably seem weird for not asking them