how to get your ex girlfriend back...

Does anyone have anytips on how i should go about doing this? We have been broken up for about a week and a half. She still wants to hang out and stuff and says there love stilli. I feel like the things im doing is pushing her away. and theres one little prob. theres another guy that she likes also. And she doesnt know who she wants to be with.

So if you guys have any tips oranythingi would much appreciate it. and if you need more info just let me know thanks in advance.

Give her time then rebuild the relationship?

My friend is back with his ex-girlfriend after they broke up over a year ago...He just let her have her space then eventually a couple of months later they become friends again and built up from there.

I say give her time because as the guy above me said....she very well could just be trying to make you play her little game.

Give her time then rebuild the relationship?

My friend is back with his ex-girlfriend after they broke up over a year ago...He just let her have her space then eventually a couple of months later they become friends again and built up from there.

I say give her time because as the guy above me said....she very well could just be trying to make you play her little game.

UnknownSniper65

Yea i think im going to do this cuz i mean i sat with her and was like u need to pick etc etc and its to the point like everyday we talk about the same stuff. And i havent really given her time to think so thats why i said i think i'm pushing her away by trying to hang out and try to force the answer out of her.

Go on a tall building , get media attention, and yell "YOU FILTHY SKANK! LOOK WHAT YOU MADE ME DO!" then jump off!

Works every time.
xid32

If she doesn't know who she wants to be with then that's the first red flag.

NEVER end up with someone who "can't decide"

She either wants you, or doesn't. Love isn't a pissing competition.

She's going to compair you to the other guy and find your every fault because of it. Screw that.

You're should consider yourself to be deserving of something better then that.

If she has to "choose" it means that she's not sure if you're worthy of loving or not. That's NOT love.
Even if you do end up together, she'll most likely wonder if she made the right decision or end of changing her mind later on.

She's waiting to see which one is "better"

Get out while you can._Marisa_

We should rename this thread to

How to get back at your ex girlfriend, hehehe

Write her a song or something.needled24-7

As I would like to state, this works at first but if you mess up to much it becomes useless. Known from experience.

[QUOTE="needled24-7"]Write her a song or something.Sladen_Dead

As I would like to state, this works at first but if you mess up to much it becomes useless. Known from experience.

[QUOTE="Sladen_Dead"]

[QUOTE="needled24-7"]Write her a song or something.efrucht

As I would like to state, this works at first but if you mess up to much it becomes useless. Known from experience.

I wrote my own for her. I dedicated one of my full albums to her.

[QUOTE="efrucht"][QUOTE="Sladen_Dead"]

[QUOTE="needled24-7"]Write her a song or something.Sladen_Dead

As I would like to state, this works at first but if you mess up to much it becomes useless. Known from experience.

I wrote my own for her. I dedicated one of my full albums to her.

wait i got a idea

slap her in the face

touch her shoulder

then do a barrell roll

and pics or it didn't happen :)

Challenge the guy to a game of fisticups and show him what for ole chap.

Or if she is playing a game distance yourself away from her and play your own game.

[QUOTE="Sladen_Dead"][QUOTE="efrucht"][QUOTE="Sladen_Dead"]

[QUOTE="needled24-7"]Write her a song or something.efrucht

As I would like to state, this works at first but if you mess up to much it becomes useless. Known from experience.

I wrote my own for her. I dedicated one of my full albums to her.

Well,, really I'm a Gothic-Rapper but for her I did this album where I sing. I never thought I could sing, but lots of people liked it.

Don't put any pressure on her. Let her make up her own mind. You shouldn't have to write a song or anything to try to impress her. She should love you for who you are and all of your qualities. If she chooses the other person then you just have to accept it and move on. You will find that if you yourself move on and find someone else you will not hurt as much and will have someone to talk to about it too.

If you want to talk to me more about this problem you can always send me an email here or write on my blog!

Don't.

A girl drops you, and then says she still loves you, but she also likes another guy? She's playing you. Been there, done that. Get outta there.

And for a little bit of information we been dating for awhile and towards the past month we argued like everyday and she went on vacation and i ended up breaking up with her and regret it so if that helps any.Dunkonya

Its one thing to argue but everyday is quite a lot. My advice, Ditch her, there are plenty of girls in the world and one that your not compatible with wont do any good.

Step 1- Turn back time

Step 2- Find a way

Step 3- Take back those words that hurt her

Then she would stay.

just dont do that lol

tell her she cant have to guys and that you already proved yourself worth. being the original bf gives you an advantage

NYiVtec

Being the original bf doesn't neccessarily give an advantage, if she's looking for something new, she is more likely to go for the new guy. So it could go either way depending on what she wants at the time.

Hey man, i was in this exact position recently, it didnt work out in my favor :(, i still love her to death, my advice is, show her how much you love her before she finds another interest, i tried so hard :( but it didn't work out in my favor, my friends think she's playing me, and it honestly is so hard to tell, this is the third time we've found a love interest in each other, but things are so fragile between us.

She told me there might be something in the future and its probably true judging by our past, but she's so damn confuisng, she's the kind of girl that will fall in love with someone else very quickly if something goes wrong early on in the relationship, but when she realises that you really do love her and adore her she'll return with a new interest, i'll keep the past events in mind if she ever does come around again.

Anyways enough of my rambling, show her your love man, don't hesitate if you think up of something good, don't let somebody else steal her heart. If she says theres still some love there, it should be enough for you to try grow something bigger out of.....

If you think you both deserve each other, just do it. You are the only one who can sincerely know if the relationship is worth fighting for. Make a move immediately.

How To Get Your Ex Back

If you think you both deserve each other, just do it. You are the only one who can sincerely know if the relationship is worth fighting for. Make a move immediately.

How To Get Your Ex Back

alanakelly

LOL @ some of the advice.

Why fight for someone who stopped fighting for you? Love is a two way street and after your broken up the more pushing you do to get back together the further you push them away.

So what do you do?

You pull away. If she dumps you, then stop picking up her calls, delete her from your phone, stop any contact and you will see her calling and finding out why your not upset or crying. If you play it cool and show you can live life without her and be just as happy then shes ten times more likely to want you back. If she does want you back you don't just take her back like a chump, you make her work for it.

Women respect men who respect themselves and not little girly guys who write love songs for them after they break up with them or love poems or any other form of begging and pleading type behaviour.

That being said, usually the smartest thing to do after a break up is to move on, especially if cheating was involved. If cheating wasn't involved then people can still get back together assuming they both work on what broke them up in the first place.

Anyway, for those of you going through a break up go read up on attraction and how it works. Typical behaviour of someone whos been dumped is to be needy, desperate, available and everything that goes against the basic rules of building or in this case, rebuilding attraction.