How to open myself up more and What do all girls like?

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#1 Logan1616
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Okay, so I was talking to this who I like, she sort of likes me, she doesn't really know.

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1: How can I open myself up more?

2. What do all girls like as gifts? She won't tell me about anything she likes, so what is a good general gift idea?

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#2 trust_nobody
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1. Just relax, get yourself in the mindset that if she doesn't like you for who you are, she's no better than you.

2. Jewelry. And sex toys.

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#3 tepni
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1. Just relax, get yourself in the mindset that if she doesn't like you for who you are, she's no better than you.

2. Jewelry. And sex toys.

trust_nobody

What he said. But for #2, I'd like to add that you should ask her where she likes to shop most. And get her a giftcard for that store. I know I'd love that!

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#4 psychobrew
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Get yourself a certain style and do something daring.
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#5 StripTheSoul
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1. Just be yourself, for the love of god don't rehearse conversations, and be honest.

2. Wrong guy to be asking.

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#6 weezyfb
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1. Bathe 2. New Clothes 3. Cologne 4. Introduce yourself briefly.. keep it under 5 min 5. get number 6. on date dont get a gift.. ..way to soon, dont wanna come of as creepy or needy
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#7 solidgamer
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Dont be buying her gifts before you get the prize. Thats a wasted investment if she does not put out. If you want to open yourself up to her more ask for her number get talking to her then eventually ask her out on a date.
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#8 12345678ew
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Get yourself a certain style and do something daring.psychobrew
like steal from the rich and give to the poor! armed with SWORDS! "steve, i'm rich." alright but in seriousness, there is no answer to these questions. trying will get you nowhere with girls. being careful and doing what you think they want will get you nowhere. all the girls are in communication and whenever they suspect we're catching on to what they want they change it just to screw with us. just be yourself and ignore all that and they'll like you because you seem to have won. now mind you don't be a jerk, but don't try extra hard to be nice.
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#9 Pirate700
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When you pick her up for the first time give her a firm slap to the butt. It sets the tone for the whole evening. She'll either call everything off right then or get right to the point. 8)

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#10 ayanami_rei
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2. Jewelry. And sex toys.

trust_nobody
o_O What? I honestly disagree. I wouldn't want either or, mainly because I'm really picky when it comes to jewelry (I really have no interest in diamonds and a lot of jewelry nowadays just don't interest me), and the second part, I just...no. O_o
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They love a big..........credit card :P
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#12 CrystalFox
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Okay, so I was talking to this who I like, she sort of likes me, she doesn't really know.

QUestions:

1: How can I open myself up more?

2. What do all girls like as gifts? She won't tell me about anything she likes, so what is a good general gift idea?

Logan1616

1. Be yourself is the best advice I can give you.

2. She doesn't necessarily have to tell you what she likes for you to know what to buy, be more observant.

Look at what she wears, her style, what kind of candy she likes, etc. If you really want to impress her, make

her a gift bag of miscellaneous things that you think she would like. Girs love that kind of mushy stuff. And

if all else fails, get her a card.

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#13 trust_nobody
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[QUOTE="trust_nobody"]

2. Jewelry. And sex toys.

ayanami_rei

o_O What? I honestly disagree. I wouldn't want either or, mainly because I'm really picky when it comes to jewelry (I really have no interest in diamonds and a lot of jewelry nowadays just don't interest me), and the second part, I just...no. O_o



Alright let me clarify.

Not all women like jewelry, mine does. Not all women like sex toys. I bought some for mine, but she tried them and said she preferred the real deal. It couldn't hurt to try though. I don't know, what am I supposed to say? The topic title says "what do all girls like?" Rainbows and puppies? There's no answering that. Well, actually, a puppy might not be a bad idea.

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#14 ayanami_rei
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The topic title says "what do all girls like?" Rainbows and puppies? There's no answering that. Well, actually, a puppy might not be a bad idea.

trust_nobody

But doesn't seem kind of...early to be suggesting the second thing? :? You don't even know how old the person is. Do you go buying that sort of toy for someone that you just met or have yet to be dating?

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#15 trust_nobody
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[QUOTE="trust_nobody"]

The topic title says "what do all girls like?" Rainbows and puppies? There's no answering that. Well, actually, a puppy might not be a bad idea.

ayanami_rei

But doesn't seem kind of...early to be suggesting the second thing? :? You don't even know how old the person is. Do you go buying that sort of toy for someone that you just met or have yet to be dating?



Well, no, but then again I don't buy anything for someone I just met/am not dating. That was just a joke anyway, the sex toys. Not so much the jewelry. They got "cute" necklaces for a few bucks or whatever.

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#16 foxhound_fox
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1. Relax and don't take things so seriously.

2. No two girls probably "like" the same things, even as a gift.

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#17 Colin1192
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1. get naked in front of her

2.show the money. Not the small $1 bills either. Gotta be $5 bills at least. You gotta look like a big spender

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#18 mindstorm
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1. In my cause doing something stupid in front of someone does a great job a letting myself be more open. :P

2. For gifts, what I typically try to stealthily find out what she wants (one this can be done by going to the mall and listening to what she says [e.g. "I'd like to get this but I cannot afford it right now."]). When that doesn't work, I make her something. Just today I sold some of my artwork that will be given to the buyer's girlfriend as a Christmas present. In other words, having artistic ability helps.

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#19 effena
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1. Just relax, get yourself in the mindset that if she doesn't like you for who you are, she's no better than you.

2. Jewelry. And sex toys.

trust_nobody

What he said. Ignore his username, trust him:P

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#20 trust_nobody
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[QUOTE="trust_nobody"]

1. Just relax, get yourself in the mindset that if she doesn't like you for who you are, she's no better than you.

2. Jewelry. And sex toys.

effena

What he said. Ignore his username, trust him:P



:lol:

See. Someone gets me.

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Ok this is a joke so don't seriously do it, but it's the first thing that popped into my head. 1: Use a bigger knife. 2: Big knives.
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#22 ariz3260
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Work on your confidence and be assertive. Women don't like wimps in general, unless you've given her the power to do so...

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#23 DeltaSQ-V
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Okay, so I was talking to this who I like, she sort of likes me, she doesn't really know.

QUestions:

1: How can I open myself up more?

2. What do all girls like as gifts? She won't tell me about anything she likes, so what is a good general gift idea?

Logan1616
1. You really can't. 2. Money and muscles.
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#24 PyroZero
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I currently suck at finding out what girls like or even talking to them. there a whole diffrent species that I suck communicating with so unfortunately I can't be of any help XD

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#25 CyleM
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all girls like flowers...
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#26 Thessassin
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in all honesty if ur not sure if she likes you dont open up to her, just lie to her and tell her what she wants to hear. and really if ur good at telling a girl what she wants to hear u dont really need gifts unless its for a certain occasion like her bday or something.

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#27 EvilSteveo
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Okay, so I was talking to this who I like, she sort of likes me, she doesn't really know.

QUestions:

1: How can I open myself up more?

2. What do all girls like as gifts? She won't tell me about anything she likes, so what is a good general gift idea?

Logan1616

Become a pimp .If dogs can do it am sure a human can do it.

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#28 BlindBluMonstah
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Okay, so I was talking to this who I like, she sort of likes me, she doesn't really know.

QUestions:

1: How can I open myself up more?

2. What do all girls like as gifts? She won't tell me about anything she likes, so what is a good general gift idea?

Logan1616

just be yourself and try not to worry how she'l act towards your next move. . . and hmm dont you know what kind of stuff she likes, there must be something obvious . . . ?

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#29 Business_Fun
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Depends on how old you are, I would say. Speaking from personal experience, there comes a time in your life where if you haven't already been making inroads in these two directions, the first becomes impossible and the second becomes part of a greater mystery that you will never be included in.

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Get drunk. All fear subsides!