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#1 iginlawasup
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I sit beside this pretty girl in Geography class, and Id like to have a friend thats a girl. I see a ton of weird looking guys having friends that are girls but they just don't talk to me, I have heard of girls liking me, but they don't talk to me. So today I kinda had a basic conversation with this girl. So, Id like to have a friend that is a female and I don't know how to start to talk to one without coming off as if I like her or sound creepy.

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#2 testfactor888
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Hi how are you is always a good opening line
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It appears you are not worthy of your avatar.
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#4 Solid_Tango
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Dont think of her as a * GIRL * but as a human being, its kinda difficult but you ll get it with time... talk to her often and be nice oh and smile a lot
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#5 SolidSnake35
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Hey man, what's up?
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#6 GazaAli
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By just treating her like you treat your male friends.
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#7 bruinfan617
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Well if you don't know how to flirt then that can be a good thing in this situation.

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#8 Elephant_Couple
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The best way to talk to a girl is naked. At least that's what my grandpa always told me, and he was wise.

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#9 EVOLV3
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Just... talk to her. Not sure how really to explain something like this.

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#10 Fried_Shrimp
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Dunno. I have a lot of female friends, and we just have a laugh. One thing I would say to do though is don't call her names, and always keep your reciept. It makes you look like a buisnessman.
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#11 Michael0134567
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The best way to talk to a girl is naked. At least that's what my grandpa always told me, and he was wise.

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#12 bloodling
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Don`t say "Hey, how are you?!:D", that will just creep them out. Find something to talk about, like homework, and do it like a man.

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#13 iginlawasup
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By just treating her like you treat your male friends.GazaAli

You mean, did you make the football team or Thats what she said!!! Because thats what I say to my male friends.

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#14 cybrcatter
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Girls aren't a whole different species. They're people, like you and me. Remember that, and try not to over-think things.
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#15 Michael0134567
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[QUOTE="GazaAli"]By just treating her like you treat your male friends.iginlawasup

You mean, did you make the football team or Thats what she said!!! Because thats what I say to my male friends.

That could work :D
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#16 Elephant_Couple
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[QUOTE="GazaAli"]By just treating her like you treat your male friends.iginlawasup

You mean, did you make the football team or Thats what she said!!! Because thats what I say to my male friends.

Yes. Ask her if she made the football team. And when she speaks, respond with, "That's what she said."

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#17 markop2003
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If you don't want to sound creepy your first line must include the word "breasts"
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#18 rawsavon
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I sit beside this pretty girl in Geography class

iginlawasup
Ask her what it will take to go on a trip South of the equator
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#19 iginlawasup
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Well if you don't know how to flirt then that can be a good thing in this situation.

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:( to people who just come to a topic and criticize it and not answer the question.
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#20 Buttons1990
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Look at girl.

Say "Hello."

Mission accomplished.

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#21 Dystopian-X
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Hmm. Never tried it. I don't think they can listen while they are sleeping. /chloroform_joke
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#22 Fried_Shrimp
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Mr Garrison after his sex op was brilliant at talking to women. :P
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#23 testfactor888
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Mr Garrison after his sex op was brilliant at talking to women. :PFried_Shrimp
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#24 cybrcatter
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[QUOTE="iginlawasup"]

I sit beside this pretty girl in Geography class

rawsavon
Ask her what it will take to go on a trip South of the equator

I hear it's humid and hot down there.
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#25 Zyrokin
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="iginlawasup"]

I sit beside this pretty girl in Geography class

cybrcatter

Ask her what it will take to go on a trip South of the equator

I hear it's humid and hot down there.

It also has crabs.

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#26 iginlawasup
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Look at girl.

Say "Hello."

Mission accomplished.

Buttons1990

Why do some of you try to act smart? Just saying hi to someone doesn't automatically make them your friend.

The question was "how to talk to a girl who you want to be friends with but not come of as you want something more or sound creepy. And I know women are humans.

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#27 Colin1192
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w3hen you or her sits down, just say "hows it goin", not rushed or panicky, just casually. This could lead you down many roads, some good, some bad

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#28 bruinfan617
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[QUOTE="iginlawasup"][QUOTE="bruinfan617"]

Well if you don't know how to flirt then that can be a good thing in this situation.

:( to people who just come to a topic and criticize it and not answer the question.

I'm not critcizing, I'm merely stating that you don't have to worry about sounding as if you like her. Just say what's on you mind to her. She's no different from anybody else.
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#29 cybrcatter
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[QUOTE="cybrcatter"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] Ask her what it will take to go on a trip South of the equatorZyrokin

I hear it's humid and hot down there.

It also has crabs.

Best stick to the well maintained beaches then.
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#30 Zyrokin
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[QUOTE="Zyrokin"]

[QUOTE="cybrcatter"] I hear it's humid and hot down there. cybrcatter

It also has crabs.

Best stick to the well maintained beaches then.

Even they have had millions of naked bodies laying all over them. Just saying.

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#31 rawsavon
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[QUOTE="cybrcatter"][QUOTE="Zyrokin"]

I hear it's humid and hot down there. cybrcatter

It also has crabs.

Best stick to the well maintained beaches then.

But sometimes those cheap resorts can be soooo tempting
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#32 Buttons1990
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[QUOTE="Buttons1990"]

Look at girl.

Say "Hello."

Mission accomplished.

iginlawasup

Why do some of you try to act smart? Just saying hi to someone doesn't automatically make them your friend.

The question was "how to talk to a girl who you want to be friends with but not come of as you want something more or sound creepy. And I know women are humans.

No, strking conversation DOES make you friends... People don't become your friends by sitting around looking at them and making posts about them on the internet...

I don't know what you want to hear? No one here knows anything about this person... So no one can tell you what to talk about...

Its not like there is some set rule of talking to a girl that says "First do the electric slide up to her, then say "OMG BECKY, LOOK AT HER BUTT, ITS LIKE SO OUT THERE YOU KNOW!" ... Then put on your cool sun glasses and you are in."

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Use the universal language. Esperanto FTW
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#34 TecmoGirl
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Hey man, what's up?SolidSnake35

Girls aren't a whole different species.

They're people, like you and me. Remember that, and try not to over-think things.

^ Pretty much what these two said.

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#35 bruinfan617
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[QUOTE="iginlawasup"]

[QUOTE="Buttons1990"]

Look at girl.

Say "Hello."

Mission accomplished.

Why do some of you try to act smart? Just saying hi to someone doesn't automatically make them your friend.

The question was "how to talk to a girl who you want to be friends with but not come of as you want something more or sound creepy. And I know women are humans.

That's how you're supposed to start a conversation; with a word or phrase that provokes a response.
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#36 iginlawasup
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[QUOTE="iginlawasup"]

[QUOTE="Buttons1990"]

Look at girl.

Say "Hello."

Mission accomplished.

Buttons1990

Why do some of you try to act smart? Just saying hi to someone doesn't automatically make them your friend.

The question was "how to talk to a girl who you want to be friends with but not come of as you want something more or sound creepy. And I know women are humans.

No, strking conversation DOES make you friends... People don't become your friends by sitting around looking at them and making posts about them on the internet...

I don't know what you want to hear? No one here knows anything about this person... So no one can tell you what to talk about...

Its not like there is some set rule of talking to a girl that says "First do the electric slide up to her, then say "OMG BECKY, LOOK AT HER BUTT, ITS LIKE SO OUT THERE YOU KNOW!" ... Then put on your cool sun glasses and you are in."

Ok, Hello, Hello. WERE FRIENDS NOW!!!!

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#37 cybrcatter
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[QUOTE="cybrcatter"][QUOTE="Zyrokin"]

It also has crabs.

rawsavon

Best stick to the well maintained beaches then.

But sometimes those cheap resorts can be soooo tempting

You never know what beach you'll accidentally stumble upon while traveling drunk.

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#38 Zyrokin
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[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="cybrcatter"] Best stick to the well maintained beaches then. cybrcatter

But sometimes those cheap resorts can be soooo tempting

You never know what beach you'll accidentally stumble upon while traveling drunk.

When you wake up to a beach littered with broken bottles and cigarettes, with your arm stuck in the sand, do you chew it off?

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#39 iginlawasup
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So now all of gotten is say hello, some okay responses, but mostly say hello. Once again, the question was "How to befriend a girl without coming off as creepy" Not have a conversation. Ive already had a convesation but I want to know how to continue it.

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#40 VaguelyTagged
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scratch a line on the middle of your desk and tell her you would tear her hands up if she trespassed .that should start a conversation,.

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#41 Zyrokin
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scratch a line on the middle of your desk and tell her you would tear her hands up if she trespassed .that should start a conversation,.

VaguelyTagged

Haha! That is one of my favorite suggestions of the day. Congratz on the Zyro Statue Award.

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#42 DatGreen
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Just ask her something about the homework, test, or whatever else you do in there. Then start to talk about stuff other than school. Its as simple as that my man.

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#43 Buttons1990
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So now all of gotten is say hello, some okay responses, but mostly say hello. Once again, the question was "How to befriend a girl without coming off as creepy" Not have a conversation. Ive already had a convesation but I want to know how to continue it.

iginlawasup

Talk about the class at first... "So you like this class?" "You like this teacher?"

If she says no, run with it... Yes, run with it... "Oh me too" or "Me neither"

"What other classes are you taking?"

After things get going the conversation will continue on its own...

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#44 iginlawasup
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Just ask her something about the homework, test, or whatever else you do in there. Then start to talk about stuff other than school. Its as simple as that my man.

DatGreen

Ok, this is a good response people, not "Just say hello problem solved :roll:"

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True story:

A few days after this semester started, I got on a crowded bus and when the bus sped up I crashed into this really cute chick. I apologized and what not then suggested that I make up for it by buying her lunch sometime. She agreed and we exchanged names and phone numbers and now I have a new fwb. Woot!

Lesson:

Take advantage of the situation ;)

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[QUOTE="cybrcatter"]

[QUOTE="rawsavon"] But sometimes those cheap resorts can be soooo temptingZyrokin

You never know what beach you'll accidentally stumble upon while traveling drunk.

When you wake up to a beach littered with broken bottles and cigarettes, with your arm stuck in the sand, do you chew it off?

Hopefully the sand doesn't weigh too much, in which case I'll quietly pull it out and take a walk of shame.

Otherwise I bust out as fast as I can..

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#47 bloodling
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Talk about the class at first... "So you like this class?" "You like this teacher?"

If she says no, run with it... Yes, run with it... "Oh me too" or "Me neither"

"What other classes are you taking?"

After things get going the conversation will continue on its own...

Buttons1990

I would focus on one thing first, like homework, and then when you're done with it I would talk about what he just mentionned. Just don't start too fast or else it might be awkward.

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#48 Zyrokin
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True story:

A few days after this semester started, I got on a crowded bus and when the bus sped up I crashed into this really cute chick. I apologized and what not then suggested that I make up for it by buying her lunch sometime. She agreed and we exchanged names and phone numbers and now I have a new fwb. Woot!

Lesson:

Take advantage of the situation ;)

Chickity_China

It's amazing how random stupid acts can actually score you woman. I don't mean go shoot a girl in the leg and then apologize and expect to get a gf out of the deal, maybe a one nighter, but yea that would be a bad idea. But, when you screw up sometimes it gets a girls attention.

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#49 iginlawasup
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True story:

A few days after this semester started, I got on a crowded bus and when the bus sped up I crashed into this really cute chick. I apologized and what not then suggested that I make up for it by buying her lunch sometime. She agreed and we exchanged names and phone numbers and now I have a new fwb. Woot!

Lesson:

Take advantage of the situation ;)

Chickity_China

Thats an awesome story dude.

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#50 Zyrokin
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[QUOTE="Zyrokin"]

[QUOTE="cybrcatter"] You never know what beach you'll accidentally stumble upon while traveling drunk.

cybrcatter

When you wake up to a beach littered with broken bottles and cigarettes, with your arm stuck in the sand, do you chew it off?

Hopefully the sand doesn't weigh too much, in which case I'll quietly pull it out and take a walk of shame.

Otherwise I bust out as fast as I can..

Haha, epic. I went to this one chicks house and we got liquored up pretty good. Had to take the walk of shame, with her 4 kids sitting out in the living room. WORSE walk of shame ever. ever.