How upset would you be, if your 18 year daughter started doing Adult Films?

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#1 TheLastPrincess
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I was talking to my friends last night about a girl we know who started doing adult films for a company in Florida. Her parents disowned her after finding out.

The conversation quickly turned into a debate about whether the parents were in the right, or in the wrong.

I would probably do the same thing if my kid did that. Some of my friends though were saying that it's her choice. It's "only" porn. It shouldn't be the parents buisness what their daughter does after turning 18. That nakedness is natural. That the only reason there isn't open sexuality is because our government is still mostly Christian.

It was a shocker for me. Do people really think this way? Whats your take?

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#2 deactivated-60678a6f9e4d4
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If she was hot, I'd disown her. If she was ugly, I'd laugh and show all her friends the videos, then disown her.

I dunno really - I don't have a daughter.

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#3 luke1889
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I'd be devastated. The adult industry is teeming with STIs and STDs and it's not something I would want my daughter to get into.
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#4 rcignoni
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I'd probably disown her, yeah.
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#5 RushMetallica
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I'd try to live with it, but it would be really awkward, especially if my friends found the videos...
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#6 flowdee79
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Probably would disown her.
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#7 web966
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I wouldnt disown her, but I would be very disappointed in her.
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#8 mrgab
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18 year old daughter? Wtf we used protection!
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#9 cliff122316
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i would kill her then disown her dead body.
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#10 peeviness
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Idk really, but I really hope I'd find out indirectly rather then directly.
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#11 Its2Easy
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i wouldn't mind. it's not my body, and i cna't control it
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#12 hokies1313
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I would hope to god I wouldn't find out about it.

And if I did....then I'd probably be pissed and disown her.

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#13 Funky_Llama
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Couldn't care less.
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#14 kingdre
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I'd disown her. Simple as that.
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#15 Kuruption84
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Idk really, but I really hope I'd find out indirectly rather then directly.peeviness
Ain't that the truth. Being the fan I am I wouldn't want to find out that way. I have no idea what I would do, I wouldn't disown her. That wouldn't get me anywhere, she's still my daughter. I just hope it never happens.
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#16 SaintBlaze
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Probably would disown her.flowdee79

Same.

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#17 Theokhoth
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I would be incredibly upset, but I wouldn't go to that kind of extremes.:?
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#18 Dark_Knight6
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I'd be more concerned for her health than anything.
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#19 legend26
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i was ganna say i would disown her, but then i thought that would be very hypocritical of becouse if i had a son doing pr0n i would most lickly be prowed of him >_>
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#20 darklord888
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I'd be turned on and buy all her DVD's.





Seriously, disown her? Wtf, what type of parenting is that? I hope none of you become parents.
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#21 Wiesenthal
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I would definitely be disappointed, and try to talk her out of it. She'd still be my daughter though, I wouldn't disown her.
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#22 MetroidPrimePwn
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Wouldn't care.

She's 18, that's when she goes off to college, and her in college = not my problem.

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#23 TheLastPrincess
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i was ganna say i would disown her, but then i thought that would be very hypocritical of becouse if i had a son doing pr0n i would most lickly be prowed of him >_>legend26

You would be proud that your son went into porn?

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#24 darklord888
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Wouldn't care.

She's 18, that's when she goes off to college, and her in college = not my problem.

MetroidPrimePwn


At 18, she's still your problem. 18 year olds still have a lot to learn. You don't just wash you hands of them and let them go crazy.
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#25 Kuhu
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...Kinky.

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#26 Bigg_Boi
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[QUOTE="legend26"]i was ganna say i would disown her, but then i thought that would be very hypocritical of becouse if i had a son doing pr0n i would most lickly be prowed of him >_>TheLastPrincess

You would be proud that your son went into porn?

So long as it isn't G@y porn, then high five son!

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#27 zombieman666
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I wouldn't mind if I could have half her paycheck

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#28 NSR34GTR
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disown
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#29 Bauers-Twin
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I would be turned on.

no but seriously i would put a stop to it, maybe take away her driving privileges and phone maybe or something that would make her give it up.

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#30 TheLastPrincess
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I would be turned on.

no but seriously i would put a stop to it, maybe take away her driving privileges and phone maybe or something that would make her give it up.

Bauers-Twin

She's 18 and has a job. She probably wouldn't be living at home to begin with lol

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#31 deactivated-5901ac91d8e33
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Disown her? No that's immature and childish. If she decided to star in "adult movies", then I'd sit down and talk to her about it, and find out why.
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#32 Cutekitten6_18
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Well, it would be her choice, but i would clearly let her know that it would dissapoint me.
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#33 Sonick54
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i wouldn't exactly be ok with it. but it's her life. no need to disown her.
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#34 PrincesTwilight
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I won't disown her, becuase still no matyter what she's still my daughter, but I'd be one angry parent and I wouldn't want to see her ever again but still treat her under my own roof, so I know she's still safe seeing as she's my daughter, plus I'd talk her out of it and ask her what's more important, her family or having sex with some men for ither peoples entertainment? I'd like to be a good parent but I'd make sure from the first place she stays away from that kinda stuff
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#35 ernie1989
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If she's happy doing it, then I would be happy for her. If she isn't happy doing it, then that's when I'd sit down and talk to her in order to see what we can do to fix the problem.
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#36 ClassicPlayer
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I wouldn't disown her, I'd just be like "it's your life you live it how you want" would be calm about it.
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#37 Jaks_Secret
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I'd be upset about the high chance of her getting an STD, but if she really wanted to start doing adult films, I'd let her.

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#38 Matt-4542
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I wouldnt disown her, but I'd be very very dissapointed if that happened.
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#39 Dion2k7
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wouldn't be upset im more chilled out and relaxed i probably make a joke out of it something to tell the grandkids and ask her one question,

Can you get me some freebies? :P

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#40 Mr_Lurker
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I wouldn't disown her, just bring the whole family round to watch some of her Dvds and then see how proud she is with her choice in career :lol:
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#41 MoldOnHold
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Well see, there's softcore pornography and hardcore pornography....

If it's softcore, I'd be dissapointed. If it's hardcore, I'd be very dissapointed. I would not disown her in either case.

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#42 Sonick54
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I wouldn't disown her, just bring the whole family round to watch some of her Dvds and then see how proud she is with her choice in career :lol:Mr_Lurker

I hope you're prepared for awkward silence at the dinner table after :P

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#43 smarb001
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I was talking to my friends last night about a girl we know who started doing adult films for a company in Florida. Her parents disowned her after finding out.

The conversation quickly turned into a debate about whether the parents were in the right, or in the wrong.

I would probably do the same thing if my kid did that. Some of my friends though were saying that it's her choice. It's "only" porn. It shouldn't be the parents buisness what their daughter does after turning 18. That nakedness is natural. That the only reason there isn't open sexuality is because our government is still mostly Christian.

It was a shocker for me. Do people really think this way? Whats your take?

TheLastPrincess

yes, i think like that.

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#44 Dub_c6969
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I would never disown my blood, I would raise my daughter better than that in the first place but if she did do so i would be upset but i would not disown her. Its her life not mine.
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What if its lesbian?

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#46 7guns
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If my daughter did that I would be disappointed in her and also in myself because that would make me a less capable parent. I would try to bring her back from porn industry if she she lets me, but I would never disown her.
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#47 TecmoGirl
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Disown her? No that's immature and childish. If she decided to star in "adult movies", then I'd sit down and talk to her about it, and find out why.jointed

I agree--sounds like the best action to take.

Anyway's, if she decides to stick with it, then there is nothing I can really do at that age. I personally don't see it as being anywhere near a good enough reason to disown her though. I feel that's ridiculous--I'd question my own parenting skills if anything and find out where the heck I went wrong with her.

I would try to encourage her to do something better with her life--continue to college and pursue a much more financially desirable and self-respecting career. If she has to be a porno flicking actor, then atleast be a highly intelligent one with a college education. But overall, I wouldn't knock her hustle if that's what she rather do.

I'd just make that big attempt to show her that I do care about the decisions she makes and that I truely want the best for her that life has to offer.

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#48 MGSFan92
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I would sit and talk to her if that is what she really wants to do. I'd also bring class and social hierarchy into the issue, as my family really revolves around that, we can't have a slut ruining our image :)
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#49 Xx_CYC756_xX
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I would just hope I didn't find out. If I did, I'm not sure what I would do.