How would you discipline your children?

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#1 viewtiful26
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Considering in the past, it was socially acceptable to take a belt out and whip you kids, but now it's looked down upon around here. Often, you may even disagree with your parents in grounding you and taken something you hold dear away, which leads to the question, what would you do in their shoes? I guess I'm asking this because my house often has little kids around who tend to misbehave. Do you think hitting them is wrong? I personally think it can be effective, since many children are unable to reason, so they have to be able to understand what's going on.
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#2 Oborozukiyo
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Lock them in a closet until they pass out, when they awaken all will be good again or else back in the closet they go.
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#3 FilthyWork
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I think the fear of the belt is far more effective than the belt itself ... sort a like nukes.
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#4 Hungry_bunny
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I'd go as far as slapping their hands if they're reaching for something that they shouldn't reach for, or a step farther to stop an extreme tantrum in public, hopefully I won't need to do that.

But I won't hit or slap them as punishment after they've done something wrong. That's not the best way to teach them discipline. Consistency and explanations of other types of punishments should be enough to teach a child how to behave.

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#6 soulless4now
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A leather belt works wonders....or just a normal spanking with the hand.
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#7 foxhound_fox
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At an early age tell them they are wrong and give them a time-out. At later ages tell them why they are wrong and teach them how to avoid being punished for doing it again. Physical violence is only negative reinforcement and hurting someone isn't the proper way to prevent them from doing it again.
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#8 legend26
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or

true parenting imo

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#9 Tazzmission187
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have them learn from there mistakes... pending on what the kid does.
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#10 Oleg_Huzwog
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I'd go as far as slapping their hands if they're reaching for something that they shouldn't reach for, or a step farther to stop an extreme tantrum in public, hopefully I won't need to do that.

But I won't hit or slap them as punishment after they've done something wrong. That's not the best way to teach them discipline. Consistency and explanations of other types of punishments should be enough to teach a child how to behave.

Hungry_bunny

What? You'd slap them during, but not after the event? That's what you do with dogs, not people. Kids will still know what they're being punished for if you do so after the event. I'd go so far as to say that it's better to punish them afterwards. It helps ensure the parent giving out the punishment is doing so with a level head, and not angry.

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#11 esbastica
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depends..is their mother hot?
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#12 viewtiful26
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I think a lot of the potential answers are situational. I mean, since kids tend to behave differently in public, reasoning with them probably won't be as effective. Some kids are to hyper.
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#13 Makemap
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I think a lot of the potential answers are situational. I mean, since kids tend to behave differently in public, reasoning with them probably won't be as effective. Some kids are to hyper.viewtiful26

You can't tell unless you know what their friends are. Spread of virus on kids.

Hit them, if they don't behave (Not the head). After a while I just scare them with Mr. sticky.

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[QUOTE="viewtiful26"]I think a lot of the potential answers are situational. I mean, since kids tend to behave differently in public, reasoning with them probably won't be as effective. Some kids are to hyper.Makemap

You can't tell unless you know what their friends are. Spread of virus on kids.

Hit them, if they don't behave (Not the head). After a while I just scare them with Mr. sticky.

You're scaring me with mr sticky.

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#15 whitechocolate_
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I'm gonna beat the living s*** outta my kids.

If they're being a dick, they deserve it.

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#16 6_volts
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I'd tell them to behave or else Michael Jackson would come for them at night.
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#17 luisen123
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Hang them upside down :)
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#18 jimmyjammer69
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Hang them upside down :)luisen123

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#19 Hungry_bunny
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What? You'd slap them during, but not after the event? That's what you do with dogs, not people. Kids will still know what they're being punished for if you do so after the event. I'd go so far as to say that it's better to punish them afterwards. It helps ensure the parent giving out the punishment is doing so with a level head, and not angry.

Oleg_Huzwog
Doing so during isn't meant as just a punishment, it's a kind of emergency wake-up call, reserved for situations when you don't have time to spend 10-15 minutes reasoning with them... it's still not a thing you should do on a whim, it's a last resort. I didn't mean to make it sound like I'm gonna use it every time they freak out.
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#20 TheHimura
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I uppercut my children when they act up.
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#21 North-North
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They would be disiplined.... cuz I aint havin kids!
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#22 123625
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Maim them till they get the idea, that or half an hour in their room with the power turned off.
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#23 AirGuitarist87
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I uppercut my children when they act up.TheHimura

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*ahem* I'd probably be quite firm with my kids, but none of this stupid Supernanny "naughty corner" bull.

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#24 socked_feet
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I don't find anything wrong with spanking, so I'd probably do that when my child did something overly wrong and deserved a punishment. I was spanked a few times as a child, and I turned out fine. I hate what parents do today; if their kid is throwing a tantrum, or did something bad, they either don't care, or give it a cookie to shut up or something. Also, I used to work at a grocery store, and sometimes kids would just flip out, and the mom would buy them a chocolate bar to "calm them down". The moment I flipped out in a grocery store as a kid, my mom would drop everything and take me home.
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Falcon punch.
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#26 AirGuitarist87
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I don't find anything wrong with spanking, so I'd probably do that when my child did something overly wrong and deserved a punishment. I was spanked a few times as a child, and I turned out fine. I hate what parents do today; if their kid is throwing a tantrum, or did something bad, they either don't care, or give it a cookie to shut up or something. Also, I used to work at a grocery store, and sometimes kids would just flip out, and the mom would buy them a chocolate bar to "calm them down". The moment I flipped out in a grocery store as a kid, my mom would drop everything and take me home. socked_feet

Ugh, I know what you mean. I worked in a pub/restaurant for a year and the number of times we've had parents complaining to us because their kids want (aka tantrum) to order something not on the menu is rediculous.

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#27 TheBeast789
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anyone who doesn't hit their kids are retards, i was brough up being slapped and so will my kids

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#28 TheCraving
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Use this on them....

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Use this on them....

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haha I will

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#30 socked_feet
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[QUOTE="socked_feet"]I don't find anything wrong with spanking, so I'd probably do that when my child did something overly wrong and deserved a punishment. I was spanked a few times as a child, and I turned out fine. I hate what parents do today; if their kid is throwing a tantrum, or did something bad, they either don't care, or give it a cookie to shut up or something. Also, I used to work at a grocery store, and sometimes kids would just flip out, and the mom would buy them a chocolate bar to "calm them down". The moment I flipped out in a grocery store as a kid, my mom would drop everything and take me home. AirGuitarist87

Ugh, I know what you mean. I worked in a pub/restaurant for a year and the number of times we've had parents complaining to us because their kids want (aka tantrum) to order something not on the menu is rediculous.

Sad, isn't it?

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#31 ferrari2001
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I think spanking is perfectly acceptable. Part of the problem with society is parents can't discipline their kids anymore. Spanking was a great way.. And still is. It definitely helps build character and the kid is more likely to obey you, but the fear of spanking works the best and it helps keep the kid in line. It's pathetic to see how conservative we've become on punishments. (no I'm not talking politics). You can hardly do anything anymore, heck even letting your kids outside to run around is bad now. I rememeber my parents used to let me do anything, if I got hurt, well I learned my lesson. This was a great way to do it. Today the whole world is crap.
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#32 plague32390
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Im going to beat the ever living crap out of my kids. "MOW THE LAW!!!" *smack* "DO THE DISHES!!!" *pow* "QUIT BEING A SMARTASS!!!!" *kablammo*
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#33 freshgman
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if the kid came from my balls i should have the right do do as a i please with him/her
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#34 Mr_sprinkles
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I think a lot of the potential answers are situational. I mean, since kids tend to behave differently in public, reasoning with them probably won't be as effective. Some kids are to hyper.viewtiful26
If you start dishing out punishments without clearly explaining why they're being punished and that what they're doing is wrong, they will just cry and cry and cry (because as far as they know you just hit them for no reason) and then do it again.
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#35 Makemap
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[QUOTE="Makemap"]

[QUOTE="viewtiful26"]I think a lot of the potential answers are situational. I mean, since kids tend to behave differently in public, reasoning with them probably won't be as effective. Some kids are to hyper.jimmyjammer69

You can't tell unless you know what their friends are. Spread of virus on kids.

Hit them, if they don't behave (Not the head). After a while I just scare them with Mr. sticky.

You're scaring me with mr sticky.

What's wrong with Mr. Sticky

here

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#36 XiaolinPrincess
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*looks at the previous posts* I'm going to feel sorry for your kids.
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#39 stevenk4k5
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I was disciplined with the belt and I am pretty on the ball as an adult so I guess I'll do the same with my kids. :P
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#40 D3nnyCrane
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Discipline joke!

A Mum and Dad enter their son's room, and are horrified to discover a large amount of Sado-masochistic and bondage paraphernalia and magazines hidden in the drawers. Later they discuss how to handle the situation.

"What are we going to do?" Asks the Mother.
"Well," replies Dad, "We probably shouldn't spank him..."

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#41 cowboymonkey21
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if the kid came from my balls i should have the right do do as a i please with him/herfreshgman
No you shouldn't.
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#42 CommanderShiro
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They'll feel the pain of the evil backscratcher when it hits them for being asshats. Thats how my dad disciplined me and it worked well.
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#43 R0cky_Racc00n
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Shank them a little when ever they act up.
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#44 cowboymonkey21
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I don't really know. I would avoid physical punishments as much as I can. But I wouldn't want to buy them stuff to calm them down like the parents that some other users have mentioned. I suppose I would ground them or take away privileges.
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#45 aaronmullan
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I would ground/give them a limited of something eg. only 30 minutes of games a day for a week or something.
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#46 vidplayer8
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It really depends on what the situation is.

As a kid, I never had tantrums and caused problems in public, and hopefully my kids might be the same.

If not, then I would resort to maybe a smack or two when they act up. I don't think I'll get a belt out ever. Its something I"d have to talk to my wife about.

But I am sure that for some kids hitting doesn't do anything, and for others, timeouts don't do anything.

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#47 Theokhoth
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Spanking, restriction from his favorite pastimes, things like that.
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#48 7guns
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I had my fair share of this sort of decipline, and believe me that its never a good idea and you wouldn't realise the extent of damage it does to the kids until much later in their lives, say 18 or 19... If you reason with them, it works from the inside and contributes to their learning process as they grow up. But if you hit them you are rulling them with fear and they usually end up learning nothing from their mistakes...
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#49 GTA_dude
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I'll smack them around untill they relize they did something wrong.
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#50 iam2green
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idk because i'm good i never do anything bad. i think spanking them would be good, or if they r bad put them in a bathroom. if i put them in thier room they would end up playing with their toys or something that realy does not seem like ppunishment.