I actually met a 40 year old virgin...well he's 43

Well he's actually 43. He works with us and told us about his situation....we didn't believe him at first but it is true.

Pretty pathetic, He said he was born with only one testicle and he's extremely embarrassed about it....that's whats held him back all these years.

Well he's actually 43. He works with us and told us about his situation....we didn't believe him at first but it is true.

Pretty pathetic, He said he was born with only one testicle and he's extremely embarrassed about it....that's whats held him back all these years.

I think your reaction is pathetic. I can understand his situation.. what's your excuse?DeeJayInphinity

Lets make fun of people based on personal decisions.

Just like mature adults. 

I think your reaction is pathetic. I can understand his situation.. what's your excuse?DeeJayInphinity

[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]I think your reaction is pathetic. I can understand his situation.. what's your excuse?Anti-Venom

Well he's actually 43. He works with us and told us about his situation....we didn't believe him at first but it is true.

Pretty pathetic, He said he was born with only one testicle and he's extremely embarrassed about it....that's whats held him back all these years.

Anti-Venom

Aww, poor guy, he's just gonna get more and more embarrassed about it as he gets older, he should just hire a prostitute and get it over and done with then deal with only having one testicle.bean-with-bacon

[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]I think your reaction is pathetic. I can understand his situation.. what's your excuse?jasperrussell

[QUOTE="Anti-Venom"]

Well he's actually 43. He works with us and told us about his situation....we didn't believe him at first but it is true.

Pretty pathetic, He said he was born with only one testicle and he's extremely embarrassed about it....that's whats held him back all these years.

EMOEVOLUTION

His decisions are his decisions I suppose.

I don't really see how it's pathetic at all if it's by choice. It's not as if no one has ever been willing to sleep with him.

you haven't described this guy - is it cos the story is made up. normally you would say something about his looks or personality in this situation/topic rather than just one testicle.

Also, what male is scared of sex in the dark but not scared of making every guy he works with think he's a freak and not want to hang out with him.

I'm crying foul! 

Its kind of pathetic he views that as a major problem in having sex.. I mean every girl Ive been with for a one night stand or just first time having sex I dont think any of the women paid attention to whether there was 1,2 or 3 balls down there. On top of that Im pretty sure it would be cheap to pay a plastic surgeon to put a testical implant in.

I read in a Maxim months back that alot of old virgins like 35+ stop trying to have sex because its years of frustration and lack of confidence that has seeded into their mind that they think at that age if they took a girl to bed their lack of sexual knowledge or endurance would humiliate them. And some of the study showed that if the guys said they were virgins and trying to break free from it most said they would understand and be as patient as they could be. I dunno I guess if I was in that position I would be a little adament about even trying to have sex.

I have a steady girlfriend I do the nasty alot and have built alot of endurance and have mastered my technique but when I was in Iraq for 6 months and came home I lasted like 30 seconds in bed and moved awkward as hell in bed.

Hmph, missing a testacle must be pretty tough.

Best of luck to the guy, I suppose.

BAHAHAH!ok true story.this one time, when me and my girl was sleeping nakey during the winter last year she rubbed against me and then made a face.i was like "whats wrong" and she said "did you just lose a testicle?" so obviously i had a weird face on so she went down and checked it out and said "OMG I SWEAR YOU HAVE ONe TESTICLE RIGHT NOW" i actually got kinda scared fearing it somehow dissapeared or something but then i checked it out and i realized that it was a freezing night and somehow my testicle was aligned. i explained it to her that its normal and it happens when guys get cold (you guys know what im talking about) and she was all checking it out and HONESTLY taking a reaal detail obsevation. which was funny since weve been together for 8 months at the time and shes seen it all the time but i guess she got worried about me losing a testicle. but serously though, ur friend shouldnt worry so much about it.he should go out and date.girls dont always judge.and no, not all girls who dont judge are the stereotypical ugly girls.

 

I have a steady girlfriend I do the nasty alot and have built alot of endurance and have mastered my technique but when I was in Iraq for 6 months and came home I lasted like 30 seconds in bed and moved awkward as hell in bed.

battousai188

lol, honesty at its best.

its alright man, happened to me when i was away for 3 and half months on a bussiness trip. 

Its kind of pathetic he views that as a major problem in having sex.. I mean every girl Ive been with for a one night stand or just first time having sex I dont think any of the women paid attention to whether there was 1,2 or 3 balls down there. On top of that Im pretty sure it would be cheap to pay a plastic surgeon to put a testical implant in.

battousai188

so yeah, anyone want to add anything on this one?

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Well he's actually 43. He works with us and told us about his situation....we didn't believe him at first but it is true.

Pretty pathetic, He said he was born with only one testicle and he's extremely embarrassed about it....that's whats held him back all these years.

Anti-Venom

Hey. People are born this way. No need to pick up the handicapped.

Its kind of pathetic he views that as a major problem in having sex.. I mean every girl Ive been with for a one night stand or just first time having sex I dont think any of the women paid attention to whether there was 1,2 or 3 balls down there. On top of that Im pretty sure it would be cheap to pay a plastic surgeon to put a testical implant in.

I read in a Maxim months back that alot of old virgins like 35+ stop trying to have sex because its years of frustration and lack of confidence that has seeded into their mind that they think at that age if they took a girl to bed their lack of sexual knowledge or endurance would humiliate them. And some of the study showed that if the guys said they were virgins and trying to break free from it most said they would understand and be as patient as they could be. I dunno I guess if I was in that position I would be a little adament about even trying to have sex.

I have a steady girlfriend I do the nasty alot and have built alot of endurance and have mastered my technique but when I was in Iraq for 6 months and came home I lasted like 30 seconds in bed and moved awkward as hell in bed.

battousai188

Not pathetic at all. Having sex, means nothing at all. More social/cultural B/SMeeeko

[QUOTE="Meeeko"]Not pathetic at all. Having sex, means nothing at all. More social/cultural B/Sjasperrussell

You misunderstood me. Our society sees not having a sexual encounter as pathetic. This has probably came about when our race was older and less abundant. As of now, It is more efficient for some individuals to not have sex because of our high population.

I'm not religious at all in the original sense of the word. I believe in progression.

[QUOTE="Meeeko"]Not pathetic at all. Having sex, means nothing at all. More social/cultural B/Sjasperrussell

[QUOTE="jasperrussell"][QUOTE="Meeeko"]Not pathetic at all. Having sex, means nothing at all. More social/cultural B/SDeeJayInphinity

Thank you for backing me up infinity. I have the same feelings as well.

He is blinded by ancient values that mean nothing in this day and age. Our society as a whole is stuck in the dark ages of ideals.

Life is about advancing not hanging on to the old ways.

I think it's only sad if he himself thinks it's sad. But if that's not the case, but more happy, then I think he's fine.

I myself though, would not have myself that way. I think for my own sake, sex is an important part of life that most people should go through it.

Thank you for backing me up infinity. I have the same feelings as well.

He is blinded by ancient values that mean nothing in this day and age. Our society as a whole is stuck in the dark ages of ideals.

Life is about advancing not hanging on to the old ways.

Meeeko

[QUOTE="Meeeko"]

Thank you for backing me up infinity. I have the same feelings as well.

He is blinded by ancient values that mean nothing in this day and age. Our society as a whole is stuck in the dark ages of ideals.

Life is about advancing not hanging on to the old ways.

DeeJayInphinity

[QUOTE="jasperrussell"][QUOTE="Meeeko"]Not pathetic at all. Having sex, means nothing at all. More social/cultural B/SMeeeko

You misunderstood me. Our society sees not having a sexual encounter as pathetic. This has probably came about when our race was older and less abundant. As of now, It is more efficient for some individuals to not have sex because of our high population.

I'm not religious at all in the original sense of the word. I believe in progression.

[QUOTE="Meeeko"]

[QUOTE="jasperrussell"] ah... without sex the species dies out. we're programmed to want it, seek it, enjoy it. unless of course you're religious and you think all these desires are put in us by God to test us?????jasperrussell

You misunderstood me. Our society sees not having a sexual encounter as pathetic. This has probably came about when our race was older and less abundant. As of now, It is more efficient for some individuals to not have sex because of our high population.

I'm not religious at all in the original sense of the word. I believe in progression.

sex = chance to have babies.

I don't care about people having sex nor do I care about them not having it.  It deosn't matter anymore because our population is so high.

I'm just saying there are positive sides to being a virgin for life.

 My argument may not make sense.  I believe in it though. :)