I Admit I Fear Super Hot Girls..

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#1 Fele7
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Like i`m alright talking to simple cute girls and all.

But then i see really hot girl its so hard to talk i dont know. It seems like i`m trying to ignore them , but i dont want to.

You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

Weird huh?

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#2 ferrari2001
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ummm, yea... You know who would realy love, this... People who read your blogs.
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#3 SolidSnake35
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I try to not look at anyone I'm not friends with. Nerves, I guess.
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#4 lucky326
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This is the part where you drink 13 pints of coke and see how your days goes.....trust me.
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Sorry to hear.
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#6 TheSystemLord1
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I try to not look at anyone I'm not friends with. Nerves, I guess.SolidSnake35

Its called being polite, unless you plan on talking with them.

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#7 Dalo12345
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Like i`m alright talking to simple cute girls and all.

But then i see really hot girl its so hard to talk i dont know. It seems like i`m trying to ignore them , but i dont want to.

You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

Weird huh?

Fele7

:lol:

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#8 ferrari2001
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lucky326, hows your movement to unite all of northern Britain going?
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#9 FingerSub
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Not really like that for me if I know the person I will talk to them no matter what but yeah if I don't I won't
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#10 SolidSnake35
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[QUOTE="SolidSnake35"]I try to not look at anyone I'm not friends with. Nerves, I guess.TheSystemLord1

Its called being polite, unless you plan on talking with them.

If someone talks to me I look at them...
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#11 muirplayer
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Fear of rejection coupled with shyness or bashfulness?
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#12 Fele7
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Fear of rejection coupled with shyness or bashfulness?muirplayer

Possibly

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#13 markop2003
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hot girls don't really bother me cause i don't usually find them that attractive, i'm much more into cute girls but they're really easy to talk to
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#14 MaddenBowler10
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they are humans like all of us, if you were to chop their head off, the same blood will spurt out like a sprinkler and you will see that they also have the same bones and organs and everything else. Dont be shy.

Also, if they are hot and blonde, chances are they are dumber than you

I am tho still.

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#15 Bauers-Twin
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well in my school if its a normal girl or a ot so hot girl idc what they think so I'm less stressed. If its a really hot girl i try to just make them laugh but not talk too much for fear of screwing up, sometimes it works, most of the hot girls in my school are major biatches, including the ones I'm frieds with sadly.
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#16 markop2003
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lucky326, hows your movement to unite all of northern Britain going?ferrari2001

i think we had three people last time i checked...

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#17 ferrari2001
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[QUOTE="ferrari2001"]lucky326, hows your movement to unite all of northern Britain going?markop2003

i think we had three people last time i checked...

Wow that will unit northern europe in like. uhh Never..

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#18 lucky326
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hot girls don't really bother me cause i don't usually find them that attractive, i'm much more into cute girls but they're really easy to talk tomarkop2003
Amen, still 13 pints of Coke will solve all this guys problems.
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#19 markop2003
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Also, if they are hot and blonde, chances are they are dumber than you

MaddenBowler10

strangley this actually seemed true at my old school aslong as you count the brunette/blondes as brunettes

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I just keep stairing at them until they look away, of course with my ugly mug it doesnt take very long for them to turn away.
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#21 MaddenBowler10
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[QUOTE="MaddenBowler10"]

Also, if they are hot and blonde, chances are they are dumber than you

markop2003

strangley this actually seemed true at my old school aslong as you count the brunette/blondes as brunettes

mhm...truth be told...

THEY ARE HUMANS LIKE ME AND YOU(exception of celebrities, they are just dumba$$es, probably aliens!)

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#22 markop2003
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[QUOTE="markop2003"]

[QUOTE="ferrari2001"]lucky326, hows your movement to unite all of northern Britain going?ferrari2001

i think we had three people last time i checked...

Wow that will unit northern europe in like. uhh Never..

just checked, we now have 11, soon "North Of Englandland" will be a recognised country

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#23 ferrari2001
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[QUOTE="ferrari2001"][QUOTE="markop2003"]

[QUOTE="ferrari2001"]lucky326, hows your movement to unite all of northern Britain going?markop2003

i think we had three people last time i checked...

Wow that will unit northern europe in like. uhh Never..

just checked, we now have 11, soon "North Of Englandland" will be a recognised country

lol, I'd join ya guys but I live in America so good luck with that.

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#24 DivergeUnify
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I feel the same way, but my heart doesn't start pounding or anything like that. If they talk to me, I'll talk back. But I'm aware my body language is completely effed up, because of how uncomfortable it could be
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#25 lucky326
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[QUOTE="ferrari2001"][QUOTE="markop2003"]

[QUOTE="ferrari2001"]lucky326, hows your movement to unite all of northern Britain going?markop2003

i think we had three people last time i checked...

Wow that will unit northern europe in like. uhh Never..

just checked, we now have 11, soon "North Of Englandland" will be a recognised country

No we have 12, we need 10000 on there though lol and we have til June09 to do it.
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Like i`m alright talking to simple cute girls and all.

But then i see really hot girl its so hard to talk i dont know. It seems like i`m trying to ignore them , but i dont want to.

You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

Weird huh?

Fele7
i worship you , YOU CAN ACTUALLT TALK TO "CUTE GIRLS"?!?!?!? i cant even talk to girls w/o hurling in my pocket andd passing out
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#27 lucky326
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[QUOTE="Fele7"]

Like i`m alright talking to simple cute girls and all.

But then i see really hot girl its so hard to talk i dont know. It seems like i`m trying to ignore them , but i dont want to.

You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

Weird huh?

ps3wizard45
i worship you , YOU CAN ACTUALLT TALK TO "CUTE GIRLS"?!?!?!? i cant even talk to girls w/o hurling in my pocket andd passing out

Really Caffine is your friend, that or take an extra deep breath beforehand.
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#28 markop2003
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[QUOTE="ps3wizard45"][QUOTE="Fele7"]

Like i`m alright talking to simple cute girls and all.

But then i see really hot girl its so hard to talk i dont know. It seems like i`m trying to ignore them , but i dont want to.

You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

Weird huh?

lucky326

i worship you , YOU CAN ACTUALLT TALK TO "CUTE GIRLS"?!?!?!? i cant even talk to girls w/o hurling in my pocket andd passing out

Really Caffine is your friend, that or take an extra deep breath beforehand.

ye but then you're just talking before you think what you're actually saying

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#29 lucky326
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[QUOTE="lucky326"][QUOTE="ps3wizard45"][QUOTE="Fele7"]

Like i`m alright talking to simple cute girls and all.

But then i see really hot girl its so hard to talk i dont know. It seems like i`m trying to ignore them , but i dont want to.

You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

Weird huh?

markop2003

i worship you , YOU CAN ACTUALLT TALK TO "CUTE GIRLS"?!?!?!? i cant even talk to girls w/o hurling in my pocket andd passing out

Really Caffine is your friend, that or take an extra deep breath beforehand.

ye but then you're just talking before you think what you're actually saying

Yeah well that isnt news to me really thats exactly what I do most of the time.
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Like i`m alright talking to simple cute girls and all.

But then i see really hot girl its so hard to talk i dont know. It seems like i`m trying to ignore them , but i dont want to.

You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

Weird huh?

Fele7
Uhh.... no, I don't know how it feels. When that happens I make eye contact with them and give them a smile. When they smile back, and I'm not in a particular rush, I might stop and engage them in small talk and see where it leads. It's nothing to be scared of, they aren't going to bite you ( unless you want them to ;)).
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#31 foggy666
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Like i`m alright talking to simple cute girls and all.

But then i see really hot girl its so hard to talk i dont know. It seems like i`m trying to ignore them , but i dont want to.

You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

Weird huh?

Fele7

observation: actually what we see here is the reaction of the mind to the percived reality looked through the filters that society has brainwashed into us. first you see a girl and compare it to the "ideal" woman in your mind, then you imagine (and also probably quite mistaken, unfortunately) what a girl like that will want out of a man, then you compare this imaginary man to yourself and see that you dont posses the qualities he has.

problem: the problem with all of this is that all of it is an illusion, first of all, unless you are a psychic, you cannot know what she really look for in a man, secondly because of your inferiority complex (that is quite common, and most important not permanent) you believe you are not good enough.

solution: over coming this is not easy, and yet, it is a worthy goal, and like every worthy thing in this world we must work diligently to acquire it, the same way you cant learn a language in one day, dont expect perfection at first. while there are many books from people who overcome this, i have one advice for you, shed all fear of yourself and charge into battle

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#32 VacantPsalm
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I Admit I Fear Super Hot Girls...

Fele7
Alright then, our interrogation is over. You can go now, I'll just sent this info to my suppir.... .... Hey wait! I wasn't interrogating you.:?... I didn't even ask. What the hell?
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#33 Shad0ki11
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Just talk to them. Don't hold back.

If you want to try to start out on the right foot, whenever you make eye contact just smile. If she approaches you and/or greets you, just greet her back and begin to talk with her if the conditions are right.

It's understandable to feel awkward if they are wearing anything distracting, but you're going to have to get over your "fear" sooner or later.

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#34 ciaxhieu
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ok ok ill admit, when i talk to people THEY get nervous for some reason :roll:
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#35 foggy666
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ok ok ill admit, when i talk to people THEY get nervous for some reason :roll:ciaxhieu

maybe its because you are holding a big knife, you hands are bloody, and you have the word "psycho" written all over you?

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Err.. You're suppose to give a problem statement then just a statement, or it would be considered a blog.
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Like i`m alright talking to simple cute girls and all.

But then i see really hot girl its so hard to talk i dont know. It seems like i`m trying to ignore them , but i dont want to.

You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

Weird huh?

Fele7

Aren't you the guy who started that thread about transsexuals' passports needing to say that they're transsexual?

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I know what you mean. This really hot chick was talking trying to talk to me about metal and suggesting bands to me and I almost never made eye contact and only made short replies. Then she's like "okay well check out Testament and Artillery, see you later" and when I got home I was pissed at myself for not being social AGAIN
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#40 navigata
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Meh its jus a fear. You can get over it, simply by talkin to one of those u get nervous around..

Good luck wit teh ladeyz

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#41 freek666
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You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

Fele7

Well unless you want to lose a testicle, its just common courtesy not to stare are random people. You can get a glance at them but not just stare at them like a crazy person.

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#42 Funky_Llama
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[QUOTE="Fele7"]

You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

freek666

Well unless you want to lose a testicle, its just common courtesy not to stare are random people. You can get a glance at them but not just stare at them like a crazy person.

I think he was not staring at her to avoid meeting her eyes.

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#43 freek666
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[QUOTE="freek666"][QUOTE="Fele7"]

You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

Funky_Llama

Well unless you want to lose a testicle, its just common courtesy not to stare are random people. You can get a glance at them but not just stare at them like a crazy person.

I think he was not staring at her to avoid meeting her eyes.

I know, but why would you stare at them anyway? Why would you have to make an effort not to stare at someone you dont know?

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#44 Funky_Llama
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[QUOTE="Funky_Llama"][QUOTE="freek666"][QUOTE="Fele7"]

You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

freek666

Well unless you want to lose a testicle, its just common courtesy not to stare are random people. You can get a glance at them but not just stare at them like a crazy person.

I think he was not staring at her to avoid meeting her eyes.

I know, but why would you stare at them anyway? Why would you have to make an effort not to stare at someone you dont know?

I don't know. It's stupid. I don't understand the treatment of women as deities by members of this forum.

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[QUOTE="Funky_Llama"][QUOTE="freek666"][QUOTE="Fele7"]

You know how it feels then you look at that hot girl , and she starts walking near you , you just keep staring away from her?

freek666

Well unless you want to lose a testicle, its just common courtesy not to stare are random people. You can get a glance at them but not just stare at them like a crazy person.

I think he was not staring at her to avoid meeting her eyes.

I know, but why would you stare at them anyway? Why would you have to make an effort not to stare at someone you dont know?

In TC's situation maybe it's due to the fact that they're supposedly "super hot"? o_o