I cheated on my girlfriend.

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#1 MCGSMB
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Ok, so i was at a party last night and i cheated on my girlfriend. I feel really bad and i haven't answered her calls or texts today.

I don't think she knows it happenned.

What should i do?I don't want to hurt her.
Should i pretend like it didnt happen, or should i tell her everything and hope she forgives me?

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#2 XFull_MetalX
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What mama don't know won't hurt her
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#3 southy787
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Tell her. Its better than her finding out from someone else.
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#4 Silchas
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If you tell her you can go find a new girlfriend..
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#5 MCGSMB
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Tell her. Its better than her finding out from someone else.southy787

She might not find out...

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#6 wemhim
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Well, it really depends, I wouldn't know, but which ever ends with the best results for her. I'd say that, if you tell her, she could feel bad about it, and feel that you don't care about her if you do, but if you don't, you're a liar.
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#7 mmogoon
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Depends how much you care about her, but if it we're me i would prob not tell her,
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#8 deactivated-583e5f64e0a7e
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Realize that you are now lower then the scum on the bottom of your shoe, tell her, and then break up with her telling her she deserves better. Obviously, she does.
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#9 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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I don't know. Depends on the type of relationship you have with your girlfriend. But would you want to know if she cheated on you?
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#10 cool_baller
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We all know you don't have a girlfriend and you don't go to parties.
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#11 basketcasetct
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tell her and let her break up with you because well...your a douche
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#12 MCGSMB
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I don't know. Depends on the type of relationship you have with your girlfriend. But would you want to know if she cheated on you?sonicare

I suppose.... i don't know. I can just imagine her cryingand yelling at me.

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#13 terdoo
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Go get another girlfriend.
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#14 Greyhound222
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Send her a text saying "I'm sorry" then go to her house and explain that you're pure scum.
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#15 sandroDX
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you shouldnt even have cheated on her in the first place.... have more responsability... with that said, if you really feel that you should tell her, then tell her, but have a nice long chat with her, and say that you are sorry, etc...
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#16 MCGSMB
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It seems like the majority of voters are saying i shouldn't tell her...
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#17 bobstrife
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Tell her. Its better than her finding out from someone else.southy787

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#19 MCGSMB
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She just sent me a text message asking why i wasn't returning her calls.
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#20 trophylocoste
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Just tell her and see what happens
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#21 Jowell91
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Realize that you are now lower then the scum on the bottom of your shoe, tell her, and then break up with her telling her she deserves better. Obviously, she does.LukeAF24

Thats the biggest, most egotistical load of crap ive heard in a long time, mr patriot.

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#22 mmogoon
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She just sent me a text message asking why i wasn't returning her calls.MCGSMB

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#23 MCGSMB
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[QUOTE="MCGSMB"]She just sent me a text message asking why i wasn't returning her calls.mmogoon

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How?

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#24 mmogoon
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[QUOTE="LukeAF24"]Realize that you are now lower then the scum on the bottom of your shoe, tell her, and then break up with her telling her she deserves better. Obviously, she does.Jowell91

Thats the biggest, most egotistical load of crap ive heard in a long time, mr patriot.

Absolutely agree, it's not up to you to tell people who they can and can't see.

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#25 uncledeath2005
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Not good at all...think you need to ask yourself why you cheated in the first place

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#26 supermetroidfan
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Good job
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#27 friutpunch
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well if you really loved her you wouldnt have done that. i will only make an acception if the chick you cheated on with her looked like carmen elektra or jessica alba(also biel). so you should just tell her. were you drunk at the time because you could kind of use that as an excuse
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#28 GD-1369211121
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Tell her, it is better to tell her becouse she is gonna find out anyway... Good Luck
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#29 dragonflame365
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hello I'm doctor Phil for cheating on her you get to be blinded by my bald head bashed in the face and driven off in an unmarked van whilst unconscious
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#30 Abigorus
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Tell her.
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#31 mig_killer2
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well, if you dont tell her, then you wont hurt her. think about it. nothing good will come of you telling her
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#32 Guiltfeeder566
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lolz, good luck with that.
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#33 Creeping_Wolf
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Tell her. You did the deed, now take your medicine like a man. Whatever may happen is better than living with the guilt.
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#34 mig_killer2
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Tell her. You did the deed, now take your medicine like a man. Whatever may happen is better than living with the guilt. Creeping_Wolf
he'll get over it
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#35 rogerjak
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Pretend it didn't happen
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#36 lycrof
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Get her to join these forums.

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#37 GD-1369211121
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what exactly did u do? a kiss? sex?
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#38 Squidward117
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She just sent me a text message asking why i wasn't returning her calls.MCGSMB

Don't answer. Just avoid her at all costs. Never speak to or see her again.

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#39 RamboSymbiot
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Ok, so i was at a party last night and i cheated on my girlfriend. I feel really bad and i haven't answered her calls or texts today.

I don't think she knows it happenned.

What should i do?I don't want to hurt her.
Should i pretend like it didnt happen, or should i tell her everything and hope she forgives me?

MCGSMB

what goes around comes around. You should just tell her. imagin if it was done to you.....

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#40 Blandassname
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[QUOTE="Jowell91"][QUOTE="LukeAF24"]Realize that you are now lower then the scum on the bottom of your shoe, tell her, and then break up with her telling her she deserves better. Obviously, she does.mmogoon
Thats the biggest, most egotistical load of crap ive heard in a long time, mr patriot.

Absolutely agree, it's not up to you to tell people who they can and can't see.

Madness! He already said he'd rather she told him if she had cheated. Hypocrisy and foolishness, I say.

Essentially, we obviously can't tell people who they can or can't see. Is this supposed to be a real revelation? Either way, we can make a very valid judgment, seeing that to cheat is to commit one of the most base and trashy crimes against truth and decency.

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#41 tazzydnc
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you need to tell her.  She'll konw somethings up by how u act.  I would make it sound less than what it was though.  Like if you slept with another girl just tell her you made out with someone else and were drunk or whaetver and feel really bad.
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#42 WildLIkeChild
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Tell her.

Just don't expect the relationship to last much longer. I was cheated on and I dropped her like she was hot.

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#43 schoeffmaster
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There should be an option up there that says "It doesn't matter, your screwed anyways"

If you tell her, she will dump you....and then you will be known in school as a cheater...making your dating option...pretty limited...
If you dont tell her, she probably will find out because you slept with a person that wanted to spite her...and she is about to brag...

The only way your not screwed is if you slept with a guy...but that may cause some problems later down the road...

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#44 Mercury_May2112
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You should be ashamed. But anyways I reccomend telling her.
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#45 sandroDX
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There should be an option up there that says "It doesn't matter, your screwed anyways"

If you tell her, she will dump you....and then you will be known in school as a cheater...making your dating option...pretty limited...
If you dont tell her, she probably will find out because you slept with a person that wanted to spite her...and she is about to brag...

The only way your not screwed is if you slept with a guy...but that may cause some problems later down the road...

schoeffmaster
well, there's a chance that she may forgive him, if she's really nice, and if he is really sorry and knows he wont do it again, then the relationship can last longer...
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#46 schoeffmaster
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Lets review, he went to a party and didnt invite her.
He had to many and got laid by another woman.

Yeah...he is getting dumped...the only way he doesnt get dumped...is if they are REALLY good friends. I am talking Sora Kairi friendship here.
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#47 muppet1010
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well if she was to find out through someone else what do you think she would do/feel like?
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#48 MagnumPI
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Tell her. Its better than her finding out from someone else.southy787
HELL NO!! You ride that gravy train until it derails. Don't be a dumbass about it. If she finds out cry franticly and claim you were raped, it might work.

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#49 playstation2004
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Depends on the kind of the relationship your having.
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#50 Vampyronight
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Since you've failed to tell us what you've done, it's pretty hard to give advice.

If you just kissed another girl, well, perhaps it would be best just to bury that one if you're really sure it's not happening again.

If it was sex, well, just break up with her and be done with it. It's over.