I don't like hanging out with my friends anymore.. What should I do?

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#1 games_are_good_
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I used to but lately they've begun to hang out with a load of different people, who I happen not to like. So whenever we are outside they all want to go get the other guys.. at which point I make up some excuse to go home.

Im thinking of just telling them that I dont want to be their friend anymore but we've been good friends for about 5 years.

What should I do?

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#2 salamancecool
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Get new ones.
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#3 USmellLikePoopy
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Well if you don't like the other people that they are hanging out with you can do two things. First off, you can straight up tell them you don't want to be friends anymore and then just make some new ones. Second, you can try to make some time where just you guys hang out and don't let them go to the other people. Anyways, good luck.
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#4 Udsen
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My only friend lives 3 hrs away. No friends ftw.
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#5 games_are_good_
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Get new ones.salamancecool

Yeah I know, but that's easier said than done

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#6 salamancecool
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[QUOTE="salamancecool"]Get new ones.games_are_good_

Yeah I know, but that's easier said than done

Then try before just giving up. I never siad it ws easy.

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#7 Recycleation
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[QUOTE="salamancecool"]Get new ones.games_are_good_

Yeah I know, but that's easier said than done

Not really :|.
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#8 ernie1989
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You don't even have to tell them. Just start seperating from them slowly. Stop answering their calls, emails, or any of that stuff. Pretty soon they will just think that you have other interests.
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#9 quiglythegreat
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This is not exactly my advice, but...

That's some good advice.

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#10 mgreener_34
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wow thats sorta lame of you :? your friends still want to chill with you right? so whats the problem...start smokeing, all the cool kids do it, and youl make new friends :)
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#11 Sants412
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No friends ftw.Udsen
:lol:
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#12 Sants412
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start smokeing, all the cool kids do it, and youl make new friends :)mgreener_34
That's what I thought at first. :?
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#13 Cedric169
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New Ones, or tell them of how you feel
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#14 killalln00bs
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Destroy the new friends.
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#15 Bourbons3
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Get new ones.salamancecool
Exactly.
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#18 deactivated-5b4bf92fc902e
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Just get new friends.
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#19 hollywood6258
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eat yourself
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#20 uaek
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As said above: "Get new ones."
Hopefully ones with similar interests so something like this doesn't happen again.
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#21 stkr
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Well if you don't like the other people that they are hanging out with you can do two things. First off, you can straight up tell them you don't want to be friends anymore and then just make some new ones. Second, you can try to make some time where just you guys hang out and don't let them go to the other people. Anyways, good luck.USmellLikePoopy

That's what I was going to say. I had the same exact problem and did this. It didn't work for me, but I don't keep friends for very long anyway. Try it.

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#22 Pelicans
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You don't even have to tell them. Just start seperating from them slowly. Stop answering their calls, emails, or any of that stuff. Pretty soon they will just think that you have other interests.ernie1989
Try doing that.
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#23 stkr
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Don't give up your friendship over something senseless. If they're your friends then they'll hang out with you without the others that you don't like. If you just don't like them anymore than nevermind. Just slowly cut them off.
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#24 Apollo5000
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[QUOTE="salamancecool"]Get new ones.games_are_good_

Yeah I know, but that's easier said than done

Alcohol helps...

I was at this "welcome party" last week and it was only really me and one of my friends, he left early on, but i stayed and met new people, and then went bar hopping and meeting even more new people, even got invited to a few parties and everything for this coming week...

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#25 Guiltfeeder566
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This is not exactly my advice, but...

That's some good advice.

quiglythegreat

So should i climp a mountain, build a wall, or both? None seem very appealing.
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#26 Ellimist314
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Just ignore them. If they don't want to hang out with you either, then they won't care, and eventually it will become clear that neither of you want to hang out with each other.
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#27 games_are_good_
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Thanks everyone! To be honest I was getting annoyed with them anyway. Since those other people came along all they ever talked about was heavy metal music, which I don't like ( no offense metal lovers!). Whenever I would want to get a game of basketball going or go for a run or something, they would never come along, but expected me to go wherever they wanted. They even criticised me once or twice because I don't have long hair or constantly wear jeans and black clothes and the fact that I listen to rap music.. If you are wondering why I befriended them in the first place... well they were a lot different when I met them. I'll take the advice and slowly distance myself from them.
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#28 Kikouken
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Why do you not like the other people?
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#29 irelevent
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MAKE NEW FRIENDS, BUT KEEep THE OOOooooOOld ONE IS SILVER AND THE OTHER GOLD!!!!
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#30 killalln00bs
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eat yourselfhollywood6258
I retract my old statement, and have decided to agree with him.

Try eating yourself, you'll never know what you taste like until you try.

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#31 Krazy_duck
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Lol. The first time i read the topic title i thought it said:

"I don't like hanging my friends anymore. What should i do?

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#32 FlaminDeath
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Say your new friends are a**holes and I don't wanna hang out with them. Either he'll hang out with just you or never speak to you again.
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#33 Two400
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burn their houses down
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#34 hollywood6258
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[QUOTE="hollywood6258"]eat yourselfkillalln00bs

I retract my old statement, and have decided to agree with him.

Try eating yourself, you'll never know what you taste like until you try.

i'm glad someone agrees with me jesus *eats left arm* mmmm

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#35 Rath_01
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Tell them you dont like the new people or just stop hanging out with them and get new friends its really not that hard.
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#36 power_rangerer
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that sux. you should try to be open to new people. if the guys they're hanging out with are bad people (drugs, gangs, wannabe gangs, assH@les,w/e) then find new friends.