I don't understand my friend

Ok, so I'm a guy and one of my friends is a girl. We met at work, she had a boyfriend and I understood that, so I didn't try anything ever. We hung out, watched movies, ate out and stuff and she said her boyfriend was fine with that and knew what we were doing. We were friends for about 6 months and I just left that city for school for a year. Everything seemed fine until the day after when she sent a really rude text message to me. I asked her what was up and she said that we can't be friends and she felt "uneasy" around me. She told me that we can never talk to each other again. Just right out of the blue. Anyone have any thoughts?

Her boyfriend found out.

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No idea, maybe her boyfriend started pressuring her?

I'd be confused as hell too. Probably her boyfriend's fault though.

Her boyfriend found out.

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SideSwipes

Yeah, she might have been lying about her boyfriend being okay with it. :P

Ok, so I'm a guy and one of my friends is a girl. We ate outDevoo55

Yeah, but I never did anything. I was a complete gentleman.

Tell her she would rather be with you and she knows it. You'll be better for her than her boyfriend. Tell her she's living a lie and if she excludes you.

Yeah, but I never did anything. I was a complete gentleman.

Devoo55

She found out that you have a gamespot account.

Yeah, but I never did anything. I was a complete gentleman.

Devoo55

Her boyfriend found out.

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SideSwipes

No idea, maybe her boyfriend started pressuring her?

Snipes_2

Her boyfriend found out.

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SideSwipes

Sorry I'm inclined to think this too. The best thing to do, I suppose, is ask her why she's acting all crazy all of a sudden.

Edit: Then tell us what she said :D

Her BF might have sent the message from her phone?

Her BF might have sent the message from her phone?

joesh89

I'd say try to get an answer if it's out of the blue. If it is her boyfriend pressuring her, drop it, walk away and never be like him.

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Her boyfriend found out.

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Bladecutter56

Yeah, she might have been lying about her boyfriend being okay with it. :P

Yes it is true what people are posting, I found out!!!!!

Yes it is true what people are posting, I found out!!!!!

kidsmelly

lol, I've been talking to her this whole time and she said she's going to get a restraining order on me. I give up. I didn't do anything and I thought we had a good friendship. Sooner or later she'll realize what she just threw away.Devoo55

[QUOTE="kidsmelly"]

Yes it is true what people are posting, I found out!!!!!

rawsavon

I was all fine with it until I found out she made him a sandwich, when I was away at work. What kind of man eats another man's mayonnaise and lettuce.:evil:

lol, I've been talking to her this whole time and she said she's going to get a restraining order on me. I give up. I didn't do anything and I thought we had a good friendship. Sooner or later she'll realize what she just threw away.Devoo55

Wow, I'm suprised haven't figured it out.

Her boyfriend thinks you guys have something goin' on.

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="kidsmelly"]

Yes it is true what people are posting, I found out!!!!!

kidsmelly

I was all fine with it until I found out she made him a sandwich, when I was away at work. What kind of man eats another man's mayonnaise and lettuce.:evil:

[QUOTE="Devoo55"]lol, I've been talking to her this whole time and she said she's going to get a restraining order on me. I give up. I didn't do anything and I thought we had a good friendship. Sooner or later she'll realize what she just threw away.Fudgycakes

How is that being the bigger man :lol:

[QUOTE="Fudgycakes"]

[QUOTE="Devoo55"]lol, I've been talking to her this whole time and she said she's going to get a restraining order on me. I give up. I didn't do anything and I thought we had a good friendship. Sooner or later she'll realize what she just threw away.rawsavon

How is that being the bigger man :lol:

[QUOTE="Fudgycakes"]

[QUOTE="Devoo55"]lol, I've been talking to her this whole time and she said she's going to get a restraining order on me. I give up. I didn't do anything and I thought we had a good friendship. Sooner or later she'll realize what she just threw away.rawsavon

How is that being the bigger man :lol:

I heard she a bologna sandwich while you were a work :orawsavon

Come one man we both know that is just a bunch of baloney.....

I feel as though there is more to this story than TC is letting on..cybrcatter

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[QUOTE="Fudgycakes"] Be the bigger man and end it. Call her a stupid **** and tell her to **** off.

Fudgycakes

How is that being the bigger man :lol:

Yeah, I don't really know what was up. I was the bigger man and just sent the best text message I've ever sent before. I feel great now =DDevoo55

Yeah, I don't really know what was up. I was the bigger man and just sent the best text message I've ever sent before. I feel great now =DDevoo55

Yeah, but I never did anything. I was a complete gentleman.

Devoo55

Everything seemed fine until the day after...

Devoo55

[QUOTE="Fudgycakes"][QUOTE="rawsavon"]

How is that being the bigger man :lol:

rawsavon

This is true. He must regain the power in the situation.

You must make her think you'll be just fine without her. Find another girl to go to the movies with, eat out with, etc, and hope she finds out about it and loses all control of the situation. Even if she doesn't, who cares, you got another chick to do those things with and she still lost all control of the situation.

Win/win, woot.

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Fudgycakes"] He's asserting his authority. Bladecutter56

This is true. He must regain the power in the situation.

You must make her think you'll be just fine without her. Find another girl to go to the movies with, eat out with, etc, and hope she finds out about it and loses all control of the situation. Even if she doesn't, who cares, you got another chick to do those things with and she still lost all control of the situation.

Win/win, woot.