I hate making these types of topics, but it's realy been bothering me.

For those who don't know, I graduated last month from high school, so i'm done with it until I start college later on this year. Now don't get me wrong, I am glad I now have a diploma, but I worry about what's going to become of me. Throughout high school I never realy had any close firendships with anyone. Sure, I had people to talk to, but I never hung out with any of those people outside of school, meaning I had way too many boring weekends and boring summer breaks. What i'm worried about is that this will continue as I grow older, and I don't want to look back at my past and regret it like I do now.

So my question is, does anyone here have this same problem, or know anyone who does? 

when you start college and begin your more "adult" life i think its easier to make friends and meet people, its not a big popularity thing like in high school, although people like do exist in college, they are certainly not the majority.Steelers_86

I had a very close knit group of friends in high-school.  I still hang out with many of them to this day, 10 years later. 

Some relationships last and others don't.  College is going to be a great place to meet people, so just try to socialize more.  Join some clubs, or extracurricular activities.

For those who don't know, I graduated last month from high school, so i'm done with it until I start college later on this year. Now don't get me wrong, I am glad I now have a diploma, but I worry about what's going to become of me. Throughout high school I never realy had any close firendships with anyone. Sure, I had people to talk to, but I never hung out with any of those people outside of school, meaning I had way too many boring weekends and boring summer breaks. What i'm worried about is that this will continue as I grow older, and I don't want to look back at my past and regret it like I do now.

So my question is, does anyone here have this same problem, or know anyone who does? 

volgin_101

try acting cool

You're missing out man, it's fun, try to get some great friends in college. I have so many great memories for high school, including...

When I was sophmore year, me and a bunch of friends went to toys r us to buy some swords. We bought these foam things for 7.50 (a huge ripoff) and pranced downt the street to the nearest Barnes and Nobles. So we go in, and start dueling in between the books. An employee comes over and tells us to leave, so we tur on him and all 7 of his wacked him mercilessly. The manager came sprinting out while calling the police, so we got out of there as fast as we could.

These type of moments can only come with friends, and their pricelessness will last forever.

You're missing out man, it's fun, try to get some great friends in college. I have so many great memories for high school, including...

When I was sophmore year, me and a bunch of friends went to toys r us to buy some swords. We bought these foam things for 7.50 (a huge ripoff) and pranced downt the street to the nearest Barnes and Nobles. So we go in, and start dueling in between the books. An employee comes over and tells us to leave, so we tur on him and all 7 of his wacked him mercilessly. The manager came sprinting out while calling the police, so we got out of there as fast as we could.

These type of moments can only come with friends, and their pricelessness will last forever.

CrimzonTide

[QUOTE="CrimzonTide"]

You're missing out man, it's fun, try to get some great friends in college. I have so many great memories for high school, including...

When I was sophmore year, me and a bunch of friends went to toys r us to buy some swords. We bought these foam things for 7.50 (a huge ripoff) and pranced downt the street to the nearest Barnes and Nobles. So we go in, and start dueling in between the books. An employee comes over and tells us to leave, so we tur on him and all 7 of his wacked him mercilessly. The manager came sprinting out while calling the police, so we got out of there as fast as we could.

These type of moments can only come with friends, and their pricelessness will last forever.

xaos

It's awsome, I got away with so much back in my day :)

For those who don't know, I graduated last month from high school, so i'm done with it until I start college later on this year. Now don't get me wrong, I am glad I now have a diploma, but I worry about what's going to become of me. Throughout high school I never realy had any close firendships with anyone. Sure, I had people to talk to, but I never hung out with any of those people outside of school, meaning I had way too many boring weekends and boring summer breaks. What i'm worried about is that this will continue as I grow older, and I don't want to look back at my past and regret it like I do now.

So my question is, does anyone here have this same problem, or know anyone who does?

volgin_101

[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="CrimzonTide"]

You're missing out man, it's fun, try to get some great friends in college. I have so many great memories for high school, including...

When I was sophmore year, me and a bunch of friends went to toys r us to buy some swords. We bought these foam things for 7.50 (a huge ripoff) and pranced downt the street to the nearest Barnes and Nobles. So we go in, and start dueling in between the books. An employee comes over and tells us to leave, so we tur on him and all 7 of his wacked him mercilessly. The manager came sprinting out while calling the police, so we got out of there as fast as we could.

These type of moments can only come with friends, and their pricelessness will last forever.

CrimzonTide

It's awsome, I got away with so much back in my day :)

[QUOTE="CrimzonTide"][QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="CrimzonTide"]

You're missing out man, it's fun, try to get some great friends in college. I have so many great memories for high school, including...

When I was sophmore year, me and a bunch of friends went to toys r us to buy some swords. We bought these foam things for 7.50 (a huge ripoff) and pranced downt the street to the nearest Barnes and Nobles. So we go in, and start dueling in between the books. An employee comes over and tells us to leave, so we tur on him and all 7 of his wacked him mercilessly. The manager came sprinting out while calling the police, so we got out of there as fast as we could.

These type of moments can only come with friends, and their pricelessness will last forever.

xaos

It's awsome, I got away with so much back in my day :)

Honestly man... every generation says the younger one is worse. So really you don't see what they mean because it's a repeat.

Don't worry about it, in the working world people don't judge as much as in high school, you will meet tons of people.

trust me.

I just got out of high school and kind of fell the same way. I wasnt a partier, never went to parties, never did any drugs, drank anything. Now I wonder if I missed out. But I think Im better off the way Iam then what i possibly could of become.SaintLeonidas

You didn't miss out but I doubt any of that would kill you. Friends that have done some stuff back then never turned into alcoholics or addicts so...

[QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]I just got out of high school and kind of fell the same way. I wasnt a partier, never went to parties, never did any drugs, drank anything. Now I wonder if I missed out. But I think Im better off the way Iam then what i possibly could of become.Nifty_Shark

You didn't miss out but I doubt any of that would kill you. Friends that have done some stuff back then never turned into alcoholics or addicts so...

it would of killed me...well, maybe not the drugs or alcohol(which definetly could of) but it would of been my parents if they found out.

[QUOTE="Nifty_Shark"]

[QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]I just got out of high school and kind of fell the same way. I wasnt a partier, never went to parties, never did any drugs, drank anything. Now I wonder if I missed out. But I think Im better off the way Iam then what i possibly could of become.SaintLeonidas

You didn't miss out but I doubt any of that would kill you. Friends that have done some stuff back then never turned into alcoholics or addicts so...

it would of killed me...well, maybe not the drugs or alcohol(which definetly could of) but it would of been my parents if they found out.

Not that I parade this but when doing that stuff you don't do it your home. It is the key to safety. And yes it could have technically killed you but then most teenagers would have to be dead by now :lol:

My life is even worse than yours I have real friends & a beautiful girlfriend named Bianca who I can't see for another 45 days & 21 hours. Caring about someone as much as I care about her & not being able to see her is worse than living a life without any friends at all.CheezyFrog