I like this girl but i need help

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#1 Derek1177
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There is this girl in my History and Language Arts Classes that i really like.I think she might like me but im not positively sure. I sit next to her in History and i have started to talk to her but my biggest problem is that she has this one friend that just seems to hate my guts.

No one really cares about what that one girl thinks of me but it gets annoying as right when i try to talk to that girl i like she stops me in several different ways.

Any suggestions in what i should do?

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#2 BRONZE-108
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Ignore her friend. She's just stupid.
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#3 cpo335
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[QUOTE="Derek1177"]

There is this girl in my History and Language Arts Classes that i really like.I think she might like me but im not positively sure. I sit next to her in History and i have started to talk to her but my biggest problem is that she has this one friend that just seems to hate my guts.

No one really cares about what that one girl thinks of me but it gets annoying as right when i try to talk to that girl i like she stops me in several different ways.

Any suggestions in what i should do?

So she's a major ****-block? Just tell her to screw off next time she bugs you and talk to your crush.
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#4 Pirate700
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Just ask her if she wants to grab lunch or coffee sometime.

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#5 foxhound_fox
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Oh... to be in high school again. Just talk to her and find out if she likes you. Seriously, its that easy.

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#6 indian_playa
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forget your crush, bone the one who hates you

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#7 GamerTron0
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Lately off topic forums have really stupid and lame, like this one.

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#8 RiseAgainst12
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Just ask the girl you like away from her friend for a while.. then ask her out. There is only so much the girl can do, say to the girl you like could i talk to you for a while.. if her friend tries to bud in just politely ask her to go away. honestly try and be polite and don't P-off the friend, you would be signing the death warrant for any potential relationship with the girl you like right there :P

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#9 Derek1177
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Just ask the girl you like away from her friend for a while.. then ask her out. There is only so much the girl can do, say to the girl you like could i talk to you for a while.. if her friend tries to bud in just politely ask her to go away. honestly try and be polite and don't P-off the friend, you would be signing the death warrant for any potential relationship with the girl you like right there :P

RiseAgainst12

ok that sounds good i dont know wh i didnt think of that. I was thinkin down that road but your idea sounds better.:D

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#10 RiseAgainst12
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Lately off topic forums have really stupid and lame, like this one.

GamerTron0
You haven't been here very long have you.. :lol: this is the infamous OT we are talking about were religion, politics and Girl help threads have and always will rule the rooster :P
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#11 RiseAgainst12
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[QUOTE="RiseAgainst12"]

Just ask the girl you like away from her friend for a while.. then ask her out. There is only so much the girl can do, say to the girl you like could i talk to you for a while.. if her friend tries to bud in just politely ask her to go away. honestly try and be polite and don't P-off the friend, you would be signing the death warrant for any potential relationship with the girl you like right there :P

Derek1177

ok that sounds good i dont know wh i didnt think of that. I was thinkin down that road but your idea sounds better.:D

yea, if her friend keeps budding in then the girl you like should see her friend is being abit of an ass and even tell her to go away for you :)
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#12 muffincakes87
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Punch friend in the nose?

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#14 auron_16
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well, solution # 1 says maybe her friend knows you like her and maybe she likes you? :o solution # 2 says talk to her friend, and ask what her problem is. be upfront. :)
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#15 TheLordHimself
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well, solution # 1 says maybe her friend knows you like her and maybe she likes you? :o solution # 2 says talk to her friend, and ask what her problem is. be upfront. :)auron_16

Number 2 - Find out what this girl's problem is. Maybe she's jealous. Maybe she thinks you're a freak and wants to protect her friend. Maybe she's just a b**** to everyone. Would be worth finding this one out in case it might cause problems for you and your crush.

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#16 Bloodaxe726
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Just forget about it, dating in high school is a waste of time.

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#17 Travo_basic
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Talk to her at school, ask for her number, talk to her while you are at home. ask her out.
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[QUOTE="auron_16"]well, solution # 1 says maybe her friend knows you like her and maybe she likes you? :o solution # 2 says talk to her friend, and ask what her problem is. be upfront. :)

Do the second one. Just go up to the friend and ask to have a talk. Then when you are alone just say that you have gotten a bit of a weird vibe off her and you were wondering if there was anything you had done to piss her off. Friend will either say yes and you can then sort that problem or she will say no and you then say that's great because I am going to ask out your friend. Push friend gently to the side and ask crush for a date.
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#19 L8erSquare
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Stop thinking about what others think of you and take control. Be a man.

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#20 Derek1177
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Stop thinking about what others think of you and take control. Be a man.

L8erSquare

its not what she thinks of me it is what she is doing to prevent me.

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#21 L8erSquare
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Whats this other person doing to u?

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#22 Rusteater
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OT girl help threads are not complete without...

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#23 Serraph105
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kill her friend and date the girl you like

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#24 WhiteSnake5000
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OT girl help threads are not complete without... Rusteater
lol someone had to do it eventually.
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#25 Derek1177
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Whats this other person doing to u?

L8erSquare

read my original message

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#26 blazinpuertoroc
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Just forget about it, dating in high school is a waste of time.

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You have to start somewhere...sounds like youve been unlucky.

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#27 awssk8er716
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Just forget about it, dating in high school is a waste of time.

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Obviously you never got laid...

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#28 Messiahbolical-
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Kidnap them both and feed them lasagna every day in your closet until they hate lasagna and the Italian food restaurant will go out of business but the girl who hates you's dad that owns the Italian food restaurant so they have to move far far way back to Antarctica and you can finally get to seducing the girl you want to play doctor with and you can give her ecstasy and ketamine and other naughty stuff so she wont be thinking about how hideous you look and she'll rape you with Prince playing in the background
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#29 Messiahbolical-
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Just a thought...
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#30 ps3wizard45
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kill - the - friend

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#31 vendettared468
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I had a similar problem, but i knew the reason the friend was being a *****. The friend liked a guy and the guy's friend liked the girl i was flirting with, so she kept trying to get her friend to like the other guys friend so they could double date.

At this point i knew the girl liked me and she was cool enough to tell her friend to back off, and we're still dating.

I know that probably wasn't much help advice wise, but might help you out, if the girl likes you enough her friend being annoying isn't going to change that opinion. But i'd second the talk to the friend and girl about the situation, definately seems like the best course of action.

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#32 remmbermytitans
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Rule #1: If her friends don't like you or don't approve of you, it won't last. So, if your goal is to hit it and quit it, then who cares. If your goal is to try to have a long term relationship, that friend is going to be a problem that you'll eventually have to deal with. A girl's friends are just like another parent, if they don't approve, they won't let you have her, and they'll do anything in their power to keep her from you.
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#33 Almighty_Ganon
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As a previous user stated, High School relationships are a waste of time. I personally find them to be shallow and pedantic, but if you REALLY feel as if this girl is worth the inevitable pain and heart-ache, then just tell her how you feel and explain to her how you think her friend hates you. You can all work something out or whatever.

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#34 kabuuf
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ask 2 talk to her alone
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#35 Bloodaxe726
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[QUOTE="Bloodaxe726"]

Just forget about it, dating in high school is a waste of time.

awssk8er716

Obviously you never got laid...

Not because of lack of opportunity.

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#36 Desulated
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Invite her friend to a parachuting trip. Then, at 90 thousand feet, sabotage her parachute, watch her jump and laugh.

Then go talk to your crush and express yourself.