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#1 Queen_EM
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Well since I've seen quite a few girl advice threads I thought I would make a topicforadvice on how to get some guy that I like. So anyway, there's this guy at my school who is really hot and I want to go out with. The problem is that I try speaking to him to make it sound like I'm interested and therefore getting him to ask me out. But he never seems to notice what exactly I want and I don't feel too right on asking him out myself and since I'm a girl I wouldn't want to come off as being cheap and just telling him how interested I am in him. Any advice on how I can get him to realise that I him to go out with me? BTW he hasn't yet got a girlfriend but seeing as there area lot of girls who like him that might not be the case for too long so I need to act fast.
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#2 ConManWithGun
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Well, send him pictures of yourself with the face cutoff, that will get him
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#3 blooddemon666
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do what guys are supposed to do:

walk up, strike up a conversation, get a number, set up a date, go on it.

not that difficult, you won't seem like a lady of the night. you will display an intrest, just don't be all clingy and you'll do well.

but seriously though... I don't trust that you are what you say you are 0.o

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#4 Funkdaddy13
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I would just ask him. Most guys prefer it that way. I'm pretty clueless myself... :P
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#5 shaza91
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First ask him if he's gay or curious. If he says no move on, don't try to persuade him.
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#6 -AK47-
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well if your hot, then you don't have to do much.
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#7 nooblet69
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Get one of your friends to talk to him I guess. Btw, you shouldnt just go for the best looking dude out there. Make sure you really like the person before deciding that you wanna go out with them or you could end up getting hurt.
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#8 deactivated-57e5de5e137a4
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Honestly, most guys couldn't care less if a girl asks them out or if they ask a girl out. The only defining factor is, is he interested in you?

In most cases, girls who flirt alot with a guy and are real obvious about it are seen more as "cheap" than a girl who is interested with a guy and just asks if he wants to go hang out or something.

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#9 tazzydnc
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look pretty.  flirt.  smile at him and say hi um that's about it.
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#10 import_fighter1
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rape him, i promise he'll like it ;)
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#11 xtn702
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go up to him and ask him out,plain and simple as that.
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#12 Omni-Slash
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just like I tell the boys......be confident.....be yourself........if he isn't into you........just spread the rumor that the other girl has herpes.....good luck... :)

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#13 jrlc1
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well, most guys have said it so just go up and talk to him. ask him if he wants to hang out.
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#14 blazinpuertoroc
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lol "getting a boyfriend" gunna go to the store and pick one up
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#15 SgtSilock
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Well since I've seen quite a few girl advice threads I thought I would make a topicforadvice on how to get some guy that I like. So anyway, there's this guy at my school who is really hot and I want to go out with. The problem is that I try speaking to him to make it sound like I'm interested and therefore getting him to ask me out. But he never seems to notice what exactly I want and I don't feel too right on asking him out myself and since I'm a girl I wouldn't want to come off as being cheap and just telling him how interested I am in him. Any advice on how I can get him to realise that I him to go out with me? BTW he hasn't yet got a girlfriend but seeing as there area lot of girls who like him that might not be the case for too long so I need to act fast.Queen_EM

Asking for this sort of advice on a gaming site.... /golfclap

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#16 cpo335
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Well I know if a girl liked me, I would like it if sh asked me to hang out some time and then gave me her number.

But I guess just act cool and ask if he wants to hang out some day or something. Then give him your number.

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#17 ElZilcho90
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just like I tell the boys......be confident.....be yourself........if he isn't into you........just spread the rumor that the other girl has herpes.....good luck... :)

Omni-Slash

Those accusations that you're a terrible influence are so unfounded. :P

Want my advice? Ask the guy out. He says yes, whoo. He says no, you can move on with your life.

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#18 cool_baller
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rape him, i promise he'll like it ;)import_fighter1
Unless she is fat. No wait he will still like it.
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#19 Omni-Slash
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Those accusations that you're a terrible influence are so unfounded. :PElZilcho90
pfft...I'm here to take care of my OT peeps.....everyone else is collateral....
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#20 Tjeremiah1988
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ask if hes doing anything later, if not invite him to your house or somewhere else.
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#21 hoop_hard
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Well, Girls have asked me out in the past and I dont mind. I think he will like it more if you just asked him out.
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#22 TirOrn
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Play hard to get. A guy doesn't like unwelcome advances, and pestering girls. Act charming, cute, and smile a lot, but try not to talk much more than general conversation... Good luck. ;)
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#23 ConManWithGun
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[QUOTE="import_fighter1"]rape him, i promise he'll like it ;)cool_baller
Unless she is fat. No wait he will still like it.

I don't know, if a fat chick raped me I would be pretty angry

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#24 SgtSilock
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My advice is to stay away from school crushes... if your still in school, your not ready for a boyfriend : ) Thats my advice.
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#25 Yagami-Iori
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Ok, he's a high school guy, so let me break it down...

A) Act like he is the best at everything & make it all about him

B) Go places physically he wants

C) Be cool around his friends and don't talk to much

D) He'll be gone in 3 months or w/e you stop putting out

Sorry, I know it sounds bad, but it's a kid in high school, they aren't exactly long term material...

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#26 import_fighter1
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Ask him if he wants to see your bedroom
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#27 cool_baller
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Well, Girls have asked me out in the past and I dont mind. I think he will like it more if you just asked him out. hoop_hard
We all know nobody ever asked you out. And we all know the only girl you talk to is your mom and your babysitter who is the same age as you. :)
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#28 Queen_EM
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I'm not looking for anyone on the long-term but I'm 16 so I would have thought I'm old enough.
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#29 SgtSilock
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Ok, he's a high school guy, so let me break it down...

A) Act like he is the best at everything & make it all about him

B) Go places physically he wants

C) Be cool around his friends and don't talk to much

D) He'll be gone in 3 months or w/e you stop putting out

Sorry, I know it sounds bad, but it's a kid in high school, they aren't exactly long term material...

Yagami-Iori

Like i said, not old enough for a boyfriend yet. Just have fun.

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#30 hoop_hard
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Ok, he's a high school guy, so let me break it down...

A) Act like he is the best at everything & make it all about him

B) Go places physically he wants

C) Be cool around his friends and don't talk to much

D) He'll be gone in 3 months or w/e you stop putting out

Sorry, I know it sounds bad, but it's a kid in high school, they aren't exactly long term material...

Yagami-Iori

As a guy that just graduated from High School. I resent that.

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#31 ArmoredAshes
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I would just ask him. Most guys prefer it that way. I'm pretty clueless myself... :PFunkdaddy13

yeah....im not the sharpest tool in the shed when it coems to that..

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#32 DeLurk
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[QUOTE="cool_baller"][QUOTE="import_fighter1"]rape him, i promise he'll like it ;)ConManWithGun

Unless she is fat. No wait he will still like it.

I don't know, if a fat chick raped me I would be pretty angry

Especially if she broke your pelvis.

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#33 hoop_hard
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I'm not looking for anyone on the long-term but I'm 16 so I would have thought I'm old enough.Queen_EM

Are you hot? Cause thats matters a lot.

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[QUOTE="cool_baller"][QUOTE="import_fighter1"]rape him, i promise he'll like it ;)ConManWithGun

Unless she is fat. No wait he will still like it.

I don't know, if a fat chick raped me I would be pretty angry

You don't have to admit if you liked it or not, you can always say it wasn't your fault

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#35 cool_baller
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I'm not looking for anyone on the long-term but I'm 16 so I would have thought I'm old enough.Queen_EM
I am 16(almost 17 if you like older guys) :D:P;)
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#36 blazinpuertoroc
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[QUOTE="ConManWithGun"]

[QUOTE="cool_baller"][QUOTE="import_fighter1"]rape him, i promise he'll like it ;)DeLurk

Unless she is fat. No wait he will still like it.

I don't know, if a fat chick raped me I would be pretty angry

Especially if she broke your pelvis.

especially if she was fat....oh wait....
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#37 cpo335
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[QUOTE="ConManWithGun"]

[QUOTE="cool_baller"][QUOTE="import_fighter1"]rape him, i promise he'll like it ;)DeLurk

Unless she is fat. No wait he will still like it.

I don't know, if a fat chick raped me I would be pretty angry

Especially if she broke your pelvis.

Oh god, I have images. Just imagine.

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#38 SgtSilock
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[QUOTE="Queen_EM"]I'm not looking for anyone on the long-term but I'm 16 so I would have thought I'm old enough.hoop_hard

Are you hot? Cause thats matters a lot.

LOL are you serious? You want to ask this guy out, but you dont want it to be long term? What do you want it to be? A fling? In that case, DON'T ask him out at all. You really think i guy would care or not if hes going out with you? Wake up! A guy would NEVER pass up a girl. He would be all over you even tho your not with him!

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#39 Queen_EM
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[QUOTE="Queen_EM"]I'm not looking for anyone on the long-term but I'm 16 so I would have thought I'm old enough.hoop_hard

Are you hot? Cause thats matters a lot.

Well many girls and guys have said that I am(not this particular one)but I woudn't really ever rate myself as it would just sound like I was bragging and I already do enough of that.

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[QUOTE="ConManWithGun"]

[QUOTE="cool_baller"][QUOTE="import_fighter1"]rape him, i promise he'll like it ;)import_fighter1

Unless she is fat. No wait he will still like it.

I don't know, if a fat chick raped me I would be pretty angry

You don't have to admit if you liked it or not, you can always say it wasn't your fault

no I would just be extremly grossed out, and scream and cry alot

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#41 nintendorocks
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Take your shirt off.
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#42 Tjeremiah1988
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[QUOTE="Queen_EM"]I'm not looking for anyone on the long-term but I'm 16 so I would have thought I'm old enough.hoop_hard

Are you hot? Cause thats matters a lot.

[QUOTE="hoop_hard"]

[QUOTE="Queen_EM"]I'm not looking for anyone on the long-term but I'm 16 so I would have thought I'm old enough.Queen_EM

Are you hot? Cause thats matters a lot.

Well many girls and guys have said that I am(not this particular one)but I woudn't really ever rate myself as it would just sound like I was bragging and I already do enough of that.

pics or it didnt happen

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#43 Queen_EM
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[QUOTE="hoop_hard"]

[QUOTE="Queen_EM"]I'm not looking for anyone on the long-term but I'm 16 so I would have thought I'm old enough.Phantsy16

Are you hot? Cause thats matters a lot.

LOL are you serious? You want to ask this guy out, but you dont want it to be long term? What do you want it to be? A fling? In that case, DON'T ask him out at all. You really think i guy would care or not if hes going out with you? Wake up! A guy would NEVER pass up a girl. He would be all over you even tho your not with him!

When I say long-term I mean atleast a year, but if it happens to go that long then I wouldn't really mind.

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#44 cool_baller
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[QUOTE="import_fighter1"][QUOTE="ConManWithGun"]

[QUOTE="cool_baller"][QUOTE="import_fighter1"]rape him, i promise he'll like it ;)ConManWithGun

Unless she is fat. No wait he will still like it.

I don't know, if a fat chick raped me I would be pretty angry

You don't have to admit if you liked it or not, you can always say it wasn't your fault

no I would just be extremly grossed out, and scream and cry alot

Screams of pleasure and tears of joy?
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#45 SgtSilock
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a 16 (i assume) year old guy in high school, somthing tells me he would mind. Inless of course, hes extremely ugly, in that case, good luck trying to get rid of him lol
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#46 blooddemon666
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[QUOTE="Queen_EM"]I'm not looking for anyone on the long-term but I'm 16 so I would have thought I'm old enough.cool_baller
I am 16(almost 17 if you like older guys) :D:P;)

/facepalm

We've reached a new low my friends :lol:

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#47 GD-1369211121
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just ask him and see what happens

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#48 Aznsilvrboy
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Honestly, most guys couldn't care less if a girl asks them out or if they ask a girl out. The only defining factor is, is he interested in you?

In most cases, girls who flirt alot with a guy and are real obvious about it are seen more as "cheap" than a girl who is interested with a guy and just asks if he wants to go hang out or something.

guynamedbilly

I agree...

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#49 Tjeremiah1988
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yea, its not always good to try hard.
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#50 hoop_hard
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[QUOTE="hoop_hard"]

[QUOTE="Queen_EM"]I'm not looking for anyone on the long-term but I'm 16 so I would have thought I'm old enough.Queen_EM

Are you hot? Cause thats matters a lot.

Well many girls and guys have said that I am(not this particular one)but I woudn't really ever rate myself as it would just sound like I was bragging and I already do enough of that.

Well most guys are pretty clueless. Like there was this girl at my girl who was trying to show she was interested in me and she kept doing all this stuff but I only got it after she said "I love you, you didnt know that?" So just ask him out, saves time.