I really don't have a problem to talking to anybody regardless of their gender or physical attractiveness. I just think of the person as any other stranger and thus treat them as such. I really don't have a problem talking to girls, I don't why but its probably because of my brother who explained that just because their physical attractive, does not mean that you should treat any different than the stranger down the road. And he was right, they didn't earn their beauty and for them to expect me to bow down or treat them differently conflicted with my personal beliefs.
I don't know but ever since I research the idea of what beauty is and why everyone in this world has the same universal concepts of what is considered beautiful, I realize that beauty was not as magical than it once was. What beauty is, is actually determined in our brains since the beginning, everything we've seen or heard in your life since was put into our brain as electrical nerve impulses from our eyes and ears. These impulses are phyiscal things and can be measured. Each of those impulses, called sights and sounds threw chemical switches in our brain, which can also be observed and measured. These switches, as they turn as predictably as a clock, are what we call thoughts and emotions. And if you send certain impulses down the optic nerve into the brain, the neurons that make up the brain have to chemically react. Those chemicals are our thoughts and emotions and personality and actions.
I realize how weird the idea that certain electric impulses based on on the sights and sounds determined who I would find attractive and who I would love.That particles and atoms would actually mean something to me when it comes to loving someone. After this revelation, I really had no fear talking to girls or anyone for that matter.
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