I need help with this girl..

Ok first of all saying a girl that you dont know(you are in the same class with her) that she is really special is kinda asking her out or atleast sending a strong message?Cuz that's what I did.

Now all she is saying is that how can she be special to me when I dont even know her.I try to throw some dialogues and she says I am flattering.I KNOW that she is not the kind of girl that would have a short-term relationship for some fun and that's what I think she is thinking I am trying to do when I am not.BTW we were having messaging on facebook

Now do you think that it's worth pursuing this,I mean if she was completely uninterested or something wouldnt she already have said something like **** off or something.Right?

How "special" is she by chance?-Sluggo-

Dont bother and move on, at this point youre forcing it when she doesnt want to go furthernuttybar

Dont bother and move on, at this point youre forcing it when she doesnt want to go furthernuttybar

Nuttybar is right, as much as you don't want to face the truth, your going to have to. Never ever force anyone into doing something they don't want to do.

Ok first of all saying a girl that you dont know(you are in the same class with her) that she is really special is kinda asking her out or atleast sending a strong message?Cuz that's what I did.

Now all she is saying is that how can she be special to me when I dont even know her.I try to throw some dialogues and she says I am flattering.I KNOW that she is not the kind of girl that would have a short-term relationship for some fun and that's what I think she is thinking I am trying to do when I am not.BTW we were having messaging on facebook

Now do you think that it's worth pursuing this,I mean if she was completely uninterested or something wouldnt she already have said something like **** off or something.Right?

Spybot_9

From what I gather, shes letting you down gently. I think it would be best to stay friends.

[QUOTE="-Sluggo-"]How "special" is she by chance?Spybot_9

Hey babay you are special lets go out?

I have to try that one

She's not interested... but that's just because you're not trying hard enough. You need to trick her into thinking that you're a desirable mate. Take a magic marker and draw some facial hair on yourself. Wrap a towel around your upper torso and put on some inflatable water wings underneath your shirt so it looks like you've got big pecs and big biceps. There are all sorts of things you can do; just use your imagination!Oleg_Huzwog

and if that doesn't work, there's always a cloth soaked in chloroform!

Well you already went for it. As with most of these topics people usually ask what they should do and how they should approach their interest. You on the other hand have taken the initiative already.

All I can offer is for you to just talk with her and tell her you wouldn't mind getting to know her. And if that's not what she is looking for, offer to just be friends with her and move on. That's about all you can do. There is nothing wrong with making friends, you could use her to your advantage. Chances are she may have friends she could introduce you to.

Girls like a bad boy. Tell her she's fat, insult her parentage, and say you'll pick her up at eight.D3nnyCrane

Stewie Griffin lol, I wonder if anyone has tried that.

[QUOTE="D3nnyCrane"]Girls like a bad boy. Tell her she's fat, insult her parentage, and say you'll pick her up at eight.flowdee79

Stewie Griffin lol, I wonder if anyone has tried that.

Um what? I wouldn;t hand out advice I hadn't tried - I told a girl I fancied I'd take her our if she lost a bit of weight. The next class I asked her out. Though that was 8 years ago if I tried that in the workplace... *shudders*

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[QUOTE="D3nnyCrane"]Girls like a bad boy. Tell her she's fat, insult her parentage, and say you'll pick her up at eight.D3nnyCrane

Stewie Griffin lol, I wonder if anyone has tried that.

Um what? I wouldn;t hand out advice I hadn't tried - I told a girl I fancied I'd take her our if she lost a bit of weight. The next class I asked her out. Though that was 8 years ago if I tried that in the workplace... *shudders*

Wait you're being serious :o I thought you were making a reference to Family Guy :?

Wait you're being serious :o I thought you were making a reference to Family Guy :?

I make it a policy to never giev serious girl advice in the hope that someone will use my advice anyway - tough love mate...

And no was not referencing Family Guy, but at least remember what you're talking about now...

Wait you're being serious :o I thought you were making a reference to Family Guy :?

D3nnyCrane

I make it a policy to never giev serious girl advice in the hope that someone will use my advice anyway - tough love mate...

And no was not referencing Family Guy, but at least remember what you're talking about now...

Just for the record I wasn't going to use your advice...I don't need girl advice ;)