I need some girl advice one last time OT

Keep doing what you are doing.

I need some girl adviceweaselstomper50

No, you don't.

So tomorrow I have my second date with a girl that I have been hanging out with for about 3 weeks now. I use the phrase "hanging out" because nothing has happened yet. I have a good feeling that she knows that I like her(because I've already asked her out twice) and I also have a good feeling that she likes me because she went(or will) go out with me twice. Her friends also dropped a million different hints on me that she likes me and while me and her were sitting next to each other her sister came up to her and grabbed her hand and put it on mine(which she didnt try to stop). My point is that I think im going to make a move on her tomorrow. We see each other all the time and I think things are going to start getting akward if nothing happens soon(and I really want to do this). After we are done bowling(thats our date) Im going to tell her how I feel about her and ask her if she feels the same way about me. If she does, Im going to ask her if I can kiss her and if she says yes then the rest is history. But I want everyones opinion on this because this is something that I really dont want to blow up in my face and I know that you are all beast players so if anyone has any suggestions that please let me know.

Thanks for reading my wall of text, ill send it back to china after this.

And im only 15 so im pretty inexperienced with this stuff.

weaselstomper50

Since you are 15 if this girl is into you it doesn't really matter what you say as long as it isn't crazy. You should stop worrying so much - if you do everything will be much easier. When you are bowling just initiate physical contact, playful stuff after she gets a strike/spare, etc. I wouldn't tell her "how you feel" and then ask her to reciprocate. This is awkward and puts some pressure on her and might make her uncomfortable. Same thing goes for asking if you can kiss her but this isn't nearly as bad. If you have to ask say something like "How would you feel if I kissed you right now?" If she says something positive at which point you go for it and are in. If she says she's not sure or something to this effect (this is likely) you say "Okay lets find out" and kiss her. Any other answer is extremely unlikely so I wouldn't worry too much about it. You are 15 and she sounds like she is into you so you're probably fine. Try not to stress out over little things keep the date fun and your success rate should be close to 100%. Good luck.

Wham bam, thank you ma'am.

Live by it.

If she doesn't give you an answer, just say you deserve to know where you stand, is she interested or not? Christopper

TC, could you give me some girl adviceBiancaDK

Say what?

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Christopper"] If she doesn't give you an answer, just say you deserve to know where you stand, is she interested or not? Christopper

It seems that some people need like a million hints for them to figure out that a girl likes them. Seems to me that you've got the green light x100 so you're good to go. I'm sure it'll workout fine for ya good luck buddy

dont ask for the kiss, just do it. Shows you got ballsAnti-Venom

^^^ yup

dont ask for the kiss, just do it. Shows you got ballsAnti-Venom

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]TC, could you give me some girl advicemuller39

Say what?

TC, could you give me some girl adviceBiancaDK

what is up with your sig dude

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[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]TC, could you give me some girl adviceBiancaDK

Say what?

I agree with just going for the kiss but if OP is too shy to do this my wording is way better than asking her for it.

If you only do one thing OP under no circumstances tell her how you feel and ask her to reciprocate because this is awkward and puts her in a tough/weird situation. Like everyone said it sounds like this girl likes you so just keep it fun and not serious and you'll be fine.

Just go for it.

I know that you are all beast players

weaselstomper50

well thank you :oops:

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So tomorrow I have my second date with a girl that I have been hanging out with for about 3 weeks now. I use the phrase "hanging out" because nothing has happened yet. I have a good feeling that she knows that I like her(because I've already asked her out twice) and I also have a good feeling that she likes me because she went(or will) go out with me twice. Her friends also dropped a million different hints on me that she likes me and while me and her were sitting next to each other her sister came up to her and grabbed her hand and put it on mine(which she didnt try to stop). My point is that I think im going to make a move on her tomorrow. We see each other all the time and I think things are going to start getting akward if nothing happens soon(and I really want to do this). After we are done bowling(thats our date) Im going to tell her how I feel about her and ask her if she feels the same way about me. If she does, Im going to ask her if I can kiss her and if she says yes then the rest is history. But I want everyones opinion on this because this is something that I really dont want to blow up in my face and I know that you are all beast players so if anyone has any suggestions that please let me know.

Thanks for reading my wall of text, ill send it back to china after this.

And im only 15 so im pretty inexperienced with this stuff.

weaselstomper50

Since you are 15 if this girl is into you it doesn't really matter what you say as long as it isn't crazy. You should stop worrying so much - if you do everything will be much easier. When you are bowling just initiate physical contact, playful stuff after she gets a strike/spare, etc. I wouldn't tell her "how you feel" and then ask her to reciprocate. This is awkward and puts some pressure on her and might make her uncomfortable. Same thing goes for asking if you can kiss her but this isn't nearly as bad. If you have to ask say something like "How would you feel if I kissed you right now?" If she says something positive at which point you go for it and are in. If she says she's not sure or something to this effect (this is likely) you say "Okay lets find out" and kiss her. Any other answer is extremely unlikely so I wouldn't worry too much about it. You are 15 and she sounds like she is into you so you're probably fine. Try not to stress out over little things keep the date fun and your success rate should be close to 100%. Good luck.

I think that the "How would you feel if I kissed you right now?" thing is an awesome idea but I think that that would be weird if I just threw that out there out of nowhere. What if I did something like got close to her and told her how much I enjoyed the date and then if she said something like how much she liked it too Isaidit then?

So tomorrow I have my second date with a girl that I have been hanging out with for about 3 weeks now.

weaselstomper50

That is the most important thing you need to look at.

You've only known her as a friend for a short time (3 weeks), and yet she's willing to go on a second date. So I'd do exactly what you did on the 1st date - cos you obviously made a good impression.

I'd suggest this is the time to make your move bro (do whatever you choose, kiss or maybe ask her to be your gf), that's probably why she's going on the date with you - she'll be expecting it.

Sounds like a good plan to me.

My only question is how are you getting to a bowling alley when you are only 15?

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So tomorrow I have my second date with a girl that I have been hanging out with for about 3 weeks now.

KlepticGrooves

That is the most important thing you need to look at.

You've only known her as a friend for a short time (3 weeks), and yet she's willing to go on a second date. So I'd do exactly what you did on the 1st date - cos you obviously made a good impression.

I'd suggest this is the time to make your move bro (do whatever you choose, kiss or maybe ask her to be your gf), that's probably why she's going on the date with you - she'll be expecting it.

As everyone said as long as you are being truthful in your OP if you go for a kiss you have a very low chance of rejection from her. Girls also respect guys who make a move far more than guys who are too timid/insecure to do so.

you're on the right track and it will probably work out for you, but imo, you don't gotta ask her if you can kiss her, just make sure your face and hers are close, and if she's like looking into your eyes or paying lots of attention to you, just go in for it. cause imo if you ask it just makes it awkward, but then again you're 15 so it's supposed to be awkward :P

You appear to be doing fine. Make your move. She should respond positively.

if you must say something you say: you have no idea how long i have been waiting to do that, let her be the one telling her feelings not youSolid_Tango

lol that lines kinda corny for a 15 year old, but i agree, you should kiss and don't get caught up in the whole feelings agreement.

That is good enough for one night sir...Next time take her out for something to eat and pay for it all. Table for two makes things a little bit more intimateChristopper

Lol he's 15. Hope she likes McDonalds

[QUOTE="Christopper"]Enjoy the date for what it is, and afterwards say "I really enjoyed tonight, I hope we can do this again soon", which pretty much forces a reply from her which could be "I'm not sure this is right for me" or "Yeah, I had a great time too". That is good enough for one night sir...Next time take her out for something to eat and pay for it all. Table for two makes things a little bit more intimate and it may be very awkward to start with, but once you get over the first hurdle and start talking about your interests you wont want to leave. This is when you may want to consider a kiss at the end of the night, or at the very least a peck on the cheek. At this stage you should both have a very good idea if this something you want to carry on with, but things will pan out naturally for you. At your age, as sad as it sounds, the likihood of the two of you lasting the rest of your lives together is very slim and you have a lot of time ahead of you. It's a case of live and learn and no one can tell you how to do that, you know you best.weaselstomper50

Im not going to wait for another date. For me its now(tomorrow) or never because I dont want her to think im leading her on or we're only friends or something like that. And I know that the chances of me being with her the rest of my life are really slim but im not really thinking that far ahead yet.

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[QUOTE="Christopper"] That is good enough for one night sir...Next time take her out for something to eat and pay for it all. Table for two makes things a little bit more intimateweaselstomper50

Lol he's 15. Hope she likes McDonalds

welll on the firstdate we went to a local pizza place downtown which actually turned out really well.

Its cool im just playin

[QUOTE="Christopper"]Enjoy the date for what it is, and afterwards say "I really enjoyed tonight, I hope we can do this again soon", which pretty much forces a reply from her which could be "I'm not sure this is right for me" or "Yeah, I had a great time too". That is good enough for one night sir...Next time take her out for something to eat and pay for it all. Table for two makes things a little bit more intimate and it may be very awkward to start with, but once you get over the first hurdle and start talking about your interests you wont want to leave. This is when you may want to consider a kiss at the end of the night, or at the very least a peck on the cheek. At this stage you should both have a very good idea if this something you want to carry on with, but things will pan out naturally for you. At your age, as sad as it sounds, the likihood of the two of you lasting the rest of your lives together is very slim and you have a lot of time ahead of you. It's a case of live and learn and no one can tell you how to do that, you know you best.weaselstomper50

Im not going to wait for another date. For me its now(tomorrow) or never because I dont want her to think im leading her on or we're only friends or something like that. And I know that the chances of me being with her the rest of my life are really slim but im not really thinking that far ahead yet.

Just remember to wear a rain jacket.bruinfan617

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Im not going to wait for another date. For me its now(tomorrow) or never because I dont want her to think im leading her on or we're only friends or something like that. And I know that the chances of me being with her the rest of my life are really slim but im not really thinking that far ahead yet.

Christopper

I mean that's nice you have a fiancee and a house and all that jazz, I don't think that's really relevant to the situation at all or somehow makes your advice better. Obviously I think your advice is genuine - I don't think you're a bad guy and are trying to trick OP I just think your advice is bad.

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[QUOTE="Christopper"]Enjoy the date for what it is, and afterwards say "I really enjoyed tonight, I hope we can do this again soon", which pretty much forces a reply from her which could be "I'm not sure this is right for me" or "Yeah, I had a great time too". That is good enough for one night sir...Next time take her out for something to eat and pay for it all. Table for two makes things a little bit more intimate and it may be very awkward to start with, but once you get over the first hurdle and start talking about your interests you wont want to leave. This is when you may want to consider a kiss at the end of the night, or at the very least a peck on the cheek. At this stage you should both have a very good idea if this something you want to carry on with, but things will pan out naturally for you. At your age, as sad as it sounds, the likihood of the two of you lasting the rest of your lives together is very slim and you have a lot of time ahead of you. It's a case of live and learn and no one can tell you how to do that, you know you best.WheresKinggiAt

Im not going to wait for another date. For me its now(tomorrow) or never because I dont want her to think im leading her on or we're only friends or something like that. And I know that the chances of me being with her the rest of my life are really slim but im not really thinking that far ahead yet.

OH DAMN