I really like this girl (girl thread #40 billion)

I have known this girl for the past 10 years, we have been good friends but when we were both in year 4 i left to go to a different school, but we still kept in some form of contact.At the end of last year we started hanging out again. I decided to change schools for this year and ironically enough it was the school that my friend goes to. On the first week to this new school she has been talking to everyone but me, she hugs guys around me, doesnt acknowledge me and so on and so forth. We do karate together, and shes all over me at karate, but at school its different. This continued on for a few weeks and i got really fed up. So yesterday i told her that she upsets me at school by not talking to me, by hugging guys and stuff. Then she began to go on and on about how much she likes seeing me and how i make her happy. I really wanna forget about her, but if i do she will get really upset, and i really dont like making people like her upset. So how do i forget about her?

Well say hi when you walk pass her and so on. But just try to avoid her mostly and just get her out of your head, like put another girl in her place.

I know this is hard but it worked with me, hopefully it works for you.

approach her at school but if she keeps ignoring you, forget about her,

pretty much put another girl in her place, maybe she'll get jealous and start talking to you more? lol, b&*@ be crazy

maybe she is embarrassed to be seen with you? are you a loser at school. are you the coolest in karate? maybe both? sounds fishy to me...

maybe she is embarrassed to be seen with you? are you a loser at school. are you the coolest in karate? maybe both? sounds fishy to me...

mr__gameboy

i think she does like you. she just didnt know that you liked her so she was trying to forget about you and find another guy, im pretty sure.rgd51

The best thing to do is try to forget about any kind of relationship. Like the above poster, say hi but go your own way. This is the best thing either way: either she has been hot/cold with you for a reason or she really just wants you as a friend now. Either way, you will move on or inadvertently play hard to get with her, and if she still likes you this will make HER crazy and she will start to pay more attention to you.

Whatever you do keep your dignity. Sometimes when a girl makes a guy nuts for her he throws himself at her. This is the worst thing to do. It will make her respect you less and turn her off because it's too easy. It's guaranteed to fail.

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I have known this girl for the past 10 years, we have been good friends but when we were both in year 4 i left to go to a different school, but we still kept in some form of contact.At the end of last year we started hanging out again. I decided to change schools for this year and ironically enough it was the school that my friend goes to. On the first week to this new school she has been talking to everyone but me, she hugs guys around me, doesnt acknowledge me and so on and so forth. We do karate together, and shes all over me at karate, but at school its different. This continued on for a few weeks and i got really fed up. So yesterday i told her that she upsets me at school by not talking to me, by hugging guys and stuff. Then she began to go on and on about how much she likes seeing me and how i make her happy. I really wanna forget about her, but if i do she will get really upset, and i really dont like making people like her upset. So how do i forget about her?

momo372

Well first of all lets start by not forgetting her!!! Lets take a step back and see what your doing wrong. You like this girl yet your putting it out there very obviously. This will fail and you have a 95% chance of just being a friend forever with her. I'm no expert and I did have trouble with talking to girls when I was younger, but a little research mixed with common sense goes a long way.

When you try talking to her make her WANT you... don't show her that you want her. When you see her in the hallway just waive say whats up and try talking to her. Your the man now act like one. Who gives a **** if she hugged another guy? Man up and hug her! okay we may be going a little fast now so lets slow down. Before you go ahead and do that converse with her don't put her on this pedestal where shes the queen. She's a regular human being like your self. Treat her as if you DON'T want her at all in a playfully manner(tease) and as if you can do A LOT better. Also don't stalk her if you happen to see her great then say what's up and be confident don't think about any negatives just think your the man that she want's not the other way around. Don't compliment her every 5 seconds because that's lame and every other guys does that as well. Just listen to her respond and tease her playfully. She's going to hate you in a way that she's going to want you very badly and she will change her thoughts to suit your needs. Ex) her: I hate these types of movie... You: "I love thse types of movies how could you think like that? Me and you would make a terrible couple hahaha"

Sources: Youtube plus personal experience which all made sense after doing some research. I was with a girl for 3.5 years and while I was with her I had many girls I spoke to dying to go out with me because the way I treated them was exactly how I described there except for the girl I was with. Long story short my gf cheated on em and left me and all those girls after going back to the "nice guy" roll stopped liking me because now I was making it obvious that I liked them. Before when i played them off as great friends they were practically asking me out, but I had ruined it. Do as I say and what many relationship experts(men not women they don't know wtf they're talking about) and you will be successful with not just he, but any women you like if you have confidence and are decent looking, Damn longest post I've ever made I'm pretty damn awesome!

**** her and leave.

**** her and leave.

BeepBoop16

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**** her and leave.

JtotheDizzle

Oh the irony.

I dunno if this was a good move but I told her i liked her 2 weeks ago, but i dunno i ignored her the entire week cause of all the upset she caused me the week before. She basically went nuts and said to me on msn on one of the nights that she liked me and it hurts that i dont talk to her. She also said she wanted to hang out and stuff.

[QUOTE="mr__gameboy"]

maybe she is embarrassed to be seen with you? are you a loser at school. are you the coolest in karate? maybe both? sounds fishy to me...

[QUOTE="JtotheDizzle"][QUOTE="BeepBoop16"]

**** her and leave.

BeepBoop16

Oh the irony.

Oh the connection. *Nudge, nudge*

Anyway, see if she's any different now that you told her how you feel or whatever. If she isn't, say hi to her once and a while. If she still isn't, do acouple of pelvic thrusts near people to make her jealous. If she still isn't different, ignore her because I told you so and find yourself another Hawt Person. (If pelvic thrusts don't change a person, I don't know what will)

I'm a little confused at the chronology of events... you said you liked her, but she was hugging and talking to other guys regardless, then you didn't talk to her for a week because of this and did not tell her why exactly? Then she went nuts because you wouldn't talk to her and now wants to hang out? Is that correct? :?

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I have known this girl for the past 10 years, we have been good friends but when we were both in year 4 i left to go to a different school, but we still kept in some form of contact.At the end of last year we started hanging out again. I decided to change schools for this year and ironically enough it was the school that my friend goes to. On the first week to this new school she has been talking to everyone but me, she hugs guys around me, doesnt acknowledge me and so on and so forth. We do karate together, and shes all over me at karate, but at school its different. This continued on for a few weeks and i got really fed up. So yesterday i told her that she upsets me at school by not talking to me, by hugging guys and stuff. Then she began to go on and on about how much she likes seeing me and how i make her happy. I really wanna forget about her, but if i do she will get really upset, and i really dont like making people like her upset. So how do i forget about her?

bigblunt537

Well first of all lets start by not forgetting her!!! Lets take a step back and see what your doing wrong. You like this girl yet your putting it out there very obviously. This will fail and you have a 95% chance of just being a friend forever with her. I'm no expert and I did have trouble with talking to girls when I was younger, but a little research mixed with common sense goes a long way.

When you try talking to her make her WANT you... don't show her that you want her. When you see her in the hallway just waive say whats up and try talking to her. Your the man now act like one. Who gives a **** if she hugged another guy? Man up and hug her! okay we may be going a little fast now so lets slow down. Before you go ahead and do that converse with her don't put her on this pedestal where shes the queen. She's a regular human being like your self. Treat her as if you DON'T want her at all in a playfully manner(tease) and as if you can do A LOT better. Also don't stalk her if you happen to see her great then say what's up and be confident don't think about any negatives just think your the man that she want's not the other way around. Don't compliment her every 5 seconds because that's lame and every other guys does that as well. Just listen to her respond and tease her playfully. She's going to hate you in a way that she's going to want you very badly and she will change her thoughts to suit your needs. Ex) her: I hate these types of movie... You: "I love thse types of movies how could you think like that? Me and you would make a terrible couple hahaha"

Sources: Youtube plus personal experience which all made sense after doing some research. I was with a girl for 3.5 years and while I was with her I had many girls I spoke to dying to go out with me because the way I treated them was exactly how I described there except for the girl I was with. Long story short my gf cheated on em and left me and all those girls after going back to the "nice guy" roll stopped liking me because now I was making it obvious that I liked them. Before when i played them off as great friends they were practically asking me out, but I had ruined it. Do as I say and what many relationship experts(men not women they don't know wtf they're talking about) and you will be successful with not just he, but any women you like if you have confidence and are decent looking, Damn longest post I've ever made I'm pretty damn awesome!