I tend to lie to my girlfriend and i'm not even doing something behind her back

What I mean is that i just hide where i'm going from her i'll tell her that i'll seeing a ''guy friend'' but i'm really going to see a concert, and i'm not there to meet anyone or do something behind her back (cheat on her) or get to know other people i just go for the music and not the people. I don't care about meeting people when i go someplace alone. I'm too shy for that, I could tell her, yes tonight i have invitation to go see a small concert (she would not have been able to come) she had exams the next day.

Well I sort of feel bad about it I know that I am faithful to her and I tell her that i'm doing this but instead my intentions is to go somewhere else so that she does not give me the whole speech about me going to too much concerts but she never goes with me and she thinks when I go its to get with someone but i've been one year with her and i'm not interested in talking with other girls or hooking up with someone. I just stay calm and watch the concert,

That is very considerate of you to not let her know how much fun she's missing out on.

Then tell her the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

That is very considerate of you to not let her know how much fun she's missing out on.

shoot-first

Then tell her the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

Calvin079

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That is very considerate of you to not let her know how much fun she's missing out on.

Darthkaiser

some of the most successful relationships are based on lies.

Is she the only person you lie to like that?

Once a lier, always a lier :P

sounds like you just don't want to explain anything,and that's normal,next patient.

Don't feel too bad about it. You could lie about way worse things. I've been dating my boyfriend for like an hour and I already lied to him, well got our mutual best friend to lie to him.

Start telling the truth from now on, but DO NOT tell her about what you did before. She'll just get upset so its best she never finds out.

Just because you aren't cheating on her doesn't mean there isn't a problem.
If you have to lie just go out and do something fun... I think you got a problem on your hands that you need to deal with before it gets worse.

If you have to lie to her to have fun then just get rid of her, she sounds likea burden :>

going to a concert alone?

I believe you sir are whipped.

Maybe you should...tell the truth :shock:

Start telling the truth from now on, but DO NOT tell her about what you did before. She'll just get upset so its best she never finds out.

SuprmanLuvHandl

going to a concert alone?

Colin1192

Maybe she has a point about you going out to too many concerts.

This is just me, I try in all ways to be honest, even if it means more hardship at the moment, because its when they find you lied, even if on a small matter that all other statements/truths come into question.

For instance, If you lied about spending this much, then how do I know that you love me?

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Start telling the truth from now on, but DO NOT tell her about what you did before. She'll just get upset so its best she never finds out.

Tom45282003

She'll still get upset because you lied to her.

Just keep lying. Whats the worst that could happen.

Is she the only person you lie to like that?

Once a lier, always a lier :P

TehFuneral

if she catches you lying shes gonna think that you re cheating on her even though u arent

shes not gonna see any motive for you lying other than to hide something worse

bottom line is, if youre not doing anything wrong theres no need to lie

Its always best to just tell the truth.