If I don't drive, live on my own, go to college, or work...

...and I'm 21, can I still be considered a decent person in society? There are good reasons behind not doing the aforementioned. I basically just like to hang out with friends and have a good time with my music and video games and things like that. I'm friendly to people and help out those in need. I write and play music. I do things with my life; just not a lot of the standard "adult" things most guys my age do.

People define a person by possessions and its just wrong.

I say if you're happy and are doing what's gonna make you happy I like you.

Honestly, that sounds like a pretty damn good life to me (providing you have a good source of income). :Pchessmaster1989

dont we all want that life:P

I get SSI due to my nervous and emotional conditions and I have thought about going to college and may try to do so but I haven't gotten around to it.

Eh the college track of life is over rated, if you can be successful without going to college, that's greatmunu9

...and I'm 21, can I still be considered a decent person in society? There are good reasons behind not doing the aforementioned. I basically just like to hang out with friends and have a good time with my music and video games and things like that. I'm friendly to people and help out those in need. I write and play music. I do things with my life; just not a lot of the standard "adult" things most guys my age do.

DragonRebel0908

...and I'm 21, can I still be considered a decent person in society? There are good reasons behind not doing the aforementioned. I basically just like to hang out with friends and have a good time with my music and video games and things like that. I'm friendly to people and help out those in need. I write and play music. I do things with my life; just not a lot of the standard "adult" things most guys my age do.

DragonRebel0908

I think you already answered yourself.

no, because you wanna get with 15 year olds

jk :P but not really

ok but seriously though, in my opinion you can still be a good person, as long as you aren't a burden to society

You should start taking small steps towards a career of some sorts. Take a couple college classes to get the feel or start trade school or something.

That pretty much describes me 'cause I only have [community college] classes on Mondays and Wednesdays and I don't even go on some days.

Only I'm 16 so my parents are willing to support me 'till I'm 18.

I had a friend like that once and I must say it gets annoying driving a person around all the time just so the can be apart of the group. Not to mention he never paid for gas money which was just BS. Honestly I think you should get a job somewhere and if you don't plan to go to college I suggest you make it a job that actually pays worthwhile money.

All of this doesn't mean you are a bad person, heck you are probably a decent guy, but you may become a burden on your friends without even realizing it and all of a sudden your friends won't be quite so friendly to you. Also like one other person said real life experiences help you to grow up at the same rate as your friends.

How do you make money? Like so you can eat.blackngold29

Sounds like a plan. [spoiler] Yes, I was being sarcastic. [/spoiler]

That pretty much describes me 'cause I only have [community college] classes on Mondays and Wednesdays and I don't even go on some days.

Only I'm 16 so my parents are willing to support me 'till I'm 18.

I have tried driving before but I just don't care about driving that much and with my nervous condition I may be more prone to having a wreck or something.