If you are a guy who likes guys but kisses girls is that cheating on a boyfriend

I'm just wondering. I just found out that my boyfriend kisses one of his close girlfriends. I don't think he's going to turn straight or anything but he doesn't even seem sorry about it because he says that he just does it because it feels good. I'm a little p-d right now though. Would you think that kissing a gender you're not attracted to still be cheating? :(

I dunno, girls kissing girls is hot to me even if my GF did it I wouldn't care :O

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yes, it's cheating.

I hope these kinds of threads dont become a trend....

I hope these kinds of threads dont become a trend....

Peiner09

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depends if the girl is his sister or motherSilenthps

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[QUOTE="Silenthps"]depends if the girl is his sister or motherguynamedbilly

Since you seem annoyed, I'm going to assume he kisses them on the lips. I feel like yeah, thats inappropriate.

Your boy toy is toyin' with you, boyfriend.

[QUOTE="dreDREb13"]What kind of a kiss? You seem to have a bit of trouble with your boyfriend...SalmonCatching

Dude that excuse sounds like a 13 year-old wrote it...

You should really have a talk....

And your sexual orientation doesn't change anything.

[QUOTE="SalmonCatching"][QUOTE="dreDREb13"]What kind of a kiss? You seem to have a bit of trouble with your boyfriend...anthonycg

Dude that excuse sounds like a 13 year-old wrote it...

You should really have a talk....

Also, I know some of you say that kissing is kissing but if you are a guy and you found out that your girlfriend made out with another girl would you immediately break up with them if they said they didn't want to break up?

[QUOTE="Peiner09"]

I hope these kinds of threads dont become a trend....

SalmonCatching

this seems to be the 3rd or fourth thread about what to do for, or something personal about your gay relationship. And while it's not that that I care about, It's that I get the feeling your trying to push it onto off topic abit, like your not posting the thread to post the thread, but that theres a bigger motive. Like exposing it as much as you can, becouse you well.... can.

I've also noticed that when somebody says something that could even be tooken remotely offensive about your sexuality, you ask them to further elaborate, while leaving out what you must have had to infered in order to want to ask the question, in order to catch said person in an act of being offensive. Like you automaticaly assume thats our motive.

If your boyfriend is kissing anyone other than you and he knows that you openly disapprove of it, he's cheating. Doesn't matter if it is another man or a woman.

I hope these kinds of threads dont become a trend....

Your boyfriend sounds like a douche, quite frankly.

You don't deserve that, and you shouldn't put up with it.

Kick him to the curb, it's his loss.

Ah, alright. So the five hundred daily girl help threads are fine. But as soon as someone posts about a gay relationship, their motive is to gain attention? Hooray for double standards.

Your boyfriend sounds like a douche, quite frankly.

You don't deserve that, and you shouldn't put up with it.

Kick him to the curb, it's his loss.

no_more_fayth

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[QUOTE="SalmonCatching"] I'm afraid it's basically making out. He keeps telling me that he doesn't like her but that she just likes to kiss. :( What I'm really worried about is that since I won't sleep with him that he might start doing that with her because I think she does that kind of thing.SalmonCatching

Dude that excuse sounds like a 13 year-old wrote it...

You should really have a talk....

Also, I know some of you say that kissing is kissing but if you are a guy and you found out that your girlfriend made out with another girl would you immediately break up with them if they said they didn't want to break up?

[QUOTE="no_more_fayth"]

Your boyfriend sounds like a douche, quite frankly.

You don't deserve that, and you shouldn't put up with it.

Kick him to the curb, it's his loss.

SalmonCatching

You can do much better.

Think of it this way.

It doesn't matter how "amazing" or "perfect" someone is if they cheat on you.

It shows how ugly they really are.

Erm. Yeah? No boyfriend of mine better kiss anybody but me, if he enjoys the ability to produce testosterone.Theokhoth

Yes. Kissing or showing physical affection (other than hugs or kisses on the cheek in certain cultures) towards any person who is not your significant other is considered cheating, according to my code of conduct. Could be a man, woman, etc.. It's still cheating. There are way too many people who are gay and/or bisexual in this world to differentiate on this issue. People who would try to take advantage of the fact that they're kissing a person of a gender that they're not normally attracted to are dodging the rules. And we know how people who try to dodge the rules get dealt with here at Gamespot.

Your boyfriend sounds like a douche, quite frankly.

You don't deserve that, and you shouldn't put up with it.

Kick him to the curb, it's his loss.

I'm just wondering. I just found out that my boyfriend kisses one of his close girlfriends. I don't think he's going to turn straight or anything but he doesn't even seem sorry about it because he says that he just does it because it feels good. I'm a little p-d right now though. Would you think that kissing a gender you're not attracted to still be cheating? :(

SalmonCatching

[QUOTE="SalmonCatching"]

I'm just wondering. I just found out that my boyfriend kisses one of his close girlfriends. I don't think he's going to turn straight or anything but he doesn't even seem sorry about it because he says that he just does it because it feels good. I'm a little p-d right now though. Would you think that kissing a gender you're not attracted to still be cheating? :(

NerubianWeaver

[QUOTE="Peiner09"][QUOTE="SalmonCatching"] What kind of threads?SalmonCatching

[QUOTE="Theokhoth"]Erm. Yeah? No boyfriend of mine better kiss anybody but me, if he enjoys the ability to produce testosterone.UnamedThing

Erm. Yeah? No boyfriend of mine better kiss anybody but me, if he enjoys the ability to produce testosterone.Theokhoth

[QUOTE="NerubianWeaver"][QUOTE="SalmonCatching"]

I'm just wondering. I just found out that my boyfriend kisses one of his close girlfriends. I don't think he's going to turn straight or anything but he doesn't even seem sorry about it because he says that he just does it because it feels good. I'm a little p-d right now though. Would you think that kissing a gender you're not attracted to still be cheating? :(

UnamedThing

[QUOTE="SalmonCatching"][QUOTE="Peiner09"]

I hope these kinds of threads dont become a trend....

Peiner09

this seems to be the 3rd or fourth thread about what to do for, or something personal about your gay relationship. And while it's not that that I care about, It's that I get the feeling your trying to push it onto off topic abit, like your not posting the thread to post the thread, but that theres a bigger motive. Like exposing it as much as you can, becouse you well.... can.

I've also noticed that when somebody says something that could even be tooken remotely offensive about your sexuality, you ask them to further elaborate, while leaving out what you must have had to infered in order to want to ask the question, in order to catch said person in an act of being offensive. Like you automaticaly assume thats our motive.

Should I do my part of theorising that you are just annoyed he is openly gay in the forums and acts like everyone else?

[QUOTE="SalmonCatching"][QUOTE="Peiner09"] this seems to be the 3rd or fourth thread about what to to for, or something personal about your gay relationship. And while it's not that that I care about, It's that I get the feeling your trying to push it onto off topic abit, like your not posting the thread to post the thread, but that theres a bigger motive. Like exposing it as much as you can, becouse you well.... can. I've also noticed that when somebody says something that could even be tooken remotely offensive about your sexuality, you ask them to further elaborate, while leaving out what you must have had to infered in order to want to ask the question, in order to catch said person in an act of being offensive. Like you automaticaly assume thats our motive.Peiner09

No. It's like niiicccceee.

[QUOTE="Peiner09"][QUOTE="SalmonCatching"] Wow, um... I don't even know how to respond to all of that. I think that if someone willingly came into a thread I made about a gay relationship - which all of my threads a definitely not about - and then said something offensive about gay people I would of course ask them why they thought that way. I don't think that's a strange reaction. At any given time that one of my four topics about being gay was on the front page I'm sure there were five or six topics about straight relationships. I don't really see the problem. You're saying that I have an agenda but how is asking for a birthday present or advice having an agenda? :(SalmonCatching

The reason I used that as an example is that it is a common joke between males to degrade women. A harmless action, that still shows the problem. Becouse if you were to use the same reasoning in a bigger situation, such as women not being able to drive such as in some contries, Then the fault would be apparent.

I actually make my girlfreind a sandwich very often, she likes it when I bring her a lunch. but like I said, It's a pet peeve I have about minorities that act unequal in an effort for equality, becouse they are typically on the short end of said equality issue.

But dude, I see your not really doing what I thought you were trying to start. I see you have a legit problem, so I no longer do.