If you could instanly change one thing about yourself what would it be?

It can be physcially, mentally, w/e O_o What would you change?

I would want to change my lazieness and turn it into a productive person who dose not procrastinate on everything :P

I would learn how to perform this thing called "small-talk"

When I have to talk about something for a purpose, I can talk like no tomorrow. But when It's small-talk I can't think of anything at all.

id change myself physically. If I were buff Id have no problems with people.

Yeah I would overhaul my physical appearance.

If only one specific thing I would be done with my losing weight. It takes TOO LONG BLARG!!!

Yeah I would overhaul my physical appearance.

If only one specific thing I would be done with my losing weight. It takes TOO LONG BLARG!!!

LostProphetFLCL

:wink: that'll do the trick in no time :P

Physically: everything...absolutely everything about the way I look (except for my height and teeth) Personality: lack of motivation/lazinesst3hrubikscube

[QUOTE="t3hrubikscube"]Physically: everything...absolutely everything about the way I look (except for my height and teeth) Personality: lack of motivation/lazinessenterawesome

I would like to have skin that reacts better to the cold, winter weather. :(

[QUOTE="enterawesome"][QUOTE="t3hrubikscube"]Physically: everything...absolutely everything about the way I look (except for my height and teeth) Personality: lack of motivation/lazinesst3hrubikscube

That I was able to talk to the ladies. I am an egg of shyness that needs to be cracked open. How I had a girlfriend for 18 months is beyond me, but alas that's in the past. And am back at square one and can't talk to the ladies.

[QUOTE="t3hrubikscube"][QUOTE="enterawesome"]Seriously? You can't look that bad. enterawesome

Lack of motivation and maybe a little bit more confidence :/Tropicalshower

seems this would make two of us

my low self esteem

[QUOTE="OreoMilkshake"]Live in Colorado instead of Jersey._en1gma_

[QUOTE="enterawesome"][QUOTE="t3hrubikscube"]I'm not an attractive person.t3hrubikscube

Physically: everything...absolutely everything about the way I look (except for my height and teeth) Personality: lack of motivation/lazinesst3hrubikscube

This, except maybe not so extreme for the physicl part, i think i look fine..

[QUOTE="OreoMilkshake"]Live in Colorado instead of Jersey._en1gma_

To grow a beard like this man:

[QUOTE="_en1gma_"][QUOTE="OreoMilkshake"] Why Colorado?OreoMilkshake

I would want to be able to walk.

I'm a very nervous person, so I would change that.

I would learn how to perform this thing called "small-talk"

When I have to talk about something for a purpose, I can talk like no tomorrow. But when It's small-talk I can't think of anything at all.

Luncbox1

im the same way

i suck at small talk

My body from "male" to "female" to better fit my gender. That would be incredible. Even if all it does is change my reproductive organs, gives me a body that produces estrogen, and (as my grandma calls them) mammaries, I'd be overwhelmingly happy. Bone structure change would be nice but beggars can't be choosers I suppose. There's plastic surgery for that if need be. :P Unfortunately, if it was that easy, it would be done already.Lockedge

You wouldn't mind getting cramps from your monthly cycle to go along with that? :P

[QUOTE="Lockedge"]My body from "male" to "female" to better fit my gender. That would be incredible. Even if all it does is change my reproductive organs, gives me a body that produces estrogen, and (as my grandma calls them) mammaries, I'd be overwhelmingly happy. Bone structure change would be nice but beggars can't be choosers I suppose. There's plastic surgery for that if need be. :P Unfortunately, if it was that easy, it would be done already.BladesOfAthena

You wouldn't mind getting cramps from your cycle to go along with that?

As I kept typing stuff here... I keep backspacing because someone in my life would get all mad that there is something about me that I wanted changed when they happen to love that about me. So I know come to the realization that I do not want to change anything as I love myself and others love me for it too. Sajedene

this ^

It makes sense.

I make sense - to me. So it´s all good i guess (:

my skull, in a smoother shape I guess also adding some confidence wouldn't hurt ;P

When I have to talk about something for a purpose, I can talk like no tomorrow. But when It's small-talk I can't think of anything at all.Luncbox1

I wish I could stop trying to figure out the point of everything. It makes it very hard to live and to be a part of others' lives. When you're constantly questioning everything and only finding more questions than answers it's disheartening. If I had less racing thoughts and anxieties I think I'd be much happier.

[QUOTE="Luncbox1"]When I have to talk about something for a purpose, I can talk like no tomorrow. But when It's small-talk I can't think of anything at all.markop2003

small-talking is as easy as just talking about something where everyone can reference to it somehow, draw parallels to it etc. "risk"-free if you will, not bringing in any political values or completely subjective stances.

This is why small-talking is awesome, it´s an almost guaranteed obtainable social construct giving gateway to the stuff that potentially matters more/is more appealing.

it doesent have to be unrewarding, like talking about the weather or what´s on the tabloids frontpage, and it does not have to be a "static" conversation. Practice makes perfect, and you´ll end up loving this lil´ communicative "tool". ;p

I'll change myself to of won the lottery, I keep trying. At the moment i'm only working because i'm forced too, but I want more time for my hobbies and I don't want to work hard for it or work hard to maintain it.

Other then that, if we want to get silly i'll like to change myself to have Stephen Kings 'Carrie' type powers, i'll crush the hearts of anyone I walk past if they so much as glare at me in a way I don't agree with.

My hair. I like the fact that I won't be bald but I wish my hair was loose with some weight and free flowing. Basically I wish it would listen to gravity instead of doing whatever it pleases :lol: