If you found out that your best friend likes men what would you do?

I'd hook up with him; after all, my bf is my best friend alsoxaos

not be shocked. i am marrying her.comp_atkins

[QUOTE="xaos"]I'd hook up with him; after all, my bf is my best friend alsoGatlingHammer

Does it matter? Nothing would change, although I might ask his opinion on some things.

not be shocked. i am marrying her.comp_atkins

I would ask if he digs me.

Does it matter? Nothing would change, although I might ask his opinion on some things.

Nagru

I actually just found that out recently.

I wouldn't care...prolly because I don't really have a "best" friend.

I actually just found that out recently actually.

SteverXIII

I wouldn't care...prolly because I don't really have a "best" friend.

tocklestein2005

[QUOTE="SteverXIII"]

I actually just found that out recently actually.

GatlingHammer

[QUOTE="SteverXIII"]

I actually just found that out recently actually.

GatlingHammer

I don't mean like legally or anything but would you still talk to him? For me, I'd like to say that I'd be open to that sort of thing but I don't know. It would be really tough.GatlingHammer

I don't see why it would be a problem.

I wouldn't care...prolly because I don't really have a "best" friend.

[QUOTE="GatlingHammer"][QUOTE="SteverXIII"]

I actually just found that out recently actually.

Lto_thaG

I wouldn't care...prolly because I don't really have a "best" friend.

Well, being that my best friend is a girl with a boyfriend, what should I do?

[QUOTE="GatlingHammer"][QUOTE="SteverXIII"]

I actually just found that out recently actually.

Lto_thaG

[QUOTE="SteverXIII"]

I actually just found that out recently actually.

GatlingHammer

I would ask if he digs me.

Lto_thaG

That would be weird, seeing as we've been best friends since like 4th grade, but hey, he's my best friend, can't ditch him for something so trivial as sexual preference.

We probably wouldn't be best friends anymore.

insert sadface

[QUOTE="Nagru"]

Does it matter? Nothing would change, although I might ask his opinion on some things.

GatlingHammer

I'm not quite sure right now. Just basic stuff about his situation, and probably a host of annoying cliche questions.

[QUOTE="Lto_thaG"]

I would ask if he digs me.

Wolls

I think you meant to sayhomosexual?

To answer the question, no it doesn't change anything

[QUOTE="comp_atkins"]not be shocked. i am marrying her.GatlingHammer

my bf is my best friend alsoxaos

I have had this happen with one of my childhood friends and a lot of my coworkers are either gay or bi. I have discussed the topic a great deal with them and continue to be friends with them. Heck, in the past few days I have had a bisexual girl explain to me her like and attraction to me. Sadly, we cannot go any farther than friendship due to holding to such radically different views. Just because I mention our need for repentance before a holy God on a regular basis doesn't mean we can't hang out and be friends. :Pmindstorm

[QUOTE="mindstorm"]I have had this happen with one of my childhood friends and a lot of my coworkers are either gay or bi. I have discussed the topic a great deal with them and continue to be friends with them. Heck, in the past few days I have had a bisexual girl explain to me her like and attraction to me. Sadly, we cannot go any farther than friendship due to holding to such radically different views. Just because I mention our need for repentance before a holy God on a regular basis doesn't mean we can't hang out and be friends. :PSteverXIII

I plan to be a pastor. That calling and spreading the Gospel message is more important to me than any relationship I might have with a female. If I spontaneously wished to become a missionary in a foreign country, how could I possibly expect a non-believing wife to go with me? Heck, the only reason why I'd even wish to be married is to have a partner to share Christ with while going through life.

Also, I did not turn her down because of her being bi, I turned her down because she doesn't love Jesus.

[QUOTE="SteverXIII"][QUOTE="mindstorm"]I have had this happen with one of my childhood friends and a lot of my coworkers are either gay or bi. I have discussed the topic a great deal with them and continue to be friends with them. Heck, in the past few days I have had a bisexual girl explain to me her like and attraction to me. Sadly, we cannot go any farther than friendship due to holding to such radically different views. Just because I mention our need for repentance before a holy God on a regular basis doesn't mean we can't hang out and be friends. :Pmindstorm

[QUOTE="mindstorm"][QUOTE="SteverXIII"] I find this to be quite sad. I believe in God also, but the fact that you cannot go further than a friendship because she is bi is unfortunate. Sometimes you have to put religion aside and go with your feelings. My parents are very religious and wouldn't be too happy with me saying this, but I think sometimes you have to go with your heart/SteverXIII

[QUOTE="mindstorm"][QUOTE="SteverXIII"] I find this to be quite sad. I believe in God also, but the fact that you cannot go further than a friendship because she is bi is unfortunate. Sometimes you have to put religion aside and go with your feelings. My parents are very religious and wouldn't be too happy with me saying this, but I think sometimes you have to go with your heart/SteverXIII

[QUOTE="SteverXIII"][QUOTE="mindstorm"] Been there, done that. Never again. I plan to be a pastor. That calling and spreading the Gospel message is more important to me than any relationship I might have with a female. If I spontaneously wished to become a missionary in a foreign country, how could I possibly expect a non-believing wife to go with me? Heck, the only reason why I'd even wish to be married is to have a partner to share Christ with while going through life.Head_of_games

Am I the only one confused about his Sig now? :P

Head_of_games

[QUOTE="Head_of_games"]Am I the only one confused about his Sig now? :P

GswSir

:D What so I cant like Slayer and believe in god? The lead singer is Roman Catholic.