Im in love! Strange topic....Any advice would be appreciated?

This is a true story. I have been wondering for a few years now if I were gay and then the other day I went to a fascion store and I met this incredible sweet and beautiful young man about my ageand from that point on I just felt, that was it! you now the feeling......Like wanting to spend the rest of my life together with him. I was only in the store for ½ an hour but I can say that I am in love or even love this guy. I have never felt this before and im 26 years old. Now im from Denmark and he lives in Copenhagen and I live quite a distance from him. I don't know what to do. Im good a writing poetry and I just got the feeling, the way we exchanged glanses and talked to each other. He was from Norway so I had a bit of a hard time understanding him, which was very sweet. Now I don't know if he is homoseksuel, but I have a feeling he is, by his looks and my intuition and I cannot stop thinking about him. What can I do? Send him a letter and tell him how I feel or write poetry? I realize that many dislike people that are homoseksuel, but I don't care about that. I love this man I really do, I really just don't know how to approach this. Any help would be so very much appreciated.

Tell him how you feel! A simple letter would do, but poetry would be a nice touch.

well im not sure if your in love but if you really like this guy you should ask him out on a date and get to know him better and see if he feels the same way

You should tell him how you feel. Remember, if it turns out that he isn't gay it's not the end of the world. You don't want to get too hung up on him before you even know his sexual orientation.

cool story, sis

pvtdonut54

Really? Necessary?

Anyways...I would ask him on a date.

I've been fooled, I thought this thread was going to be about a guy falling in love with a girl......cyberdarkkid

Ask him out on a date! It's the only way to find out if you can have a relationship. :PSkylinePigeon

I've been fooled, I thought this thread was going to be about a guy falling in love with a girl......cyberdarkkid

Take my steps

1) Ask if he has a girlfriend. Hope he says No

2) Ask if he has a boyfriend, hope he says no, but blushes

3) Give him a cheeky little wink ;)

4) Take him back to your place to do stuff, but never post the pictures on OT

have fun :)

Dont send a letter. Letters are a thing of the past. Email is the way of the present and the way of the foreseeablefuture

Take my steps

1) Ask if he has a girlfriend. Hope he says No

2) Ask if he has a boyfriend, hope he says no, but blushes

3) Give him a cheeky little wink ;)

4) Take him back to your place to do stuff, but never post the pictures on OT

have fun :)

Take my steps

1) Ask if he has a girlfriend. Hope he says No

2) Ask if he has a boyfriend, hope he says no, but blushes

3) Give him a cheeky little wink ;)

4) Take him back to your place to do stuff, but never post the pictures on OT

have fun :)

Take my steps

1) Ask if he has a girlfriend. Hope he says No

2) Ask if he has a boyfriend, hope he says no, but blushes

3) Give him a cheeky little wink ;)

4) Take him back to your place to do stuff, but never post the pictures on OT

have fun :)

my joke thread senses r tingling :o

I've been fooled, I thought this thread was going to be about a guy falling in love with a girl......cyberdarkkid

Don't tell him you love him, that could kinda creep him out.xTheExploited

lotta Danes on the boards lately O.o oh my G*d we aremultiplying O.o

Ok joke aside. that is a hard nut my friend... mostly because you are not sure if he swings that way.

I would say you could try to hang out with him a bit, and observe him, and ask him if he sends enough signals that you are sure, besides it is always nice to hang out with eye candy ;)

Or you could just go for it, asking him about being ho*osexual (seriously word restriction is a pain when these topics pop up), would be bad, even if he is he would maybe deny it for varrious reasons, and hitting on something in a store is just not good etiuqette, I would likely ask him out for a cup of coffe (corny I know, just an equalant will do), somewhere more private and then ask. If he is not, or just not interrested, then atleast you tryied. Could be worse... you could NOT have tryied.

Normally tho there are tell tale signs weather what sexuality a person has, so perhaps just observing him a bit will settle it?

Ask him how he feels.

well im not sure if your in love but if you really like this guy you should ask him out on a date and get to know him better and see if he feels the same way

wildjango64

You may make friend with him first before going that far.

Ask him if he wants to hang out.

This is a true story. I have been wondering for a few years now if I were gay and then the other day I went to a fascion store and I met this incredible sweet and beautiful young man about my ageand from that point on I just felt, that was it! you now the feeling......Like wanting to spend the rest of my life together with him. I was only in the store for ½ an hour but I can say that I am in love or even love this guy. I have never felt this before and im 26 years old. Now im from Denmark and he lives in Copenhagen and I live quite a distance from him. I don't know what to do. Im good a writing poetry and I just got the feeling, the way we exchanged glanses and talked to each other. He was from Norway so I had a bit of a hard time understanding him, which was very sweet. Now I don't know if he is homoseksuel, but I have a feeling he is, by his looks and my intuition and I cannot stop thinking about him. What can I do? Send him a letter and tell him how I feel or write poetry? I realize that many dislike people that are homoseksuel, but I don't care about that. I love this man I really do, I really just don't know how to approach this. Any help would be so very much appreciated.

ZiggyStardust16

Go for it. And get his number while your at it.

You should tell him how you feel. Remember, if it turns out that he isn't gay it's not the end of the world. You don't want to get too hung up on him before you even know his sexual orientation.

Parandrus

Theokhoth would be a good person to speak about it with.

2 men weren't supposed to be together!!! God created man and woman for one reason... Leave that crazy idea and get a girlfriend

Touch his shoulder. Works every time. 8)

2 men weren't supposed to be together!!! God created man and woman for one reason... Leave that crazy idea and get a girlfriend

ThomasMaster

Love is love mate, if two men or women love each other let them be together it isn't hurting anyone.

Go for it dude... And tell him the truth... that your you haven't asked a guy out before and that you wanted to go out with him. But you have to make sure he's gay first.

And thats always the hard part. Cause Bi-curious guys are not good people to date...:x No offense... but its true...

2 men weren't supposed to be together!!! God created man and woman for one reason... Leave that crazy idea and get a girlfriend

ThomasMaster

Love is love mate, if two men or women love each other let them be together it isn't hurting anyone.

DarkGamer007

2 men weren't supposed to be together!!! God created man and woman for one reason... Leave that crazy idea and get a girlfriend

ThomasMaster

Yeah don't listen to this guy... Follow your heart...

I appreciate the answers, you are all very kind and understanding. To be frank, im a beautiful guy myself, most people tell me this. There I just had to spout it out. Maybe it doesn't sound humble, but the point is -I would never have the guts to acts on my impulses if I could't measure up to this guy in terms of looks- im a bit of a narcassist - But Im telling even you guys, that if you saw this divine being created by gods grace, whom Im in love with, you would also at least be fascinated or perhaps even attracted to him, even if you are not gay Me - I just got that feeling right from the start that this was it. My heart is aching.

I have't got the slighest idea if I could find him on Facebook. I only know him by looks, the store he works atand that he is from Norway. Thats it. How could I find him on Facebook? I began wondering writing a letter to him - not telling him that im in love with him, but well - I watched this clip with Charlie Chaplin from the movie "Monsieur Verdoux"and could anyone write all the dialogue he says to that elderly woman when he is talking to her on the phone from 3.10-4.10. It was something along those lines I would write to him. Im not able to write it all myself, since English is not my first language, but what he says is so beautiful, even though Chaplins is a charlatan and afraud in this movie.Here's the link:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7BzyQ4YF95Y&feature=PlayList&p=E0FC19E63BD4FFF9&index=9

Just write down your number and facebook and give it to him, if he contacts you then cool, if he doesnt just forget about him. Maybe dont go back to that store...

Well im not a religious person - Just a way of expressing myself.

Well about writing down the number! The problem is, he is in Copenhagen and I live in a completely different region of Denmark far away from him and I won't be going to Copenhagen for a month and and - im at a loss for words

I wonder if I'll ever see him again*cry*

Well im not a religious person - Just a way of expressing myself.

ZiggyStardust16

No, every look, tone, gesture, is engraved in my mind. He is everything one can possible dream of - Saint, sinner, snake, gazelle, angel all in one. I nearly cannot express it in words. Only a symphony could say it. The music of the spheres. I felt right at that moment, that there was a deep wordless understanding between us. It was in his eyes - Like the loneliness of distant stars. I simply is in love with him, like I have neverbeenbefore.

I truly wonder if I'll ever see him again.

Thats how I feel