im in really confusing situation what would you do if you were me ?

ok so i have a girlfriend and we both loves each other since we were high school. so yeah i was thinking about marrying her. but she doesnt want to have kids. unlike me i really2 want to have kids because the way that my dad take care of me make me want to have one. so yeah what would you do if you were me should seperate or should i marry her?

If she doesn't want kids, and you do, then I doubt it will work.

Usually its the other way around...

If you love her then marry her. Even if you never have kids, you will still have a good relationship.

If she doesn't want kids, and you do, then I doubt it will work.

curtdoggLP5

The fact that you bring up so early in your reletionship makes me reach the conclusion that you're too inexpirenced to even know what a real commitment to somebody means. If your reletionship revolves around the fact you want to have children.. then you probably shouldnt even be in one to begin with.

gamespot OT: giving reliable, professional relationship advice since 1979

:P

but anyways, to answer the question, you probably aren't going to be able to change her mind, and you probably aren't going to change your mind about wanting kids, so honestly, it might not work out between yall :/

That is a massive difference in opinion. Maybe stay for a while longer if you think she might change her mind, but if you thinnk theres no way shes gonna change her mind maybe you need to call it off im afraid :(

gamespot OT: giving reliable, professional relationship advice since 1979

:P

but anyways, to answer the question, you probably aren't going to be able to change her mind, and you probably aren't going to change your mind about wanting kids, so honestly, it might not work out between yall :/

needled24-7

Or maybe since 1995? :)

Don't worry, she will want kids soon or later, women are like so :P Give her some time maybe?

I suppose you could always send your soldiers in on a covert op.

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gamespot OT: giving reliable, professional relationship advice since 1979

:P

but anyways, to answer the question, you probably aren't going to be able to change her mind, and you probably aren't going to change your mind about wanting kids, so honestly, it might not work out between yall :/

Crimsader

Or maybe since 1995? :)

Don't worry, she will want kids soon or later, women are like so :P Give her some time maybe?

Don't worry, she will want kids soon or later, women are like so :P Give her some time maybe?

Crimsader

Although not as numerous as those that do, there are plenty of girls that do not want kids

[QUOTE="Crimsader"]Don't worry, she will want kids soon or later, women are like so :P Give her some time maybe?

rawsavon

Although not as numerous as those that do, there are plenty of girls that do not want kids

[QUOTE="Crimsader"]Don't worry, she will want kids soon or later, women are like so :P Give her some time maybe?

Although not as numerous as those that do, there are plenty of girls that do not want kids

[QUOTE="Crimsader"][QUOTE="rawsavon"]

Although not as numerous as those that do, there are plenty of girls that do not want kids

rawsavon

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="Crimsader"] "What better than that" I would say :lol:CyleM

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[QUOTE="rawsavon"] They are the best kind of girls IMOrawsavon

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="CyleM"] you are probably right, they would have more time for alone time with you in the end since they won't be tired all the time from having kids running around the house... or at least that is what they say

CyleM

I can see that...
-I would just have to skip the annoying baby and teenage years

[QUOTE="CyleM"][QUOTE="rawsavon"] Not talking trash about your kid. But they just get in the way of "life" for me...I am just too selfish. But they are important...just watch "children of men"...just important for others to have them ;)rawsavon

I can see that...
-I would just have to skip the annoying baby and teenage years

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[QUOTE="CyleM"] Oh I know you aren't talking trash about them but I totally understand where you come from... he wasn't planned it just kinda happened, but it is fun though now that he is in my life... I have a reason to act childish again without getting in trouble from the old lady... CyleM

I can see that...
-I would just have to skip the annoying baby and teenage years

Exactly :)

-so I just need to lease a kid for a few years, return, then lease again

guys the only reason she doesnt want a child is because she dont want to experience giving birth and sex(i think). not because of she dont want to take care of it. dang i dunno what to do

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I can see that...
-I would just have to skip the annoying baby and teenage years

rawsavon

Exactly :)

-so I just need to lease a kid for a few years, return, then lease again

The fact that you bring up so early in your reletionship makes me reach the conclusion that you're too inexpirenced to even know what a real commitment to somebody means. If your reletionship revolves around the fact you want to have children.. then you probably shouldnt even be in one to begin with.

EMOEVOLUTION

Uh... what? Procreation is a perfectly valid reason for a longterm relationship.

Just wait a while she have instincts that will kick in making her want kids. Unless shes one of theses lady boys.