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How about...not worrying about people who don't like you? If they will not contribute to the quality of your life then just continue on without them. Simple as that. No need to be sick of life. Just get rid of the things, in a strictly non-violent manner, that do not add to your advancement and happiness.
Do what I do. Don't talk to them.wht if some of those ppl are ur family
ibiza563
Why do people think that? The only advantage we have is that we are born into a male-centric society that puts us a step above women in every conceivable way. Thus the male-female double standards. :PBut seriously, being a guy is hard work. We make it look easy, but ask any guy - this **** is hard.somestims i wish i was a boy rather than a girl i think life is easy for them
ibiza563
Dude, cheer up.
Things could be worse.
Life is too short, and feeling down does not change a thing. Show your enemies that you're better than them, don't let them get to you.
Do what I do. Don't talk to them.[QUOTE="ibiza563"]
wht if some of those ppl are ur family
clayron
Why do people think that? The only advantage we have is that we are born into a male-centric society that puts us a step above women in every conceivable way. Thus the male-female double standards. :PBut seriously, being a guy is hard work. We make it look easy, but ask any guy - this **** is hard. but atleast if i ws a guy i wouldnt fall in love with anyone like girls do and men dont seem to understadn themsomestims i wish i was a boy rather than a girl i think life is easy for them
ibiza563
but atleast if i ws a guy i wouldnt fall in love with anyone like girls do and men dont seem to understadn themibiza563
1: You largely control who you fall "In love" with. Don't make yourself so emotionally available to everyone you meet. Be selective. Have a screening process.
2. Men don't understand women. Women don't understand men. Its a fact of life. We have wee-wees. Women have hoo-hoos. Beyond that, everything is a mystery for both sexes. People try, people fail. The most you can do is develop some strong friendship and hope they understand you.
Ignore them, that's what I do. Be strong and strive to be better than them (even if you already are). It's not always possible, but their opinions don't really matter anyway...
Sounds to me like you need somewhere that you can get away from stuff when you are feeling low. I recomend finding a really calm, relaxing spot that you feel good in and staying there until you feel ok :)Wollsthats normally my room but someone always wnts to get in chapping the door all the time and tht makes me mad
[QUOTE="Wolls"]Sounds to me like you need somewhere that you can get away from stuff when you are feeling low. I recomend finding a really calm, relaxing spot that you feel good in and staying there until you feel ok :)ibiza563thats normally my room but someone always wnts to get in chapping the door all the time and tht makes me mad Well yea i dont know where you live but somewhere away from anyone else is usually the best solution. Personally ive learned that when im in a really bad mood its best not to try to effect anyone else with it but to deal with it myself. it usually goes away after an hour or so, but until that time i dont wanna piss people off so i disappear until im good again :)
[QUOTE="ibiza563"][QUOTE="Wolls"]Sounds to me like you need somewhere that you can get away from stuff when you are feeling low. I recomend finding a really calm, relaxing spot that you feel good in and staying there until you feel ok :)Wollsthats normally my room but someone always wnts to get in chapping the door all the time and tht makes me mad Well yea i dont know where you live but somewhere away from anyone else is usually the best solution. Personally ive learned that when im in a really bad mood its best not to try to effect anyone else with it but to deal with it myself. it usually goes away after an hour or so, but until that time i dont wanna piss people off so i disappear until im good again :) im from scotland in the uk
[QUOTE="Wolls"][QUOTE="ibiza563"] thats normally my room but someone always wnts to get in chapping the door all the time and tht makes me madibiza563Well yea i dont know where you live but somewhere away from anyone else is usually the best solution. Personally ive learned that when im in a really bad mood its best not to try to effect anyone else with it but to deal with it myself. it usually goes away after an hour or so, but until that time i dont wanna piss people off so i disappear until im good again :) im from scotland in the uk
Oh I thought you were from Ibiza :? Is Ibiza your favorite vacation place or something?
First drop the negative attitude, it isn't going to get you anywhere. Second go out with a friend and do something together such as the movies, talking, and general hanging out. And if some of those 'enemies' are your family sit down and calmly talk to them about how you don't like blah blah blah happening to you. If you did something on your part to piss them off, apologize and try not to do it again.
And if it is your parents you claim that hate you. Firstly they're giving you a roof and a computer, I certainly wouldn't give those things to my enemies. They're not your enemies and I'm going to assume that you 'hate' them because you wouldn't follow their rules (I am a teenager and I sometimes experience annoyance that I cannot get my way) in that case it is their house, they don't hate you. They just want you to follow some guidelines to make sure everyone will get along.
somestims i wish i was a boy rather than a girl i think life is easy for them
ibiza563
You have no idea what you're saying.
Anyway, I believe that a well-liked person who constantly worries about what everyone thinks about them has way bigger problems than someone who isn't as liked but has no concern for the personal opinions of others.
A few good friends that you're comfortable around is all you need, and if you have that then what someone thinks about you is the least of your worries.
The first step in not hating life is to suck it up, stop being negative and stop being immature. You don't have "enemies". You have people you dislike. If these "enemies" are your family, I'm going to take a wild guess and say that they're "enemies" to you because they don't let you run wild and they have basic ground rules, not because they abused you or starved you or harmed you in some other way. And if they don't like you in return, maybe it's because you have a bad attitude. The majority of teenagers who "hate" their parents only hate them because they refuse to cater to their crap attitudes. and really, people knock on your bedroom door, boo hoo. If you live with other people, who either completely or in part pay for the place you live, you have to deal with it. I really can't feel sorry for you because it seems like most of your problems are caused by your attitude rather than actually being in a bad situation.XilePrincess
I have to agree here. I have never quite, and still can't quite understand the general attitude of teenagers, even though I am one myself. I can't fathom the idea of being sad, personally, as I have so much to be happy for. Number one being of course that I am alive. My brother was mutilated by doctors in an attempt to save him before suffocating to death as the cancer had spread to his lungs. Every day you wake up, you can choose between being happy and being sad, and I see no reason to choose anything but happy, as you are alive and healthy, and to be ungrateful for the many blessings you possess is disgusting. In fact, if you have time to be complaining about the supposed difficulty of your life, you must have a pretty easy life, considering those with truly hard lives don't have time to complain.
This should cheer you up.
http://uk.gamespot.com/pages/forums/show_msgs.php?topic_id=27380168&tag=topics%3Btitle
[QUOTE="ibiza563"]Walk in it. It actually does feel relaxing to me. introverts/extraverts get energized with different actionsits raining here
dave123321
[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="dave123321"] Walk in it. It actually does feel relaxing to me.rawsavonintroverts/extraverts get energized with different actions But there are some actions we can all agree upon ;) Actions that involve introverting and extroverting, back and forth...forever.
But there are some actions we can all agree upon ;) Actions that involve introverting and extroverting, back and forth...forever. 'forever'...damn, you are a lot better at that game than I am[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="lightleggy"] introverts/extraverts get energized with different actionsbruinfan617
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