In one month from now i ll be 18 :(

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#1 big_boss4life
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And i havent done anything with my life :( i lived in 3 different continents, i know langueges, learning a 3rd one.

Virgin, never even touch a girls shoulders :cry: never got drunk, never got high, i ve only smoke like 10 cigarrets my whole life.

I dont have any good friends, i feel like an outkaster everywhere i go. I live with my mother :(:( i m a mamas boy :( i feel so depress right now. Any of you guys feel the same?

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#2 Jackboot343
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youre not alone
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#3 DeeJayInphinity
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Wow.. you consider getting drunk, high, and smoking tons of cigarettes a "good" life. IMO that's the saddest part about this.
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#4 big_boss4life
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Wow.. you consider getting drunk, high, and smoking tons of cigarettes a "good" life. IMO that's the saddest part about this.DeeJayInphinity

nope but, i always wanted to try it, adn see if is it as good as everybody says...

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#5 tocool340
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[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]Wow.. you consider getting drunk, high, and smoking tons of cigarettes a "good" life. IMO that's the saddest part about this.big_boss4life

nope but, i always wanted to try it, adn see if is it as good as everybody says...

I was the most horrible experience for me. I just turned 18 three months ago....
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#6 SoulSlayer_
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youre not aloneJackboot343
Nope, you're not. I'm pretty much in the same position and will turn 18 in a month (minus 4 days) also. I don't really mind my lifestyle though.
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And i havent done anything with my life :( i lived in 3 different continents, i know langueges, learning a 3rd one.

Virgin, never even touch a girls shoulders :cry: never got drunk, never got high, i ve only smoke like 10 cigarrets my whole life.

I dont have any good friends, i feel like an outkaster everywhere i go. I live with my mother :(:( i m a mamas boy :( i feel so depress right now. Any of you guys feel the same?

big_boss4life

Well you have already travelled quite alot which i for one certainly wont to do and im sure many others do so thats one thign you've done. If you smoke your just cutting the time you have to do things and you can easily get high or get laid lol. And for the living with the mother thing, thats totally normal. Heck my bro is 23 and still lives at home :P

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And i havent done anything with my life :( i lived in 3 different continents, i know langueges, learning a 3rd one.

Virgin, never even touch a girls shoulders :cry: never got drunk, never got high, i ve only smoke like 10 cigarrets my whole life.

I dont have any good friends, i feel like an outkaster everywhere i go. I live with my mother :(:( i m a mamas boy :( i feel so depress right now. Any of you guys feel the same?

big_boss4life
Dude, there is way more to life than getting high or smoking. Go skydiving, go out to eat, meet some friends, (go to a club perhaps) if it's your confidence level that bothers you go to a gym and start working out. I mean it's up to you, it's your life.
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[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]Wow.. you consider getting drunk, high, and smoking tons of cigarettes a "good" life. IMO that's the saddest part about this.big_boss4life

nope but, i always wanted to try it, adn see if is it as good as everybody says...

Smoking is bad for your health. Drinking is bad for your health. Getting high is bad for your... well, not legal. These things are more socially constructed than valuable in and of themselves.

Feel proud that you are learning languages. Not everyone can do that. I can't.

Especially don't feel bad about not having a girlfriend. I'm twenty and I still haven't had one. Nor do I currently want one. All women do is mess up the way you look at things, and they confuse the hell out of you. Personally, I don't feel that it's worth it. And that's why I'll probably die single. :P

But don't worry. I know how you feel. Many of us have been there or are there.

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And i havent done anything with my life :( i lived in 3 different continents, i know langueges, learning a 3rd one.

Virgin, never even touch a girls shoulders :cry: never got drunk, never got high, i ve only smoke like 10 cigarrets my whole life.

I dont have any good friends, i feel like an outkaster everywhere i go. I live with my mother :(:( i m a mamas boy :( i feel so depress right now. Any of you guys feel the same?

big_boss4life

Why is it bad? All those things are not alloud if your a minor. You can't drink, can't get high, yeah you can smoke, but smoking is crap anyways. About being virgin just wait to get a girl (or boy your preference:P) you really love so its a special moment. Don't feel so depressed man, it will get better from now on!

BTW in a month from now I'll become 18 too:) 15th of december:D

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#11 big_boss4life
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Thanks guys for all the support :(:(:(:( I wanted to get high, and drink... because all the people i know @school do that, the cool guys, and i always wanted to belong to some grup :(:( i know i probably i shouldnt be thinking this way.... but sh**t i hvent done anything exiting, besides traveling ;(
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#12 solidgamer
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well switch it up and start fresh with the big 18 you can do it!
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#13 pazz999
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wellwe must be the complete opposite because i am 18 in 3 months and personally cannot wait, i mean weekends and my social life practically iare my life yer i work mon-fri in a factory but so what the moneys good seeing as i dont have any bills so i just spendit on the latest gadgets clothes and on partying. seriously i couldnt be much happier with what ive got ryt now
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#14 kulmiye
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Thanks guys for all the support :(:(:(:( I wanted to get high, and drink... because all the people i know @school do that, the cool guys, and i always wanted to belong to some grup :(:( i know i probably i shouldnt be thinking this way.... but sh**t i hvent done anything exiting, besides traveling ;(big_boss4life

Those cool people at school won't be cool for very long ;)...

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#15 Solid_Snake325
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Dude nothing to be ashamed about, that's good that you're not doing drugs, I turned 18 recently and I'm a mommas boy and a virgin, not worried about it though, I just have high standards for friends, have about three good friends that I talk to, get on gamespot and play video games, and hang out with the family. Don't let people tell you that you have to have 20 friends, a girlfriend, and a good experience with getting high to have a good life :)
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Thanks guys for all the support :(:(:(:( I wanted to get high, and drink... because all the people i know @school do that, the cool guys, and i always wanted to belong to some grup :(:( i know i probably i shouldnt be thinking this way.... but sh**t i hvent done anything exiting, besides traveling ;(big_boss4life

Dude, I would love to have had the opportunity to travel around, though it would be hard to not be able to stay with the same people throughout the school system.

I know what you mean about getting high (mods, we mean high on life...) and it's been a thought a few times here at college due to some of the insane amounts of work I've had to do at times, but I've either just kept going or vegged out for a while. My friends get high every now and then; one night I was with them, and it actually made it easier for me not to, because it was like I was living through them in a way, lol.

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#17 Guiltfeeder566
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Same as you, only i have never left the states and only know english.
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#18 muthsera666
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Honestly, I would recommend reading Socrates (through Plato) if you want a good idea on what is the "good life." I have to say that it meshes well with my personal philosophy, and I think that if more people followed it, then the world would be a better place. Anyway, thus ends my spiel.
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And i havent done anything with my life :( i lived in 3 different continents, i know langueges, learning a 3rd one.

big_boss4life

Well that's SOMETHING isn't it?

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#20 wrlyy
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I don't blame you, I would probably feel the same. I'm 18 in about 5 months and I'm pretty happy with myself so far, although 3 languages would kick ass.
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[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]Wow.. you consider getting drunk, high, and smoking tons of cigarettes a "good" life. IMO that's the saddest part about this.big_boss4life

nope but, i always wanted to try it, adn see if is it as good as everybody says...

It's overrated.
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#22 BuryMe
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damn, that sucks. You can't even be tried as a minor any more.

I'm in the same boat as you. I've never done aynthing with my life, and i'll be 18 in may.

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#23 cametall
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Sweet, 1 month from today I turn 22.

I didn't read your post though.

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#24 quiglythegreat
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If it makes you feel any better, I'm really happy right now.
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#25 KJAX90
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[QUOTE="big_boss4life"]

[QUOTE="DeeJayInphinity"]Wow.. you consider getting drunk, high, and smoking tons of cigarettes a "good" life. IMO that's the saddest part about this.tocool340

nope but, i always wanted to try it, adn see if is it as good as everybody says...

I was the most horrible experience for me. I just turned 18 three months ago....

That sucks for you, because I loved it. Just make sure you do it with good friends the first time....oh wait...

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#26 Jersey_Guy
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Dude, girls digg it if you can speak many languages. Also, 18 don't mean s**t, I'm waiting for 21 (I'm 20) so I can live it up in Vegas/Atlantic City, woohoo! You get to drink legally, which is nice. I tend to like women a year or two older than me, so at 19 it really sucked because all the 21 year old girls would just tease me and grab my cheeks. They thought they were being cute and everything but I hated it. Seems like when I reach 21, all the women (not girls anymore ;)) in the 22-25 range are all game.

Anyways, that last part is mostly speculation so I'll let you all know how it goes next year. haha.

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#27 mira_alex
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Umm maybe is Gamespot fault, cuz try to go out place and meet ppl and meet girls is not that hard.
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Thanks guys for all the support :(:(:(:( I wanted to get high, and drink... because all the people i know @school do that, the cool guys, and i always wanted to belong to some grup :(:( i know i probably i shouldnt be thinking this way.... but sh**t i hvent done anything exiting, besides traveling ;(big_boss4life

I love my life right now. I drink and get high at least once a week at parties or gatherings with my friends. ANd I like to think that Im very well known at my school as cocky as that might sound. I started ignoring the girl who likes me because I bled my heart out to her and she was like "ive liked you for a very long time but you drive me crazy", so now she starts calling me to see what shes missing (I was TOO nice to her).

My point? Drinking and getting high does not make you cool. Its like saying youre gonna get into a car crash if you buy a car. It only happens if youre a bad driver. You only drink and get high if youre friends do that. Doing it doesnt make you cool. Its merely a side effect of having close friends who enjoy that, and it's fun, but not NECESSARY.

You can find people to make your own group, or work your way through your school. Be more sociable. Im sorry I dont know you in person so i could help you more. And dont worry about not having a girl. They mess with ur mind. Most recently, the girl who I like and likes me back has been messing with me, like i said earlier. Her best friend said this girl wants to be with me, but when Im nice to her she backs away. So ive ignored her for 3 weeks and she starts calling.....wtf.

So like I said I love my life, and I will ball my eyes out when high school is over. Im a senior...

Make your life something you want to be proud of. We all start at zero.

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#29 L8erSquare
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Get a job and a car and you will be able to do whatever it is you want when you want. But just stay away from drugs, they are hard to quit even after one little puff.
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#30 -hotaru-
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It can't be that bad, I mean come on you're only 17. If it makes you feel any better I'm 18 and still a virgin...who cares? My guess is you watched Superbad and think that's how life is; the movie is just an exaggeration.

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#31 helium_flash
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You know freaing TWO languages... do you haveany idea how lucky you are?
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#32 Shiggums
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Well...nope. I mean, living with your parents at age 18 is kinda normal. If you were like 35, then there'd be something wrong.
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#33 whoody12
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tss, you feel bad becouse your 18 and haven't done anything

Iam 15 and feel bad my life is mostly about drugs/sex/alcohol then it is about school

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#34 ayanami_rei
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Dude, you have it backwards. I rather travel and learn different languages rather than smoking, drinking, getting high, etc.
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#35 Shiggums
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tss, you feel bad becouse your 18 and haven't done anything

Iam 15 and feel bad my life is mostly about drugs/sex/alcohol then it is about school

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Nothing wrong with that lifestyIe ;). Except school. Weak.